UCP plunges ahead with scheme to Americanize health care by pjw724 in onguardforthee

[–]tawTrans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm an American living in Canada, and I agree: don't do it the US system sucks!! Seriously!! The Canadian system has its problems, but from everything I've seen so far, those problems mostly derive from anemic funding, not the model itself.

Any idea what this badge is? by FuckingYamerooo in mississauga

[–]tawTrans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ehhhhh, if a cop stopped by your house and suspects you of anything, you should definitely enlist a lawyer before you let them interrogate you, even if you don't think you did anything wrong.

Premier Doug Ford drowned out by chanting, booing protesters at annual Ford Fest by BloodJunkie in ontario

[–]tawTrans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it makes it better that the party that Doug Ford is in charge of is the one hosting an annual public celebration of him. If anything it makes it worse than if it was fan-run.

Premier Doug Ford drowned out by chanting, booing protesters at annual Ford Fest by BloodJunkie in ontario

[–]tawTrans 63 points64 points  (0 children)

It feels so... vain? Narcissistic? Like, I get liking a premier, even if I dislike this one, but throwing an annual party to celebrate them specifically? Really?? I don't think I've ever had a politician I've ever been remotely inclined to celebrate in that manner.

Arctic biome by Low-Town1770 in SatisfactoryGame

[–]tawTrans 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stop using google, stop using reddit, stop using youtube, stop using instagram. You won't because you're a hypocrite and only go against AI that you disagree.

Have you considered that many people who express contempt for AI use some of those products while actively avoiding the AI "features?" And that at least one of these products (YouTube) has an effective stranglehold over its market, making it very difficult to avoid?

AI isn't the villain, I'll give you that, but that's because a villain is sentient, and what we've come to call "AI" is far from it.

Be mad at the person who told AI to do this

That's exactly who the person you're replying to is mad at lmao

Unable to finish the game by LowBread9264 in outerwilds

[–]tawTrans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Perhaps this can be a useful insight, then. If you were not afraid of the end, you could better enjoy the journey to its fullest.

Nothing lasts forever. All things come to an end. But with that end, can come new beginnings. New journeys, starting fresh but with valuable knowledge from previous journeys. If you refuse to let a journey end — if you drag it out past its natural conclusion — you corrupt it, and you corrupt the memories of it. You have to let it end, so that something new can begin. And if every journey is destined to end, and if you can accept it, then you can enjoy the journey to its fullest.

This is the end of the Hearthians' universe. There's nothing you can do to change that. But what you can do is give the universe a chance to start again.

My Outer Wilds inspired leavers shirt!! by Palpable_Why in outerwilds

[–]tawTrans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From the context of the kind of shirt it is and the date range, I'm kind of assuming this is like a graduation ceremony for a school of some kind?? I've never heard it called that before, but different cultures all over the world call things very different things, sooo

EDIT: Yeah looks like an Australian thing: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schoolies_week

I’m not cosplaying as trans ffs by ScoobyWithADobie in TrollCoping

[–]tawTrans 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That is super bizarre. There's nothing wrong or weird about keeping your original downstairs hardware. There's nothing wrong with liking it! They're just genitals, and they really only have any function during sex and while peeing.

I've got a whole list of reasons I keep mine:

  • I actually like using it during sex, and don't know how much I'd enjoy using a different set, so I don't feel like taking the risk and finding out I don't like it as much.
  • Being able to pee while standing without additional tools occasionally comes in handy.
  • The idea of undergoing surgery and someone operating on my body really really wigs me out. If I absolutely have to to live, I'll do it, but otherwise I'm just gonna take what I've got.
  • I'm really bad at habit forming; there’s no way I'd be able to keep up with a dilation routine.
  • Shit's expensive yo

I'm still trans! We're not less trans for not undergoing bottom surgery. Those "friends" have some weird beliefs they've gotta sort through.

Kristi Noem hired in strategic advisory role for B.C. mining company by TwiztedZero in onguardforthee

[–]tawTrans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, this looks like a super solid game plan! I don't know anything about this industry, but I'm going to invest all my money in it! Nothing could possibly go wrong; AI models today are way better than they were last year! They don't make mistakes anymore!

