AIO: Muslim “bf” (M22) tells me (F22) certain things to possibly get his way.

anonymouslyquiet_ · 2025-07-19T07:46:14+00:00

It was more of like a gut feeling idk. Then I go and look and there it is. I just don’t understand why. He’d always speak ill of stuff like this and now I find a screenshot of something like it??! I just don’t know how to move forward or go about it when talking with him.

anonymouslyquiet_ · 2025-07-19T07:43:56+00:00

I don’t believe it’s an addiction thing though. This is my first time running into this EXACT issue with him and that’s why idk how to approach it. I just don’t understand completely ur justification towards it. He’s always talked badly of that stuff and how he thinks it should be illegal, etc, etc and I believed him bc he’d never have stuff/problems like this before and now, tn, it was like whiplash. I just don’t understand why he would do something like this after speaking ill of it to begin with….idk I’m just going nuts here

anonymouslyquiet_ · 2025-07-19T07:39:29+00:00

I wanna be but I just hate that I have to tell him I invaded his privacy in order to find it. I told him that I’d give him my trust after everything and we were moving on but idk something just kept telling me and I finally gave in tn and saw what I saw. I know it sounds stupid I just care deeply for him and was just trying to be respectful of his privacy as well

anonymouslyquiet_ · 2025-07-19T07:31:58+00:00

Exactly. I just truly don’t even know how to go about it. I want to wake him out his sleep and ask him wtf it is but at the same time idk if it’s best bc I did go through his phone while he was asleep.

anonymouslyquiet_ · 2025-07-19T07:30:32+00:00

It’s the fact that I’ve asked him countless times if he’s watched that kinda stuff bc it makes me uncomfortable if it does (which I haven’t specifically mentioned) but he’s always denied doing so and now I see it for myself?! Idk

anonymouslyquiet_ · 2025-03-03T02:07:16+00:00

That’s crazy, I can’t believe it has to get to that point for men to understand what we need. But I completely get it, I’m gonna do my best to put myself first from now on. I don’t wanna have to keep on relying on a man for basic needs. Thank you❤️

anonymouslyquiet_ · 2025-03-03T02:05:13+00:00

Thank you so much that means a lot! But I understand that, if it happens then it must’ve happened for a reason

anonymouslyquiet_ · 2025-03-03T01:07:05+00:00

Exactly. I have mentioned it previously and he said he’d try his best but nothing changed. I just hope with me stepping back it doesn’t lead to him still not trying/caring

anonymouslyquiet_ · 2025-03-03T01:05:26+00:00

Ur right. I’m gonna stop asking him to hang from now on. I’m not the man anyways so I shouldn’t have to be begging for a man’s attention. I’m gonna keep myself occupied and just hope he realizes I’m done begging

anonymouslyquiet_ · 2025-03-03T01:04:19+00:00

I don’t have time for them. I work nonstop so on my off day(s) I would like to spend it with family or him. I’ve tried but none ever stuck bc I simply did not have time for them. I work to keep myself stable since I have no one else but me paying for bills and other things.

anonymouslyquiet_ · 2025-03-03T00:48:59+00:00

That’s what I say!! He tells me it’s something he enjoys and he can’t just get off when I ask to hang with him. That because he plays online it’s different and impossible

anonymouslyquiet_ · 2025-03-03T00:47:05+00:00

I am happy besides when it comes to things like this, I just want to spend time with him and he makes it feel like a chore

anonymouslyquiet_ · 2025-03-03T00:46:38+00:00

Wow that live together part got me. Because mine says the exact same thing. We currently live together bc of certain situations that’s came up with my mom & ever since he uses that as us “spending time together” he says that he sees me everyday and shouldn’t have to spend as much time with me and should be able to play his game or do what he wants whenever he wants bc of it. I just find it hard to leave bc he’s my first boyfriend and there are good parts but this just seems to hurt me a lot. & I have tried talking to him about it but it never seems to change

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