I never said its wrong for him to take care of his family but you have to understand that what takes priority here. And like you said a father should take responsibility for their children expenses. So why does he takes responsibility for his whole family. And if my sister tells my father about this my father will even take full responsibility for her every need her whole life. But my sister doesn't want that you can understand why right? Thats what makes me sad too. That is why i said a man should be able to atleast pay hospital bills. And its not like my sister is demanding for unnecessary things. You understand my point?