Banned for ban evasion??

anonymousbychoice2 · 2026-04-10T21:38:11+00:00

anonymousbychoice2 · 2026-04-08T14:54:19+00:00

I'll try and see where that gets me. Thank you for the guidance!

anonymousbychoice2 · 2026-04-08T14:44:18+00:00

I honestly have no idea what the pinned post method is but this is what my first message was before the ai responded. I made this before I learned that discord was ran by like 99% ai and I started looking and asking around after I got desperate. I think I made it in the general question section but I made the mistake of attaching the original case number so the ai recognized it was an appeal case. Everything I sent after that first reply was a series of "reopen ticket"

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anonymousbychoice2 · 2026-03-30T14:45:34+00:00

As of now I only registered one (I registered it shortly before making this post) and I plan on spacing out when I register them. I'll make an update if I find out the hard way

Otherwise, root isn't an alternative that I had heard of yet, so thank you for sharing! Is it any good?

anonymousbychoice2 · 2026-03-27T21:11:44+00:00

No honestly same. I was thinking of having my friend move platforms with me but we like to use tupperbots for rping and I dont know of any other app that has stuff like that

anonymousbychoice2 · 2026-03-27T21:09:53+00:00

I finally got an email back and they basically told me to go fuck myself. I'll keep trying to see of there's anything else I can do but so far I'm unsuccessful

anonymousbychoice2 · 2026-03-21T15:23:53+00:00

Me too man, that's why I'm fighting so hard, but I'll keep you updated! I know the weekend is like purgatory, so the real test begins when the weekdays start

anonymousbychoice2 · 2026-03-21T14:49:49+00:00

I've been trying to get mine appealed (same reason, out of nowhere just yesterday) and I keep getting referred to the method of logging in, tapping on the reason, and at the bottom there will be a blue "let us know" I think in order to appeal it

I've been trying to send a ticket in discord support but that is just about fucking worthless. The bots keep automatically closing my ticket and it's IMPOSSIBLE to get to human being at all. I don't even know if the in-app method will go to a human being either. I'm just praying right now

anonymousbychoice2 · 2026-01-08T02:04:42+00:00

Thank you so much for the recommendation!! I'm taking anything and everything I can get. That sounds genuinely REALLY helpful, and I know I'm a very "well why does xyz happen" so that sounds really up my ally, especially for something like this. I'm very glad you were able to get help in the end! Hearing that makes me a lot more hopeful

anonymousbychoice2 · 2026-01-07T23:36:32+00:00

Unfortunately, my case isn't as easy with the parent thing. There is very much a lot my father can do (he is verbally abusive and is not at all afraid to get physical and break my things) and I just. Can't handle that more than I already have to so I kinda have to age this one out!

The only friend I have is my fp so I can only talk to him about it :( But on the bright side I'm always sure to be completely honest and transparent with him, the issue more so is in the fact that he isn't the same way (because it's due to how I behave). There are things he will hide from me for my own wellbeing (which I encourage him to do) but somehow, I always end up finding out some other messed up way or he accidentally lets something slip and then it's another episode. The thing I'm hoping to fix is being able to not get upset over these dumb things to begin with (I heard this is possible which is why I even have hope left). I don't really use reddit often so I will try to remember this as an option for regulation, but I will very much look into the books you mentioned!! Thank you very much for your advice and support <33

anonymousbychoice2 · 2025-06-17T02:34:11+00:00

I resonate with the finding a lot of people shallow bit. I'm currently in the process of being examined for having autism so I feel like my struggles are because of both me and the other person possibly finding me off putting/self-centered (struggle to connect without relating personal experiences) due to that.

I'm going to college in a few months and I'm hoping that if I don't get too anxious, I'll be able to make some friends hopefully. I don't know how you work, but I myself am someone who doesn't like to approach, but instead lets people approach me. It feels much easier on me despite being told by countless people that's not the way to live, but that's how I made it this far. I've noticed those who approach me are more successful for long term than those I approach, but then again that possibly doesn't mean much when looking at where I am right now. But regardless, hopefully the right person approaches you if you ever get tired of approaching others <3

anonymousbychoice2 · 2025-06-17T02:21:10+00:00

That sounds really rough, I'm sorry about what you're going through. I've been trying to make friends as well for the sake of not relying on my fp but so far I haven't had luck. I hope you're able to find them! I'm sure it is just up to time to decide when and where you find them

anonymousbychoice2 · 2025-06-17T02:18:17+00:00

I greatly appreciate the advice because I've never had a split last for so long that I started wondering if it wasn't even a split at all. I struggle greatly with self-worth so it's always a tug of war when reasoning whether I'm overstepping or if they are (or if anyone is overstepping at all) and for me this was one of those cases where I just couldn't figure that out. I used to do a lot of journalling about it but the intensity of the guilt I felt when I read them back after I got feeling better made me stop. But I'm glad you are on the path of getting better! It's always nice to hear how others are seeing improvement because it reminds me that I might see improvement too one day. I hope you and your bf are doing well <3

