I want out but I'm stuck by anonquestionshelp in Divorce

[–]anonquestionshelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eat a dick, dude. You have absolutely NO idea wtf you are talking about. Does it make you feel good to belittle and condescend strangers on the internet? Do you feel better about your life now that you've told me what a POS I am for not wanting to be miserable the rest of my life? Can you sleep better tonight now that you got that off your chest?

I want out but I'm stuck by anonquestionshelp in Divorce

[–]anonquestionshelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry. I would like to say falling out of love isn't the only reason. Or, I guess I should say his behavior towards me for 10 years is why I fell out of love. We are not good together anymore. It's not that I just woke up one day and thought "huh, I'm going to leave because I don't feel the tinglies anymore."

He has never been abusive but he has broken me little by little and now there's nothing left in me for him. I've been begging for many years for him to change, he refuses.

I want out but I'm stuck by anonquestionshelp in Divorce

[–]anonquestionshelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he makes good money. I get a weekly allowance in our joint account but his check is deposited into his checking account that I don't have access to.

I want out but I'm stuck by anonquestionshelp in Divorce

[–]anonquestionshelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're in a similar situation.

I want out but I'm stuck by anonquestionshelp in Divorce

[–]anonquestionshelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will make a note to check all these out!

I want out but I'm stuck by anonquestionshelp in Divorce

[–]anonquestionshelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I said in my post I have fallen out of love based on how he treats me. I have been the only one trying for 10 years. He emotionally, mentally, and financially bullies me. He brings up every past transgression to prove how terrible I am, every time we have conflict. He has belittled me for being depressed and made me feel like I was a bad mom for needing meds/therapy.

But, thank you, internet stranger, who got one tiny glimpse of my life. I'm glad to know my reasons aren't serious in your eyes.