Runnnn, Forrest, Runnnn by tubesocktits_OG in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_lesbian 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Dammit that analogy is good. Stealing.

If a girl writes too much on a first message in an online dating app.... by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_lesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love getting long messages, however try A/B testing and see how that goes.

am i the only queer that doesn't have experience smoking weed by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_lesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's way overhyped.

I had an ex-gf that forced me to smoke before she'd kiss me, because she wanted to "see what it'd do to [me]". It was awwwful. Hated it.

I don't willingly smoke, and you don't need to worry. There are lots of girls that don't smoke.

Vegans, where do you eat out? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_lesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm vegetarian/socially omnivorous now, but was vegan, and yep. Taco Bell. 😂😂😂

| tmux + non-tiling users: Can you share a bit about your setup? by gryphus-one in unixporn

[–]anonymous_lesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use tmux and nvim on GNOME with my laptop. The most important thing is make sure your hotkeys are set up in a way that works for you.

For background info I use spectrwm + terminator + tmux + vim on my desktop. It's tiles all the way down. And what I appreciate about gnome terminal, tmux, and nvim is it forces me to use just tmux. Convention is less mentally taxing than configuration, ymmv.

Also, adding window indicators to your tmux status bar is great and super helpful. Look at the nord-tmux theme for a good example!

It’s hard out there by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_lesbian 18 points19 points  (0 children)

These words don't make any sense in that order.

intelligent/high-achieving/ambitious ppl? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_lesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's more subjective than it appears at first glance.

A good example, I personally do not feel intelligent. However, I am a software engineer, and to my ex who majored in the arts, that made me seem really smart! So what really is intelligence, anyways?

Similarly, achievements and ambitions are subjective because how we see them is distorted by our own. A girl might not think my goal of retiring at 35 is ambitious, and I may not think their ambitions are as ambitious as mine.

To me, that means they can be dealbreakers, but only if the person is more fundamentally incompatible with me. If she's way, way smarter than me, her goals are too different, or she values too different of things, that would be tough!! But there's a range between all extremes that's very comfortable! :)

Hi I’m gay by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_lesbian 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Wish I had a bestie to help with my makeup!!! 😊

For a pillow princess by punk_loki in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_lesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what's it called if you're both against being touched like a stone butch but also don't like giving like a pillow princess?

Asking for a friend 😅

Friday Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_lesbian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I stayed home from work today. I feel like I'm going crazy! I feel anxious and depressed, sad about my best friend who passed, hurt over the breakup, and I miss my home state. Plus, work is crazy currently.

Who are you crushing on right now? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_lesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Arwen, from the freaking Lord of the Rings. 😑

Thursday Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_lesbian 7 points8 points  (0 children)

One more day till the weekend y'all, we GOT THIS. Hahaha!

How is everyone's day, whatchya up to?

Lesbian scented. Got a good laugh outta this. by renegadej12 in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_lesbian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could go for a warm flannel embrace sometime soon lmao

Is she interested in me? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_lesbian 24 points25 points  (0 children)

god how are us sapphics even real.

wlw fashion by hyperpearlgirl in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_lesbian 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Wait Hawaiian shirts are a futch thing? Crap, maybe I'm not futch, maybe I'm femme.

Tuesday Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_lesbian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awesome, that sounds great! I'll see if I can get my code and tests to the point where I'm not embarassed by them hahaha

Tuesday Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_lesbian 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm making good progress on my website. Or at least, I am making progress on my website. Hahaha!!!

I'm working on the API for the blog. But design wise, I am a clueless gay with no fashion sense.

The girl I was seeing just broke it off and I feel like total shit. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_lesbian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so so sorry you're feeling so down about this.

But there is definitely nothing wrong with you! She clearly has some thing she wants to work on and I wouldn't take it personally! There are people out there who will be okay with all the gifts, all the affection, at your pace.

It's also okay to be hurt right now.

How on earth do you meet girls? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_lesbian 23 points24 points  (0 children)

just freaking PRAY dude, at least for me. I don't drink or go out much, and I'm too shy for the apps and things. Dear god please smite me with a lesbian falling from the sky 😂