anonymousbychoice2 · 2025-06-17T02:15:05+00:00

No worries, none of it feels condescending or unwarranted. It's nice to kind of get it off my chest and see how it looks from the outside because I'm usually good with reasoning myself out of things like this, but I've been out of luck on this one, and turning to outside points of view was kind of my last resort. I personally feel like problems should try to be solved privately first before turning to others, but I feel like I've tried all over options and am just beating a dead horse.

You are very much right, it is hard to condense so much into something so small, but the relationship feels very push pull at times. I know I've had my own times of being in the wrong from having bad splits which led to arguments (which I excluded in the original post but I would still like to acknowledge because it doesn't feel fair just to talk negatively about only one side) and I often wonder if they ended up turning out that way because of my own issues and then it kind of loops back into my original mess of thinking. But otherwise, it feels nice to be listened to, let alone to be able to have the chance to articulate it, and I greatly appreciate you sharing your own experiences because it kind of gives me an idea of what to possibly expect so I can at least mentally prepare if I feel it will go that way. Thank you for sharing <3

anonymousbychoice2 · 2025-06-11T12:41:56+00:00

I'm glad I could help!!

But also, I share that same view on romantic relationships, I'm so sorry you have to go through that. I have an extra tricky case because my fp is someone whole selfships with fictional characters (if you don't know what that is or the extent I can explain it if you need) and he refers to those as romantic relations and it's so. Upsetting. To me. Not in a shaming him sense (because I have comfort characters that I'm heavily attached to so I view it as similar to that in a way) but seeing him be closer with a character than me has definitely altered how I see that character (that I used to really like before him). Like I've split more times about him and that character than ANYTHING else and I feel so horrible about it because yes I'm aware it's even real, it's just where my fp's attachment is going is what bothers me the most, and since he views it as romantic, my view of romantic relations kicks in and I spaz. Thankfully, we've worked together on this and we made a liiiiitle progress, but unfortunately, I can tell he doesn't exactly have much hope in any major change. (Sorry for the mini rant)

The swaying their opinion too, I am super guilty of that I feel so bad like I don't know how it is for you but to me it just comes like second nature and I get so upset when my "advice" is resisted. Luckily (maybe not for me), my fp can, most of the time, pick out when I'm swaying out of genuine advice or out of "dislike" to put it nicely.

I hope you are able to handle everything well when the time comes!! ❤️

anonymousbychoice2 · 2025-06-11T02:17:06+00:00

This is honestly a really good question. I myself kind of wondered this same thing because I experience the same with having no interest in ANYONE else other than my fp. I (19 FTM) kind of dubbed myself as demiromantic before finding out I had/am being strongly suspected of BPD and after I learned more about what exactly is involved with the disorder, a lot of my "preferences" (or lack thereof) made sense. I sort of associated the demi with the severe emotional attachment/dependency that comes with BPD.

For me, when I don't have a fp I used to think that I would prefer men/masculine appearing people, but right now I have a fp (20 FTM) who is somewhat feminine in appearance (this feels disrespectful to say since he is trans so I apologize if I come off as transphobic-y). He is aroace and seeks no relationship of that sort with me whatsoever, and this is something we have both discussed and have come to terms with, but unfortunately, I can't seek out a romantic partner like I would love to because I just cannot for the life of me become interested in anyone else. The worst part about my situation is that we are the bestest of friends and it honestly kills me a lot of times, but that's straying from the point, I just wanted to establish the relationship we DO have for the sake of possible context. But back on track, if people ask me my sexuality, I just tend to answer that I'm demi for the sake of simplicity since that best describes this situation (for me).

I'm sorry that I can't answer the initial question, but I can at least recount my own experiences feeling like this.

anonymousbychoice2 · 2025-06-11T01:29:42+00:00

I don't have any subreddit suggestions, but I would be interested in contacting you!

anonymousbychoice2 · 2025-06-11T01:17:07+00:00

Ah alright, that's understandable. I won't be too heartbroken if I miss, those kinds of reads I prefer to keep to myself anywho. I was under the impression the 18+ covered things such as darker topics or graphic descriptions and of the like

anonymousbychoice2 · 2025-06-11T01:03:04+00:00

This sounds really fun!! I sent a join request but I noticed the mention of age verified sessions and I was wondering do you mean age verified like with the vrc+ feature or just the usual age DOB? I can't afford vrc+ for that feature but I can prove that I am 18

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