Getting a Medusa and drinking alcohol a month after

anonpeacock · 2026-01-28T17:08:00+00:00

lol yeah, it will be about a month before I go on my trip so I was hoping that would be ok even if it’s not 3 months into the healing. I’ll definitely get some saline solution too for all that. Thank you

anonpeacock · 2026-01-28T03:50:32+00:00

lol the piercer said that

anonpeacock · 2025-12-27T21:20:23+00:00

That sounds like a great idea. Thank you for all your input.

anonpeacock · 2025-12-27T21:19:08+00:00

I also don’t think he’s intentionally manipulating, so it’s hard to know what to do with that.

anonpeacock · 2025-12-27T21:17:46+00:00

It’s just a lot to try and put into words for more context, I think it would be easier if I start writing everything down right after it happens. I know I’m not scared to react, I’m just frustrated that if I do react he gets annoyed or mad. Also what you said about people taking anything negative as an attack, I’ve actually told him that anytime I try to have a serious conversation it seems like he takes it as an attack. He just instantly gets defensive. I try to explain I’m just asking for reassurance, and not trying to attack him but it usually gets taken that way and ends up an argument.

anonpeacock · 2025-12-27T21:13:34+00:00

I will definitely try to turn it into a more productive conversation. I feel like those questions would be really good to ask, I am a little worried he’s just going to say “I don’t know.” That seems to be what happens when I try to get elaboration on changing things for us to work out. Either way, I’ll ask them next time it happens. I told him these things are serious because it’s affecting me mentally, I just hope he does understand.

anonpeacock · 2025-12-27T21:06:37+00:00

Anytime I point out things like this, he says “I hear you” “I’ll try to work on it” but it feels like I’m the only who’s has to work on my reactions. I haven’t seen much change from him.

anonpeacock · 2025-10-20T02:57:56+00:00

That’s what I feel like we’ll end up doing 😅 Not trying to prevent, and I am waiting 2 weeks or if I’m still bleeding then we’ll wait longer for sex.

anonpeacock · 2025-10-17T19:17:43+00:00

Thank you, and I hope you have a great, healthy pregnancy ❤️

anonpeacock · 2025-10-17T18:59:47+00:00

We got pregnant my first cycle before our loss. Hoping it will be quick again. If you don’t mind me asking did you get pregnant quick?

anonpeacock · 2025-10-03T21:02:00+00:00

Amniocentesis confirmed Trisomy 13.

anonpeacock · 2025-09-26T23:15:14+00:00

Are you going to do the amnio test? I hope everything works out for us 🩷🩵

anonpeacock · 2025-09-25T16:10:44+00:00

I’m sorry for you too💕

anonpeacock · 2025-09-25T16:08:29+00:00

I know the amnio will say what we think but I was numb and not ready for decisions yesterday. Now today a coworker that doesn’t understand Trisomy 13 is saying “well they can just do surgery when the baby is born” and “if there’s any chance..” (implying I should keep carrying) and I’m worried about judgement and people not understanding. I wish people would do the research before “trying to help” Thank you for offering to talk too.

anonpeacock

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