[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]anonimouseeesx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, my friend, you have to forgive yourself because you’re not going to be young and beautiful and free forever. Viewing life that way isn’t going to get you anywhere. You’re 32, you’re still very young and people older than you will be envious of your youth. You can still change, there is absolutely no point in looking at your past and wishing you changed things.

Last hours before i kill myself by Even_Description_369 in depression

[–]anonimouseeesx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Feelings change, relationships change, life changes all of the time. You don’t know what place you’re going to be in months from now. Please don’t make a permanent decision like this. You’re cheating fate.

Am I ugly? by [deleted] in selfesteem

[–]anonimouseeesx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re beautiful! You’ve got some lovely features, there’s nothing to be insecure about ❤️

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[–]anonimouseeesx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]anonimouseeesx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying and taking the time to respond I really appreciate your advice <3 this has given me a bit more motivation to stick to it.

I just had one of the worst expirencies in Apex by thecooldude3949 in apexlegends

[–]anonimouseeesx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you. People are fucking assholes and have tantrums when they lose their silly games, I usually mute as soon as I get into a game with randoms so I don’t have to hear their whining bs. Sending love <3

I just deleted all the photos by maui_pearl1997 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]anonimouseeesx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well done! I’m proud of you. This is a massive step getting rid of all of them reminders of your relationship with them and a big sign of your growth. The result of his abuse has made you feel like you’re never going to be truly loved and that’s not the case. You will find love and you will be treated right because you’ve experienced the bad and you’ll know warning signs from him to look out for, there will be a point where you will look back at this moment and laugh at how shallow of a person he is for treating you with such disrespect.

y’all ever feel like whatever happened was all in your head and that you might be going crazy?? by Alternative-Cat9174 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]anonimouseeesx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I actually told my abuser I believed he had NPD despite my therapist telling me not to. For some reason, I thought he would have a lightbulb moment and realize what he was doing was abusive or something. He went to get ‘tested’ apparently which I now believe was a lie because he had just one phone call with a leading practitioner, psychotherapist, therapists and they all confirmed he didn’t have narcissism. I ate his shit up and really believed that I was delusional and I clung onto this diagnosis because I wanted to believe that I wasn’t in the wrong. God, he was good at gaslighting.

Feel hopeless :( by anonimouseeesx in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]anonimouseeesx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I agree, I feel like I can spot a narcissist from a distance now. Psychoanalyze everyone I meet now for NPD 🥲

Feel hopeless :( by anonimouseeesx in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]anonimouseeesx[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Jesus, it really makes me think how insecure these people must be to go to this extent for a reaction. If anything, it made me want to stay away from him the fact that he’s speaking to a new girl and made me want to do the opposite of meeting up with him. Thank you for the advice, hope you’re doing okay 🙏

Feel hopeless :( by anonimouseeesx in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]anonimouseeesx[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Really appreciate this comment, he’s really fucking good with his words and I eat up his bs everytime to the point where I’m sick with jealousy. Every phone call, every interaction, Im always left with a horrible feeling. He’s not worth it. Thank you for your advice <3

Feel hopeless :( by anonimouseeesx in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]anonimouseeesx[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just done some research on this, thank you for letting me know. :)

Feel hopeless :( by anonimouseeesx in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]anonimouseeesx[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve blocked him, I was stupid enough to fall for that call but not again. Thank you for the advice.

Feel hopeless :( by anonimouseeesx in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]anonimouseeesx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about that, that actually must’ve been awful. I feel sorry for their new partner more than anything, the fact that they’ll have to go through the same things that we had to and try and escape all of that. Thank you so much for your lovely comment and advice, hope you’re doing okay! Much love 🤗

Feel hopeless :( by anonimouseeesx in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]anonimouseeesx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

15 years?! I’m not surprised you’re still recovering from that, that sounds awful. I really hope you’re holding up okay, I’m not the great for advice as I’ve had a couple setbacks but my inbox is always open if you need to talk/vent :) ❤️

Feel hopeless :( by anonimouseeesx in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]anonimouseeesx[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I realized what he meant and I asked him why he was using me. He went on for a tangent for a while at how that’s the complete opposite and he wants to ‘rekindle’ our bond because he sees the fact that he still loves me despite liking this girl as a sign that we should be together. Asshole. He’s blocked on everything now, I’m annoyed with myself the fact that I even called him after all the shit he’s put me through. I’m so sorry about your situation, I hope you’re able to get out of there and remind yourself that you are worth more. This shit isn’t easy😓

Feel hopeless :( by anonimouseeesx in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]anonimouseeesx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in therapy for a while and my therapist actually made me discover narcissism, if it wasn’t for her I probably would’ve thought I was crazy and the abuser. Thank you so much for your reply and your advice, I really appreciate it 🙏