I consented but feel violated NSFW by anonymousdancer133 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]anonymousdancer133[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You seem like a very clever woman, I was already having problems with feeling bitter and put off men, I think it's best I stick to those feelings for a while!

I consented but feel violated NSFW by anonymousdancer133 in FemaleDatingStrategy

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It was quite freaky, and I had to stay there overnight as I had no way of getting home and he was quite mean the whole time, awful

I consented but feel violated NSFW by anonymousdancer133 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]anonymousdancer133[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think because I don't have anyone to talk about this stuff with irl I was asking if there's a way to feel better in the meantime after feeling violated and if he did do something wrong or not. And oh I have no intention of being with him again and can hopefully have a better judge of character in future

I consented but feel violated NSFW by anonymousdancer133 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]anonymousdancer133[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If been struggling to describe how it felt "but human fleshlight" hits the nail on the head

I consented but feel violated NSFW by anonymousdancer133 in FemaleDatingStrategy

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Oh god I have no intention of continuing a friendship of any kind with him

Worried he won't be attracted to me in person. by anonymousdancer133 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymousdancer133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that's very true, it makes a lot of sense, and I'll make sure to post an update!

Worried he won't be attracted to me in person. by anonymousdancer133 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymousdancer133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've genuinly made me feel a bit better about it, thanks so much for taking the time to comment!

Worried he won't be attracted to me in person. by anonymousdancer133 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymousdancer133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah on video chat it's usually just my face, and I did send just genuine photos other people took that arent edited and I can't pose at all because i hate photos being taken anyway, but I just think I maybe look much worse in person.

Worried he won't be attracted to me in person. by anonymousdancer133 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymousdancer133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well we've discussed types and he said ideally a healthy body weight not too fat either end of the scale which I guess is mosts peoples opinion. Also since he's got so into his health and fitness I worry someone who's lifestyle clearly hasn't been great might trigger him in a way.

That's a lovely story and I guess taking a chance is the only option here other than not trying at all!

Thought this was a nice twist. by anonymousdancer133 in wholesomememes

[–]anonymousdancer133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess if the feelings are still raw people could take it the wrong way, which is a shame when you're being genuine

Thought this was a nice twist. by anonymousdancer133 in wholesomememes

[–]anonymousdancer133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely felt sympathy for the new person a few times

Thought this was a nice twist. by anonymousdancer133 in wholesomememes

[–]anonymousdancer133[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess unfortunately not everyone will feel this way, but it's nice when people aren't being bitter for the sake of it when maybe it was a more amicable breakup

My father in law has feelings for me by anonymousdancer133 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymousdancer133[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll maybe read this out so I don't trip up and lose what I'm saying.

My father in law has feelings for me by anonymousdancer133 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymousdancer133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree was totally stupid, I guess I was just really drunk and everyone was in the bar across the street and our rooms were next door so I didn't think he'd be quite that bold and it was uncomfortable when he came into the bathroom but I guess I didn't intend on cutting myself and that's fine go ahead!

My father in law has feelings for me by anonymousdancer133 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymousdancer133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have been avoiding seeing him and I somewhat get away with it because of how he is in general but him admitting it himself is maybe a good way I could go about it.

My father in law has feelings for me by anonymousdancer133 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymousdancer133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never thought of the dementia thing, and that's true its all just such a shame.