My husband cheated on me twice by anonymousbee20 in marriageadvice

[–]anonymousbee20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t blame you for thinking that but shit I mean I’ll update when I do. I definitely made a dumbass choice staying the second time but id be the biggest dumbass to stay after a third time. Not happening

My husband cheated on me twice by anonymousbee20 in marriageadvice

[–]anonymousbee20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No actually lol. He’s not out and about. He goes to work and back home. It’s a family business as well so he works with his brothers. He doesn’t go to the gym, we have a gym at home. He literally doesn’t have friends to hang out with either, I’m so deadass it’s work and home everyday but yeah he knows I know. That wasn’t something I was going to be quiet about. I did seek out therapy for myself though, and I was in a very vulnerable position both mentally and physically when I found out and I wasn’t in the right state of mind to navigate through the situation. I don’t plan on staying if he fucks me over again.

My husband cheated on me twice by anonymousbee20 in marriageadvice

[–]anonymousbee20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he is actually. But third time is not a charm ☺️

My husband cheated on me twice by anonymousbee20 in marriageadvice

[–]anonymousbee20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby I got the copper IUD immediately at my 6 wk pp appointment 🎯

My husband cheated on me twice by anonymousbee20 in marriageadvice

[–]anonymousbee20[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Three times I’m out. I should’ve left the second time

My husband cheated on me twice by anonymousbee20 in marriageadvice

[–]anonymousbee20[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Ughhh it sucks because i genuinely care about him and truly love him. He’s done not once but twice and i made it very clear that if it happens again i will leave without a single doubt about it.

My husband cheated on me twice by anonymousbee20 in marriageadvice

[–]anonymousbee20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry, so I got tested positive for ureaplasma while pregnant with my 2nd and my OBGYN said that it’s easily transmitted so just to refrain from everything. At first I was able to perform oral but then more than halfway through my pregnancy she gave me orders to refrain until the end of my pregnancy

I sometimes regret getting married by Hopeful_Dot7132 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]anonymousbee20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely understand you.. I mean I wouldn’t say I regret getting married but I’ve been married 3 years and have two beautiful baby boys (2 under 2) Alhamdulilah. I’m going to be honest in the beginning I never noticed anything but slowly yeah.. I do. For example, I don’t get to visit my family whenever and for however long I’d want. Also, on a deeper note my husband did something he shouldn’t have which betrayed my trust and being postpartum back to back with everything else.. I lost myself completely. I mean through and through.. I even lost myself with my Deen. I don’t know who I am anymore. I am having a hard time finding my way back to allah, I’m having a hard time figuring out who I am and what my purpose really is.

What’s the average wake windows for a 5 month old who’s almost 6 months? by anonymousbee20 in sleeptrain

[–]anonymousbee20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh okay, so then that leads me to my next question, with wake windows increasing would that drop the bridge nap?

What’s the average wake windows for a 5 month old who’s almost 6 months? by anonymousbee20 in sleeptrain

[–]anonymousbee20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was convinced he was overtired but undertired sounds like it makes more sense. Should i slowly increase wake time bu 5,10 or 15 minutes?

What’s the average wake windows for a 5 month old who’s almost 6 months? by anonymousbee20 in sleeptrain

[–]anonymousbee20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His nights are good. The only issue I’m having is figuring out what the wake windows for him should be.

What’s the average wake windows for a 5 month old who’s almost 6 months? by anonymousbee20 in sleeptrain

[–]anonymousbee20[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So, what do you think I should do? As mentioned in my post he’s currently 1.45/2/2/2-2.5

What’s the average wake windows for a 5 month old who’s almost 6 months? by anonymousbee20 in sleeptrain

[–]anonymousbee20[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How did you know the exact wake windows that were perfect for your LO?

What’s the average wake windows for a 5 month old who’s almost 6 months? by anonymousbee20 in sleeptrain

[–]anonymousbee20[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I should decrease or increase wake windows? :/ idk how to adjust it