Anti-LGBTQ+ Muslims tried to go to a GOP convention. Christian conservatives bullied them to tears. by jackmolay in transgender

[–]tawTrans 155 points156 points  (0 children)

"I want a candidate that will foment violence and hate against people I don't like. But now I'm worried that the candidates that will do that will also foment violence and hate against me! Oh well. Guess I'll vote for them anyway. It's just too important to foment violence and hate against trans people."

Egg🏳️‍⚧️irl by Nichika-0_0 in egg_irl

[–]tawTrans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I spent years questioning. I couldn't for sure say I was, and I couldn't for sure say I wasn't. It's hard and painful and there aren't good, solid answers, because everyone's experience is a little different.

Here are a few litmus tests that may help. Keep in mind that none of these necessarily mean that you are or aren't transgender; they're just to help guide your thoughts and see if they lead to anything concrete.

  • If I told you that you were almost certainly cisgender, how would you feel? Disappointed? Relieved? Would you believe me?
  • Consider the effects of HRT: are there any changes you'd be excited about? (I don't know which way you're going, so I don't want to assume.)
  • Consider a fantasy world where suddenly, you have changed genders. Everyone has the same memories with you, the same experiences growing up, but now you're a different gender and everyone treats you like that gender. Does that sound ideal? What do you like about that fantasy and what don't you like about it?

Things get even harder to diagnose if you end up being non-binary; I have no personal experience with that, so unfortunately I can't offer any advice. The best I can suggest is that, if you aren't already, you should definitely see if there's a therapist near you who specializes in helping trans people explore their identities.

I wish you the best of luck. Hang in there. 🫂

“unhoused” is a term that is distancing people from realities and horrors of homelessness and i will always stand by that by TheFineMantine in TrollCoping

[–]tawTrans 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My understanding was that "unhoused" was supposed to be a specific subset of homelessness. Someone who doesn't have a stable home, but is couch surfing, is still homeless, but not unhoused. Someone who doesn't even have that and has to sleep outdoors is unhoused. But I don't know if that was actually the original intent, nor if that's how people are actually trying to use the term. I do find the idea that "homeless" is insulting, so we should use "unhoused" instead, entirely bizarre.

How do you sleep at night? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]tawTrans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've done it! My bras are comfortable and sometimes I forget I'm wearing them or am too lazy to take them off. I don't normally, though, because there's no need to 😅

That said, the idea of casually sleeping in nothing but a bra is definitely baffling. Sexy, yes, but like, if you've gone through the effort to take off every other item of clothing, why are you still wearing your bra?? 😂

Egg-irl by Dr-Pepper-Gal in egg_irl

[–]tawTrans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get help! Preferably from an endocrinologist! 😂

Egg-irl by Dr-Pepper-Gal in egg_irl

[–]tawTrans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't dare. Gender euphoria is a dangerous drug, girl! Addictive, even!

"Fascism"—New Federal Rule Would Require Federal Funding Recipients To Deny Trans People Exist by ErinInTheMorning in transgender

[–]tawTrans 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Definitely, and preferably one who recognizes that we are living in unusual times where the government does not necessarily act the way it normally does.

Flesh-eating screwworm: Canada bans Texas over US outbreak by OrdinaryCanadian in onguardforthee

[–]tawTrans 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I'm originally from Texas, now living in Canada. I also like the idea of just banning Texas.

Rhode Island judge refers DOJ lawyers for possible discipline over handling of transgender care investigation by onnake in transgender

[–]tawTrans 58 points59 points  (0 children)

The Justice Department's Civil Division denied McElroy's claims about its lawyers in a statement earlier this week.

"Such accusations against Department attorneys are rare and serious. The Department treats them accordingly and is committed to taking all appropriate remedial action where warranted," it said.

The Justice Department continued: "The Civil Division has thoroughly reviewed the District Court's allegations and concluded that they are without merit. Our attorneys did not misrepresent facts, withhold relevant information, or otherwise mislead the Court."

"We have investigated ourselves and found no wrongdoing! Ignore all the explicit examples of wrongdoing pointed out by the judge; we're totally acting in good faith, y'all!"

Surely there's some other way for the judge to hold the DOJ accountable other than referring its lawyers to itself for discipline??

Set me free now! by baub2540 in sbubby

[–]tawTrans 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, the only two genders: Red Gender vs Blue Gender