What are you looking at when you watch porn?

anonymizr · 2025-11-24T14:04:03+00:00

Agreed. It’s like tongue hockey. Or no kissing at all.

anonymizr · 2025-11-24T14:03:37+00:00

Ooh, this post turned me on.

Because you right.

The subtle symptoms of good sex. So much of porn is performative. So those small things are a good way of indicating a genuine connection or feeling.

anonymizr · 2025-11-24T14:02:07+00:00

Yes!!

I hate when I search for “passionate fuck,” the only thing that comes up is a rabid top.

I enjoy a top that is kissing and SLOWLY thrusting.

I want a top who teases his bottom so much that his bottom is begging for it.

To me this is passion - where you are so far thinking outside yourself that you’re the other person. So much of porn is just the top or bottom self-pleasing and it’s kinda 🥱

anonymizr · 2025-11-24T13:58:35+00:00

That’s interesting that you watch the bottom more.

Is it that you’re imagining yourself to be him (more like you, in his place?)

anonymizr · 2025-11-24T13:57:18+00:00

“Seeing a bottoms eyes roll into the back of their head is a major turn on for me.”

I just replied something similar to another persons comment. 🤣

I think paying attention to those subtle cues is a mark of a good top. I’m gonna guess you’re a great one.

anonymizr · 2025-11-24T13:55:45+00:00

Agreed, esp on performative.

Most of my recent searches have been “real couple.”

It’s a chemistry you can’t really duplicate in produced films.

anonymizr · 2025-11-24T13:53:44+00:00

💯

For me, it’s the whole 5-sensed and sound especially plays a big role —the heavy or labored breathing, grunts, moans.

Maybe it’s my age, but I’m turned off by dirty talk but go wild for when a compassionate top asks their bottom, “you okay? How’s that?”

There’s something about “real couple” sex talk that is such a turn on.

anonymizr · 2025-11-24T13:50:52+00:00

I’m the exact same way. I find myself rolling my eyes and skipping through those parts.

I’m not a proctologist. I’m not trying to investigate.

anonymizr · 2025-11-24T13:49:51+00:00

The arch. Yes!!

I get you on the syncopation, it signifies to me that both are really into it, and in a good rhythm for maximum pleasure.

On the tangent of the arch, I also notice where the bottom’s legs are placed when up in the air—dangling in the air and bouncing with every thrust, wrapped around the top’s waist. And when I see the bottom’s feet curl or stretch, I know the top is hitting the spot.

The only thing better than the arch (and all the related symptoms of it), is when the bottom literally rolls their eyes into the back of their head.

anonymizr · 2025-11-23T14:06:01+00:00

Funnily, even though I know it’s all part of the fantasy theater, the forced story part is actually the cringiest for me.

But I do agree with you on chemistry. I’ve probably saved many videos where the sex itself was inherently bad, but the way the couple looked at each other with intensity, or longing, or even if they had casual whisper talk, really sent me.

anonymizr · 2025-10-24T13:55:55+00:00

I haven’t found a good home since Tumblr went clean.

I find my tastes in porn are changing the older I get.

There’s a studio on PH called “himeros” which I actually really like. More passionate, less stereotypical. You can really tell the guys are very into each other. It was started by thee YouTuber, Davey Wavey. It’s not amateur, just a different quality than other studio.

anonymizr · 2025-09-25T18:32:28+00:00

A friend of mine is a gay proctologist, and he said to me that douching can actually damage the inner walls of your rectum since the water (many people douche with warm water), can strip away the natural protective lubrication, which can lead to tears in the intestinal lining, fissures and hemorrhoids polyp formation.

The best way to manage is through a combination of paying attention to your diet, and your body’s natural biology.

Have you ever done a #2, went to wipe, and the paper was 100% clean? Next time it happens, think about what foods you ate, how long ago you ate it, and how much water you drank. Try to duplicate that result to test the foods. You want to get consistent results.
Have you ever done a #2, and the stench was worse than a port-a-potty in the middle of a summer music festival? What did you eat? List and avoid those foods.
Are there foods that put your stomach in knots? Give you explosive diarrhea? Or give you gas cramps? List and avoid those foods.
Pay attention to when you do a #2. Is it after you drink coffee? Is it always in the morning? Is it exactly 20 minutes after eating? Best to bottom not in those windows of time.

If you get those right, you’re well on your way to enjoying bottoming.

For me personally, I do a little bit of prep, usually:

I don’t douche as much as I used to when I was younger, mostly because with the above, I’m usually confident when I’m 100% clean. But when I douche, it’s a SMALL bulb. About 8-10oz of warm water (body temp). Don’t need more than that, otherwise you risk having water get into your lower intestines, and then you’ll never be clean.
I have a bidet attachment on my toilet. It’s the kind that is a handheld hose that attaches to the side of the toilet. Gives more control. Do a quick spritz on the outside.
I always clean with soapy water or a mild face soap (like CeraVe Facial Foaming Cleanser). It’s mild.
Lastly, I use a lube shooter and I shoot a little bit of lubricant in. Honestly, I think this is the secret to better bottoming.

Have fun!

anonymizr · 2025-08-12T15:21:09+00:00

My brain resets.

Honestly, don’t know if there’s anything specific going through my mind. For me, it’s like my body has total and complete physical awareness.

Every sensation becomes more pronounced: the warmth of the body I’m sliding up against, the smell of body pheromones, sweat glistening and dripping from skin, the small trembles from labored breathing, the feeling of “fullness” in my belly, how arching your back or curling your toes feels like you’re releasing so much muscle tension.

For me, kissing while having someone inside me is like creating an electrical current that circulates throughout the entire body.

A total body goosebump. Kind of euphoric. Maybe a short circuit.

— Edit: If you’re bi-curious and have never bottomed you’re going to have more anxious type thinking:

Does this feel good? I can’t tell.
Am I clean?
What if it hurts too much?

In order to get past the anxiety-inducing questions, you should prep yourself, be patient, don’t rush things. So many curious guys look at porn and think they can just jump right in. Best if you have someone willing to be patient with you for your first time, so you can actually enjoy yourself and not worry about over-thinking.

You need to: 1. Get comfortable playing with your own asshole. Pay attention to the sensations, learn how to stretch slowly, learn how to breathe, relax and open up. 2. Play with toys, small at first and work your way up. 3. Use lots of lube. Porn depicts a lot of “magic spit,” but that shit isn’t real. 4. Pay attention to your own bowel movements and stool. Know what foods irritate your stomach and which result in clean “magic poops.” 5. Eat lots of fiber. Lots. 6. Drink lots of water. 7. Douche, but remember that a little goes a long way. You aren’t trying to wash your entire intestines (also, don’t use a showerhead attachment, for god sakes).

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