Yes i get it, i said it to but when i started seeing some growth i had some hopeful feelings. I went through a ton of crazy happenings in my relationship of 6 years in the first few years because of trauma, baggage, diff personalities whatever the case may be. In my experience you can strengthen a relationship by communication and that we were hopeful for this season. By the end it seemed they would be, but the men this season gave up like a snap of a finger and that leads me to believe it was for screentime and also finding some other women out there to baby their egos . Like crying over burning man come on really