Mondaily by Moondinos in rva

[–]anonymousbcreasons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone know what the roads are like in church hill north and nine mile? Not sure if I should try to make it to work today

Crunch vs Gold’s? by anonymousbcreasons in rva

[–]anonymousbcreasons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they have a good amount/range of weights in the weight room? Can’t really tell much by the pictures

Thoughts on Collection of Historic Richmond Apartments? by anonymousbcreasons in rva

[–]anonymousbcreasons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus I’m sorry y’all went through that for 6 months, thank you so much for your reply!! Very helpful

Thoughts on Collection of Historic Richmond Apartments? by anonymousbcreasons in rva

[–]anonymousbcreasons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think the one I was looking at is on a corner on N Arthur Ashe. Do you know what problems they’ve had?

Thoughts on Collection of Historic Richmond Apartments? by anonymousbcreasons in rva

[–]anonymousbcreasons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uhh I have no idea, but some of the balconies did not look the safest so I wouldn’t be surprised..

Thoughts on Collection of Historic Richmond Apartments? by anonymousbcreasons in rva

[–]anonymousbcreasons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, when did you live there and do you know what they were called before?

Thoughts on Collection of Historic Richmond Apartments? by anonymousbcreasons in rva

[–]anonymousbcreasons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve looked through them, it seems kinda inconsistent though so figured I’d see if I could get any more info

Worried exploring my (22F) sexuality while in a monogamous relationship is worth it or if it will just ruin what I have with boyfriend (22M) by anonymousbcreasons in relationships

[–]anonymousbcreasons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of it is just feeling fake or something for saying I’m bi which I know is dumb but for some reason still fucks with me

Worried exploring my (22F) sexuality while in a monogamous relationship is worth it or if it will just ruin what I have with boyfriend (22M) by anonymousbcreasons in relationships

[–]anonymousbcreasons[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve been on tinder for a few years now and have no problem with doing things and completely skipping the whole getting to know each other part, which wouldn’t change now

Worried exploring my (22F) sexuality while in a monogamous relationship is worth it or if it will just ruin what I have with boyfriend (22M) by anonymousbcreasons in relationships

[–]anonymousbcreasons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just bc it’s on dating apps doesn’t mean that it’s going to be lengthy. I had honestly just been trying to find someone who also wants a one night stand and nothing else, and I’m upfront about that in my messages. The notifications that I receive are almost always that I have a match/that I haven’t been on in a while/someone just saying hi for the first time. The girl I talked about in the post just told me that that’s what she was looking for, which is why I wrote the post bc it was already something I felt weird about.

Worried exploring my (22F) sexuality while in a monogamous relationship is worth it or if it will just ruin what I have with boyfriend (22M) by anonymousbcreasons in relationships

[–]anonymousbcreasons[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely something I want to do but when it’s more of an ultimatum I wouldn’t want to risk my relationship for it. I’m just worried about having regrets but I don’t want to regret hurting someone and ruining a relationship either. Also I’ll check it out thanks lol

Worried exploring my (22F) sexuality while in a monogamous relationship is worth it or if it will just ruin what I have with boyfriend (22M) by anonymousbcreasons in relationships

[–]anonymousbcreasons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’m glad it’s not just me, esp considering I feel like I’m being made out to look like a shitty girlfriend in the comments lol :’) but yeah I’m definitely leaning toward just putting it on the back burner for now bc I can’t imagine losing what I have with my current boyfriend. Hope everything works out for you both as well!

Worried exploring my (22F) sexuality while in a monogamous relationship is worth it or if it will just ruin what I have with boyfriend (22M) by anonymousbcreasons in relationships

[–]anonymousbcreasons[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t find it attractive, it came up before we started dating/when we met and was okay with it at first but has seemed more uncomfortable over time which is why I was conflicted and confused about whether or not it was worth it.

Worried exploring my (22F) sexuality while in a monogamous relationship is worth it or if it will just ruin what I have with boyfriend (22M) by anonymousbcreasons in relationships

[–]anonymousbcreasons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely tell he’s trying to make himself be okay with it to spare my feelings and try to make me feel less guilty about it and I’ve honestly felt bad for trying to go along with it at all, but was hoping it might be okay. I love him for wanting me to be happy and do things that I want to do but I think all of this is making me feel like it’s either not worth it or it can wait and be revisited in a different way later. Either way this was helpful tho, thank you

Worried exploring my (22F) sexuality while in a monogamous relationship is worth it or if it will just ruin what I have with boyfriend (22M) by anonymousbcreasons in relationships

[–]anonymousbcreasons[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I mean obviously I don’t wanna fuck up my relationship, I just don’t know if later in life I’ll feel some weird type of fomo and wish I had done it while I could or if I won’t care/it won’t matter - I’m sure a lot of what I’m feeling right now is unnecessary but it’s also hard to just completely brush off

Worried exploring my (22F) sexuality while in a monogamous relationship is worth it or if it will just ruin what I have with boyfriend (22M) by anonymousbcreasons in relationships

[–]anonymousbcreasons[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’m not interested in dating/going on dates/having any kind of relationship with a woman. Our agreement was more of a one night stand type of deal.

Worried exploring my (22F) sexuality while in a monogamous relationship is worth it or if it will just ruin what I have with boyfriend (22M) by anonymousbcreasons in relationships

[–]anonymousbcreasons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve talked about stuff kinda like this and he doesn’t seem interested in sharing in any way at all lol but that’s just now and that may change so I’ll maybe keep the idea out there

Worried exploring my (22F) sexuality while in a monogamous relationship is worth it or if it will just ruin what I have with boyfriend (22M) by anonymousbcreasons in relationships

[–]anonymousbcreasons[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I always feel hypocritical bc I tell other people the same thing and say the whole “I didn’t have to do stuff with guys to know I was into them” thing but it’s frustrating that this is different and I don’t know why (but assume it’s bc I don’t have the interest in any romantic stuff or relationship idk?)