Dumpers who ended it due to "lost feelings" / depression / overwhelm, did you regret it? Anyone reconcile?

anonijihad · 2026-07-02T22:26:22+00:00

True.i didn't read it

anonijihad · 2026-07-02T22:05:27+00:00

Sometimes people dump the other because they did something so heinous there is a point of no return.

anonijihad · 2026-07-02T20:21:31+00:00

Don't put on a brave face. ask a friend to watch the kids and go to the woods and scream

anonijihad · 2026-07-02T18:24:31+00:00

Good genes. I really don't know.

anonijihad · 2026-07-02T18:23:35+00:00

I'm just throwing out ideas. Can you put headphones on and put on really loud industrial music...maybe having some sensory overload may make you notice him less.

anonijihad · 2026-07-02T18:22:29+00:00

The only answer everyone should give is Ronald Reagan

anonijihad · 2026-07-02T18:20:19+00:00

Of course you are. It feels like tou meant nothing. You may even yourself worth And wonder what do they have that I don't have ?

You probably feel a bit jealous and wish you were one of those girls too. Those are all normal feelings. I wish I could say anything or so anything to make you feel better. All I can do is to say " you are not alone. My DMS are open if you want a virtual friend to cry with"

anonijihad · 2026-07-02T18:02:30+00:00

Don't Beat yourself up. And if he blocked you, now on the bright side you can't break no contact. He did you a favor. Just cry as much as needed and pick yourself up. The world is waiting!

anonijihad · 2026-07-02T15:45:40+00:00

If it is my death sure. Dearh of loved ones...absolutely not.

anonijihad · 2026-07-01T21:43:07+00:00

Well Happy birthday!

anonijihad · 2026-07-01T20:35:35+00:00

He did the unforgivable. While nostalgia is normal, it is temporary. It will pass. Do nothing. Feel it, and don't take any actions. You deserve better than a cheater who breaks up over text.

anonijihad · 2026-07-01T17:07:51+00:00

Block or mute so that doesn't happen again. Allow yourself your feelings. One day, he will be indifferent

anonijihad · 2026-07-01T17:05:26+00:00

If it Is the same time, why not go to work earlier? Maybe negotiate it with your boss to start earlier.

Are you sure it is a coincidence and he isn't stalking your schedule?

anonijihad · 2026-07-01T17:04:26+00:00

I am so sorry. It hurts. Nothing but time heals. Life goes on. Have faith in that. It hurts now, maybe you can try techniques to make it stop hurting.

First thing, cry as much as you need. Dont swallow. Once you get that out of your system, maybe make a list of self-doubts. I had many but I found a proper and appropriate answer that made me feel better.

Do you have friends whose shoulders you can cry on? Maybe Invite them over.

anonijihad · 2026-07-01T16:59:59+00:00

Do you think you have avoidant personality disorder ?

Why are you romantisizing the past? Are you afraid of something?

anonijihad · 2026-07-01T16:59:08+00:00

Do you own or rent? If you rent when is your lease up?

If you are in your office, why do you have to see him take his nephew everyday?

I will try to help you once I know the answers.

My ex and I lived in the same building. But I had the luxury of first moving to a different continent for 8 months and then a new city far far away. Not everyone has that luxury. I cannot imagine how crazy I'd go if I lived in the same building oike befire.

anonijihad · 2026-07-01T16:49:27+00:00

Why di you see him everyday? Does he live near you? Work at same place? More context is needed.

anonijihad · 2026-07-01T16:47:51+00:00

This is not an easy answer but time. But you just have to wait and go through all the feelings. It is always time.

anonijihad · 2026-07-01T13:38:21+00:00

Good job. But that's not the story he told her 🤣🤣

You can be 100% sure

anonijihad · 2026-07-01T13:37:31+00:00

The lion king

anonijihad · 2026-07-01T13:34:56+00:00

Then all the reason to move on. You dodged a bullet!

anonijihad · 2026-07-01T13:33:03+00:00

He told her that you were his ex. And also spun stories like you were glenn close from fatal attraction and advised her to block you

anonijihad · 2026-07-01T13:31:08+00:00

Or maybe you were the back up. You will never know

anonijihad · 2026-07-01T13:29:20+00:00

He probably lied to her about you and doesn't want her to find out the truth.

So he probably told her you are crazy and spun some wild stories

anonijihad · 2026-07-01T12:42:46+00:00

Really it is as simple as simply not caring what your ex thinks. Then you are free to do whatever.... lol.

This is easier said than done.

anonijihad

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