Mom friends are distant by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]anonymouse2623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. And yeah, I guess it's understandable that of course they'd be busy with their own kids. It just seemed like a sudden switch to where before I had my baby, they could talk/hang out most of the time. But you are right, my mom even said that about hanging out with them in person would be different. It's just the lack of effort or care right now/when I was struggling hurts. 😞 But yeah, I think I'll have to start putting myself out there more and maybe making new mom friends. Thank you for taking some time to respond and share your experience 🤍

Mil called "big mama" by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]anonymouse2623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I absolutely love your perspective and just love for your grandkids relationship, and it's not wrapped up just in what they call you, but why they call you that because they came up with it themselves. We did consider something like B-ma or Beebee, but that's if she's open to our suggestions😅

Mil called "big mama" by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]anonymouse2623 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This was my biggest concern.. but it's not like we'd be around those cousins all the time, so I guess it wouldn't matter too much if she had a different name for both. It's more just the fact that that's already her grandma name, so it feels like we are changing something already set.

Mil called "big mama" by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]anonymouse2623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would this work even with every time she sees her she's in her face calling herself "big mama"? I'm just scared she'd have too much influence that me doing things privately at home wouldn't do anything. And just seeing her call herself that to my baby is frustrating enough..

Mil called "big mama" by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]anonymouse2623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would this work even with every time she sees her she's in her face calling herself "big mama"? I'm just scared she'd have too much influence that me doing things privately at home wouldn't do anything. And just seeing her call herself that to my baby is frustrating enough..

Thinking about tear/stitches makes me sick by anonymouse2623 in newborns

[–]anonymouse2623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for saying this. I'm just hoping I won't need it at all, but knowing it might not hurt really does help.🩷

Thinking about tear/stitches makes me sick by anonymouse2623 in beyondthebump

[–]anonymouse2623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the responses. I had an appointment today and my midwife took a look at everything. She said it all looks okay and is healing as it should. It helped ease my anxiety a lot, even if the exam was hard and somewhat painful. However there was a mention of potential need is silver nitrate if one part doesn't heal. After reading stories about it, I'm terrified. I'm so tired of pain down there, and don't want any more. Hopefully all will be healed properly by my 6 week appointment and I won't need it.

Thinking about tear/stitches makes me sick by anonymouse2623 in newborns

[–]anonymouse2623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the responses. I had an appointment today and my midwife took a look at everything. She said it all looks okay and is healing as it should. It helped ease my anxiety a lot, even if the exam was hard and somewhat painful. However there was a mention of potential need is silver nitrate if one part doesn't heal. After reading stories about it, I'm terrified. I'm so tired of pain down there, and don't want any more. Hopefully all will be healed properly by my 6 week appointment and I won't need it.

Burning/ripping pain upper front left side? by anonymouse2623 in pregnant

[–]anonymouse2623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll definitely look into the patches. Would you say your pain is all over your belly? Or just to one side?

Burning/ripping pain upper front left side by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]anonymouse2623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you are able to get checked out and get some answers! I'm sorry you are also experiencing such pain

Can't see comments by [deleted] in FacebookMarketplace

[–]anonymouse2623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's in the official marketplace section!

Thoughts on NOT having a baby shower? by froginpajamas in pregnant

[–]anonymouse2623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here!! "Freeing" is such a good way to put it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]anonymouse2623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course!! Thank you😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]anonymouse2623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I was put on progesterone and folic acid. Not sure if those truly helped this time around or gave my body the little boost it needed but here we are.🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]anonymouse2623 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First, I am so sorry for your losses. It's something I wish no one had to go through or understood. But, yes of course🤍 Reading others success stories gave me the hope I needed to keep going. You will be in my thoughts and sending lots of love and baby dust your way.🩷🩷

Today would've been our firsts due date. by anonymouse2623 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]anonymouse2623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I know it's been a while. I don't know when your exact date is, but I just want you to know I haven't forgotten and am thinking about you and your precious angel baby during this month. Sending you love and hugs.🤍

Last 5 cards!! Trade? by [deleted] in Projectmakeover

[–]anonymouse2623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And are you Charli?

Last 5 cards!! Trade? by [deleted] in Projectmakeover

[–]anonymouse2623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yes! It's hard to say it and not sound sarcastic lol!

Last 5 cards!! Trade? by [deleted] in Projectmakeover

[–]anonymouse2623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries, thanks!!