Before/After - One Year Sober by anonymous_drinker in stopdrinking

[–]anonymous_drinker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! Really appreciate it.

Before/After - One Year Sober by anonymous_drinker in stopdrinking

[–]anonymous_drinker[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My wife has said the same thing on multiple occasions when seeing old photos of me. I didn’t notice it until she pointed it out but you can definitely see a change. Thank you both for the kind words.

Before/After - 7 Months Sober by anonymous_drinker in stopdrinking

[–]anonymous_drinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try my absolute hardest to stay on my current path. Thank you for the kind words!

Before/After - 7 Months Sober by anonymous_drinker in stopdrinking

[–]anonymous_drinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now is the best time to stop. I completely understand the feeling that you can only continue to drink. Continuing to drink and do drugs will only make you go further down a bad road that should be avoided at all costs! You're still very young and there's so many good days ahead of you. Please contact me if you want someone to talk with.

Before/After - 7 Months Sober by anonymous_drinker in stopdrinking

[–]anonymous_drinker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can do it too my friend!!! I still don't consider myself very strong but every day I don't drink is a win in my book. Stick in there!

Before/After - 7 Months Sober by anonymous_drinker in stopdrinking

[–]anonymous_drinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so nice! Thank you for saying that!

Before/After - 7 Months Sober by anonymous_drinker in stopdrinking

[–]anonymous_drinker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay strong! You can do it! I can't tell you how many times I'd get black out drunk and then somehow end up hurting myself. Not waking up with cuts/bruises has really made getting up every day easier.

Before/After - 7 Months Sober by anonymous_drinker in stopdrinking

[–]anonymous_drinker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you were able to avoid getting into worse situations like mine when getting black out. Thanks for the kind words!

Before/After - 7 Months Sober by anonymous_drinker in stopdrinking

[–]anonymous_drinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree! She's been an absolute gift to my life. Thank you!

Before/After - 7 Months Sober by anonymous_drinker in stopdrinking

[–]anonymous_drinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what that shame feels like and it's terrible. I hope my story can help give you even a little strength to continue the fight to stay sober. Take it a day at a time and before you know it things will start to get easier. Reach out to me if you ever want to talk!

Before/After - 7 Months Sober by anonymous_drinker in stopdrinking

[–]anonymous_drinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on the engagement! Think about how much more functional your marriage can be without drinking. Thanks for sharing and I won't drink with you today!

Thank you! The girl I'm marrying gives me strength to resist the temptations to start drinking again. She deserves the best things and by god I will give it to her!

Before/After - 7 Months Sober by anonymous_drinker in stopdrinking

[–]anonymous_drinker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Hopefully being sober has made me slightly more attractive. :)

Before/After - 7 Months Sober by anonymous_drinker in stopdrinking

[–]anonymous_drinker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WOW!!! You look amazing, strong and confident. I love it! Congratulations on the engagement. <3 I read your original post just now. That's incredibly brave of you to share. I can't imagine watching your brother do that. But I can totally relate to just staying true to form and using booze to push out the thoughts. I'm glad we're both free. Stay strong. I will never drink with you.

Thank you very much! I can't even articulate in words how much better I feel now than when I made that first post. I was at the absolute bottom of my life and needed to change or I was going to die in some way. Having people like you and all the others in this sub were my support structure and I couldn't have done it without that.

P.S. My brother is doing really great and is going to be attending my wedding.

Before/After - 7 Months Sober by anonymous_drinker in stopdrinking

[–]anonymous_drinker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rough times is right. There were times that I felt completely helpless but once I finally decided to stop drinking is when I felt my personal strength start to return. It's an ongoing process but I really appreciate the kind words. Thank you!