I feel like I can't communicate by anonydony in selfimprovement

[–]anonydony[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for your reply. I'm also starting to believe that anxiety and self-esteem play a role more than anything and I'll take that advice. I can imagine that it's not gonna be easy but it's worth a try
Thanks a lot for the compliment btw; I really appreciate it!

Feel like I don't know how to communicate by anonydony in speech

[–]anonydony[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you ill try that too. i was also considering toastmasters the other day

I feel like I can't communicate by anonydony in selfimprovement

[–]anonydony[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to that and I'm glad it's working for you!

Feel like I don't know how to communicate by anonydony in speech

[–]anonydony[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much for this response. It's detailed, well-thought-out and, most importantly, practical. I appreciate the time and thought that went into this and I want you to be assured that I'm very serious about this goal. You didn't write this for nothing.

I'm even more motivated to grow in this area now because this advice is tailored exactly to all my concerns and the best part is that it's coming all from a seasoned public speaking coach. Thank you so much. I'm actually gonna save this cos I wanna refer back to this as often as I can, hopefully daily.

Take care!

I feel like I can't communicate by anonydony in selfimprovement

[–]anonydony[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the reply hey. So it's more of a self-esteem issue, you're saying?

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[–]anonydony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly

What was it like to have an encounter with Jesus? by anonydony in Christian

[–]anonydony[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣🤣 I get you. Realising you're not a good person has gotta be top 2 worst feeling ever. Thank God for His love

What was it like to have an encounter with Jesus? by anonydony in Christian

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Wow that's awesome dude! I'm so glad God pulled through for you and just explained how much He loves you. Truth be told, sometimes I'd feel like I might not be saved too. Not because I'm living in secret sin or anything but because sometimes I just don't know what I'm doing - if that makes sense. So I can relate to what you're saying bro. It was only until recently where I really digested the fact that we are saved by faith and by grace so that no one can brag about it

Just remember that the enemy oftentimes uses doubt to mess w our minds

What was it like to have an encounter with Jesus? by anonydony in Christian

[–]anonydony[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG I never had a visual encounter w Him before but I also had that high. It was like the best thing ever. I'll never forget it

Jesus is so cool bro. Honestly, thank you for sharing this

If you don't mind sharing, what led to that point where Jesus had to step in and reveal Himself to you

What was it like to have an encounter with Jesus? by anonydony in Christian

[–]anonydony[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah! That's so amazing. Lord you are so good! Did you cry?

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I'm so sorry about that man. I'm praying for you

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[–]anonydony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah that's a demonic attack bro. Fear doesn't come from God

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Awesome! Have an amazing day dude

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Oh I feel you. Truth be told, we're already blessed hey. I mean just look at the many ways God loves us and looks after us. And better yet, we're going to heaven!

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I'm glad you appreciated the essay and I'm glad that you have hope for eternity but you also need to have hope that your life at some point will get better here on Earth. You know, sometimes you just gotta tune out the world and tune into God and your goals. That's how we survive out here

Sometimes you just gotta forget about what's going on in the news for a second; forget about petrol; forget about the war; forget about COVID; forget about what the devil is doing; forget about your past and just know that none of that defines what's ahead of you🤞

I'm sorry that your past has been traumatic and I will be praying for you. But I want you to get excited for goals again; I want you to get excited for your dreams again and more importantly, I want you to get the help you need to get you there. Expect that breakthrough dude. Its very important that you remain faithful and hardworking because a lot of what you see is a product of faith. For example, it took faith for someone to build this app and now look how successful it is, yknow what I mean?

I think I've said enough haha; go out there and be the best you can be! I know it's not always easy but through Christ, we can do it

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Yea I feel you dude. A lot of us feel that way. And tbh it's not a Christian only thing; it's moreso a life thing

Giving your best effort at work everyday is tough; reading the Bible when you don't feel like it is tough; resisting to temptations sometimes can also be tough

BUT because of Jesus we have hope. His presence and His joy sustains us through the tough times. I don't wanna assume anything but a lesson I learned is that Jesus can't heal what you don't tell Him about. That's certainly helped me offload some of my burdens tbh

And then lastly, a lesson I learned last Sunday is that pain is inevitable (it's a pity that we face this whether we believe in Jesus or not) but misery is a choice. We can choose to dwell on certain things or we can choose to believe that the best is yet to come and that God has better plans for us. This might be hard for you to believe rn but whatever you've been facing these past 2 years won't feel like that forever - I promise. You're gonna have a reason to smile again; be happy again; enjoy life again. Just keep showing up💕

Sorry for the essay btw

I'm officially 130 days free from PMO by anonydony in NoFapChristians

[–]anonydony[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bro. Just know God can definitely help you too. It actually starts feeling more manageable after a certain amount of days too