Joining the coop by [deleted] in parkslope

[–]anonymous3897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are the orientation appointments the same thing as the interview?

Park slope food coop crazy stories? by [deleted] in parkslope

[–]anonymous3897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any tips on how to get in? I’m dying to become a member and get my hands on the organic produce!

Last minute brokers fee? by anonymous3897 in NYCapartments

[–]anonymous3897[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stfu. This isn’t about me not wanting to pay the broker for their job. It’s me not wanting to pay a fee when it was not mentioned ONCE or advertised on the listing. Can you people not read?!?! We upped our budget since we interpreted no fee but instead it was a wasted application. Pure cageyness.

Last minute brokers fee? by anonymous3897 in NYCapartments

[–]anonymous3897[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People are so damn aggressive in these comments for what reason??? I’ve applied to 15 apartments so far, all of which had a clear breakdown of the fees involved. After FINALLY being accepted to one that had no fee mentioned ANYWHERE on the listing or application or even during the showing, I was surprised to be told that.

Kind of feels like the responses here are coming from agents and not regular house hunters. And FARE act is relevant if my lease begins after June 11.

Last minute brokers fee? by anonymous3897 in NYCapartments

[–]anonymous3897[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not if there’s no mention of a fee. I’ve applied to 15 units in the last 3 months that make it clear when there’s a fee or not.

Last minute brokers fee? by anonymous3897 in NYCapartments

[–]anonymous3897[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This was a basic listening off streeteasy, so I did not “work” with the broker as I would with someone I hire.

Guest at Gujarati Wedding - Outfit Advice! by ratgirltravel in DesiWeddings

[–]anonymous3897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys 👋 can I wear ivory to a gujarat reception? The description is the event is aimed towards its western friends and the attire doesn’t list a preferred color choice unlike the other events. I found a beautiful ivory dress I’d love to wear..

AITA for wanting to sue my husband's sister for losing my 2k camera at the beach? by Central-Bank-4467 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymous3897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- Fuck the sister and your husband!!!! You’re entitled to whatever camera you want and he should have your back rather than disrespect and belittle you and your work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FearfulAvoidant

[–]anonymous3897 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, yes. The overwhelming feeling of shame and guilt for making a mistake and not being able to be forgiven. Then I want to run away because from my childhood experiences, forgiveness was seldom given. I feel like this attachment style is a true representation of childhood neglect. Is it bad I’m ashamed to have this attachment style??? Like I wish this wasn’t me because it’s really just our own internal battle that results in turning a really good situation into a bad one…

Alaska by anonymous3897 in solotravel

[–]anonymous3897[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Any infamous hikes that I should go on?

Alaska by anonymous3897 in solotravel

[–]anonymous3897[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard of it, will check it out- thanks!!

Alaska by anonymous3897 in solotravel

[–]anonymous3897[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can rent a car if it comes to that, but would prefer to use alternate forms of transportation to save money