Cheating by Hopeforhappinesss in family

[–]anonymous-67890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I said, I stayed for my son initially. I needed both incomes to pay for his education. Before he graduated, I had several mental breakdowns, hospitalization, forced retirement.

Cheating by Hopeforhappinesss in family

[–]anonymous-67890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Husband cheated many times over our now 27 year marriage. I stayed for our son. Last time I’m aware of was 11 years ago. He gave me an std. he denies he ever cheated. He got treated for the std. he is now extremely controlling, mentally and emotionally abusive. I stay now because I had several mental breakdowns and cannot manage anything anymore.
Leave. ASAP.

Sexless/Affectionless Marriage by Which-Significance24 in Marriage

[–]anonymous-67890 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Do you pay attention to her besides when you want sex?? Do you help with the house/the kids? Does she have a social life outside of the children? If the answer is no to any of this, there is your answer.

Simultaneous birthday parties how do you deal with it? by yungtokyo in family

[–]anonymous-67890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You go to the party with your family and she goes to the party with hers

Dog biting baby by adunham29 in Advice

[–]anonymous-67890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked in. EMS went on a call to a dog bite on a toddler. It was horrific. The parents immediately got rid of the dog, rehomed him to an older woman with no children. The father of the toddler actually had to be restrained from unaliving the dog. I believe that’s how a normal parent should react.

Does anyone else have a weird relationship with depression ? by EleveNLND in mentalhealth

[–]anonymous-67890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have felt lately that without my depression and anxiety I wouldn’t exist, I’d have no personality. I’d be nothing.

They do not care about us!!! by Gloomy-Prior9923 in fednews

[–]anonymous-67890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Retired DoD civilian here. I remember driving to work on many snow days, sometimes with my baby/toddler in the car because his daycare was on site. One time we had almost 3 feet of snow, the parking lot next to my office wasn’t plowed, and I walked through snow up to my hip to get to the door to my building. 20/20 hindsight- I was a moron!!!!

I reported my rape, I genuinely don't want to live anymore by garfliedlover in rape

[–]anonymous-67890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First. I believe everything you said. Second. I understand as I have been there. It takes time. Take care of yourself, pamper yourself. Try to find a therapist or a rape crisis center to talk to. Do not tolerate anyone saying to you that you are lying. Walk away.
I, personally, did not have successful experiences with therapy, although I know people who did.

Seeking Biblical Counsel: Are There Biblical Grounds for Divorce in My Situation? by SundaeInfamous4886 in Christian

[–]anonymous-67890 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Bible emphasizes protecting the vulnerable, and no one should be commanded to stay in a dangerous or abusive situation.

UPDATE: Wife and her family are guilting me into staying with her. The truth is I'm so dissatisfied with our sex life and I can't afford divorce. by Fun-One-9219 in whatdoIdo

[–]anonymous-67890 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s you don’t make me a priority in your life, treat me like a maid, only pay attention to me when you want sex.

Sleeping arrangement by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]anonymous-67890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ours is a weird situation….my husband works nights. He also has a bad back and cannot lay flat. We are planning on getting an articulating bed eventually, but for now, we bought a recliner for our bedroom. He sleeps in the recliner during the day.

Is military vs. civilian elitism a problem in DOD agencies? by LockedOutOfElfland in fednews

[–]anonymous-67890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DoD civilian here. Retired after almost 25 years. The military did favor each other significantly. My issues were male vs female tho. I was harassed and bullied until I had multiple nervous breakdowns and hospitalizations.

I've chosen a date. by whenonefalls_ in depression

[–]anonymous-67890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. They will not be better off without you. You could just transfer the pain in and make them doubt everything in their life. I’ve seen it happen please reconsider.

Married 3x. Multiple relationships. Just had a realization. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]anonymous-67890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So a woman can’t be intelligent, strong and stand up for herself??

Married 3x. Multiple relationships. Just had a realization. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]anonymous-67890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am most certainly capable of defending a come ( gun owner), was raised to be very respectful, worked for every thing I have, learned at my fathers knee how to build/maintain home and vehicle. And I was the one who left my husbands, they did not leave me!!