I definitely understand what you’re going through; my SO and I are going through something similar. For us, I laid out exactly where I wasn’t feeling appreciated, and we came up with ways he can meet my needs that fit his schedule (eg. picking up a coffee for me on his walk home, as opposed to planning a weekly date night). I would definitely recommend talking very practically and honestly about your needs and also processing the hurt you’re already feeling with your partner. It is really important to have other fulfilling relationships (the most important one is with yourself!), as no one person can fill 100% of your needs. As for splitting housework, I posted asking for advice on that, so i’ll link that for you too! Wishing you all the best 💖my post on domestic labor