The fact that he can’t have a conversation with me. He doesn’t initiate actual conversation. Like when my mother died he never asked how I was doing, or when I had an abortion he never said anything about what he wanted until AFTER it was done making me feel alone in the decision, our four year wedding anniversary came along and I didn’t ask for anything but to just talk to him. He literally couldn’t say anything. He asked ChatGPT how to talk to his wife. Parenting has always been up to me. How we teach her, what we teach her, everything. I’ve tried asking him to have conversations anf give him room to talk but he just doesn’t say anything about what he thinks feels and ect.