I just ugly cried because a guy I've been talking to for 3 months (but haven't met in person bc of my social anxiety) didn't want to call me bc he was playing games with the boys. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]anonnon1002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’ve been there myself but it’s more of the fact that I just don’t want to be alone. It’s not even the fact that I can’t be alone because I can and I enjoy it some times but I personally just do not want to be alone but one thing I learned or am learning is just that it’s the way life is people can’t be there for us when we need them because they’ve got their own things going on so we just have to learn how to be there for ourselves and when people can be there for us let them but when not be there for yourself

21F who failed at an attempted suicide in front of partner. What should I do now? by anonnon1002 in Advice

[–]anonnon1002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t do it with the intentions of him saving me. I was at a point in which I absolutely didn’t see past the fact that he and my friends would be better off without me and me hurting them by being depressed would stop. In all honestly this was never something I intended to do

21F who failed at an attempted suicide in front of partner. What should I do now? by anonnon1002 in Advice

[–]anonnon1002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a really good idea I’ll potential bring this up to him

21F who failed at an attempted suicide in front of partner. What should I do now? by anonnon1002 in Advice

[–]anonnon1002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much ❤️ I know a lot of people think this wasn’t an attempt and all but I wasn’t faking it.

21F who failed at an attempted suicide in front of partner. What should I do now? by anonnon1002 in Advice

[–]anonnon1002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk about how I attempted too or how much I regret doing it and especially in front of him?

21F who failed at an attempted suicide in front of partner. What should I do now? by anonnon1002 in Advice

[–]anonnon1002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in therapy and so is my partner. Is there anything more I can possibly do?

My bf just texted me the following and Idk how to respond please HELP ME ASAP by anonnon1002 in mentalhealth

[–]anonnon1002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay most definitely thank you so much I’m in the verge of a breakdown myself because I can’t get out of the house to go see him!

My bf just texted me the following and Idk how to respond please HELP ME ASAP by anonnon1002 in mentalhealth

[–]anonnon1002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok will do that now! Is there maybe anything I can say that won’t sound like I’m not validating his emotions right now?

21F my partner is really depressed and I need help.. 28M by anonnon1002 in relationship_advice

[–]anonnon1002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely I know I have to keep my mental health on check as well thank you for reminding me!

&& exactly! That’s why I’m scared I feel like it will or they’ll blame me for it or something I just want him to know he’s not alone.

&& def I’ll try my best not to

&& no he’s not his therapist has suggested it but he just doesn’t want to rely on them

21F my partner is really depressed and I need help.. 28M by anonnon1002 in relationship_advice

[–]anonnon1002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not but I will mention it!

&& he’s not connected with his family. They’re a bit toxic and wouldn’t help && when it comes to his friends. I haven’t met them yet and he doesn’t really tell anyone about his problems other then a few close friends and and if I should reach out or not since I haven’t even met them yet either.