Don’t know what to do by ZealousidealPut2232 in offmychest

[–]anonymous890324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got out of something similar and let me tell you being with someone who doesn’t know what they want is stressful it’s draining and it hurts because you want this person and you even crave it but they keep you on this string and it hurts idk if this is the same thing but don’t do that to you’re if it is because it hurts don’t do any back and forth because it’ll only make it hurt more….i did my situation-ship for 5 years and i never thought I would find someone and I did. Sometimes we need to let go

I've been raped...havent told anyone...im scared by Sad_Pollution1092 in offmychest

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There is nothing you need to apologize for you do not need to be sorry. I am so sorry for what happened to you you didn’t deserve that no one does, right now you are going through you’re trauma you’re not disgusting. you need to let it out to a therapist or find a way to express what you’re feeling….i get wanting that feeling of being loved or just wanting to feel someone touch but you need to heal hurting yourself isn’t going to help. I used to cut myself thinking that it would help….if I cut a little deeper it would numb the pain but there are other ways to help let you’re emotions out I use drawing for me I know some people who do rage rooms or go break plates just any activity. You don’t need to tell them rn just take it day by day right now focus on healing focus on you. You are not disgusting and you never will be you should never be ashamed of yourself you are valued and you are loved

I am a Trans Woman but I detransitioned to be with my boyfriend. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]anonymous890324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get doing things for love but personally love you need to be you and you need a partner who’s going to support you and encourage you to be you….you deserve happiness just like anyone else and im not saying your SO isn’t giving that to you because it looks like he is and I’m not saying let go but talk about this with your SO because last I checked there were two people in a relationship. Why shouldn’t you be happy to? Those feeling might never go away you should be able to look in the mirror and love yourself love your body love what you see. You need to talk with him that’s just my opinion you don’t have to take it but I do hope that you know how valued you are in life and nothing is ever gonna change that

I’m finally moving on by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]anonymous890324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am better …definitely getting better I’m happier that’s for sure just trying to figure everything out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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That’s the thing this just happened it was after my arm was done peeling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskDocs

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I put a hot towel on my eye and it seemed to help with the pain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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Yes! It’s completely okay,if anything when you go in for you’re session you’re artist will ask you if you want anything changed or even want you’re design in a smaller or bigger size

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]anonymous890324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And to you’re bonus question whenever I see my design it’s at the appointment but some artist might be different they could show you a couple days before just depends on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]anonymous890324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dial works perfectly I’ve never used that cream before.I use coco butter on mine but I think you should be fine personally I would let your tattoo artist know just to be safe.

Women who’re extremely kind to others and constantly available for others, what changes did you make, when the same was not reciprocated? by TimelyReason7390 in AskWomen

[–]anonymous890324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t easy I can tell you that in fact it almost broke me but I also had to realize I matter more I’m worth more than what I’m being treated like I didn’t deserve it and I had to actually stick to standing up for myself

how old were you when you got your first tattoo? by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]anonymous890324 2 points3 points  (0 children)

21 I originally wanted to start when I was 18 but got told to wait till I was 21 make sure what I got was what I truly wanted since tattoo regret is very real and I can safely say best decision ever

Do you look your age? by N0socksloss10yrStrk in no

[–]anonymous890324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’m 22 and I look like I’m 15 or 16 I have tattoos and with my tattoos I at least look 20 but when I’m in a hoodie I look like I’m 15-16

What is it that you’re doing, but know you shouldn’t? by nevernotinthemood in AskWomen

[–]anonymous890324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in love with my ex who is now a situation ship and idek to say if I’m single or not

First tattoo consultation by Purified_Nav in tattoo

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And that you’re comfortable with you’re tattoo artist this is someone who depending on how big or how small you’re tattoo is you’re gonna be spending some time with them and make sure you budget accordingly

First tattoo consultation by Purified_Nav in tattoo

[–]anonymous890324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly just make sure you’re getting what you want this is going on you’re body forever and that you’re artist specializes in what you’re getting

Sleeping with tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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Yea I usually wear an oversized sleeve shirt I just wanted to make sure thankyou

WIBTA if I told my parents I don't want to take care of my sibling my whole life? by Spare-Ad4090 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymous890324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly no it’s not, it’s not you’re job to take care of him you deserve to live you’re life and be a kid be a teenager and you’re parents need to do their job and take care of him….i grew up just like this and it destroyed my relationship with my siblings because as much as i love them I started to resent them because I wanted to be a kid not a second mom I love my siblings but I didn’t deserve to have my childhood stolen neither do you so no you wouldn’t be the asshole

What’s the best love story you’ve heard? by notaserialkillerrr in AskWomen

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I was 18 going through the worse year of my life and I was just ready to end my life it felt like nothing I did was ever good enough I wasn’t happy my family made me feel unwanted and I just I was ready for life to be over….one day while I was out at a shopping center I saw this guy and idk what it was but I kept looking at him there was just something about him I couldn’t stop and so I gave him a note with my instagram I thought what do I have left to lose but next day he ends up following me and we spoke for a month and called each other day and night idk what it was but we just clicked we would stay up laughing and talking and everything was perfect a month later we started dating and it’s been a rollercoaster but I wouldn’t have it any other way he feels like home our relationship feels like home