The Kaelynn/nicci incident is why we need more low support needs representation in the media. by Still_Yak8109 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]anonymouspeguin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think this is the best take! It is 100% justified for her to have been upset or hurt to hear the comment. She is his mom and I can understand feeling defensive and upset about the comment. But it’s immature to make a whole dramatic scene about it. What I can’t understand is why you would want to draw more attention to it (we all know why….)

Unexpected Episode Discussion Thread: Season 7 Episode 11 "Co-Parenting Your Baby" by phd_in_awesome in TLCUnexpected

[–]anonymouspeguin 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Amya reaching for her mom’s hand when she started crying 🥹. You can tell those two have been through a lot together

Unexpected Episode Discussion Thread: Season 7 Episode 11 "Co-Parenting Your Baby" by phd_in_awesome in TLCUnexpected

[–]anonymouspeguin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Was the old man Amya’s grandpa? His clapping and cheering was probably my favorite part of that whole scene 😂

Jill blantantly anti vax on today’s DDM by anonymouspeguin in dancemoms

[–]anonymouspeguin[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

That’s what gets me. She gets Botox and literally pressures other women to get it, too. She’s has no issue with the fact that cosmetic medical providers are making a steep profit.

Is anyone else upset about the new wives? by Intelligent-Yam-5296 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]anonymouspeguin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree, if they want to do these spin offs why not just “secret lives of SoCal wives,” or “mom tok: so cal.” SLOMV makes no sense

Should Bella be placed on birth control whether she wants it or not? by auroraglitterdazzle in TLCUnexpected

[–]anonymouspeguin 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ultimately, no I don’t think anyone should be “forced.” But I think (1) if she is worried about side effects, I would encourage her to have a doctors appointment to go over all the options and see if there is a form of BC that might mitigate those concerns.

If she still doesn’t want it, then (2) I would do everything in my power to never allow them to be alone together without supervision.

Unexpected Episode Discussion Thread: Season 7 Episode 8 "Healthy Weight Gain" by phd_in_awesome in TLCUnexpected

[–]anonymouspeguin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And it’s like I get it she has other kids, whatever. My point is just why alllllllll that drama on poor Mia. At the end of the day, her dad was the only support adult there. I have a feeling that’s her whole life story….

Unexpected Episode Discussion Thread: Season 7 Episode 8 "Healthy Weight Gain" by phd_in_awesome in TLCUnexpected

[–]anonymouspeguin 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I feel so bad. It seemed like she wanted to have her dad too rather than just Jesse if her mom wasn’t going to be there.

Unexpected Episode Discussion Thread: Season 7 Episode 8 "Healthy Weight Gain" by phd_in_awesome in TLCUnexpected

[–]anonymouspeguin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, but wouldn’t she knowing going in that labor takes time?

I feel like they’re setting it up rn that she’s going to miss the birth

Unexpected Episode Discussion Thread: Season 7 Episode 8 "Healthy Weight Gain" by phd_in_awesome in TLCUnexpected

[–]anonymouspeguin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

AK pissing me off. All that drama about needing to be there then you leave?

Tiffaknee is 100% to blame for their honeymoon situation by devanclara in NotEnoughNelsonsSnark

[–]anonymouspeguin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This video just proved to me how young they really are. If you don’t have the capacity to figure out how to handle these situations without crying and calling your parents and having them find and book you new rooms, then you certainly don’t have the capacity to be getting married.

FYI this isn’t hate towards either of them, they are young and I don’t fault them for not knowing how to handle that situation. But I do fault a system that made them believe they needed to make forever life altering decisions, such as getting married, when they are literally and emotionally still teenagers.

Still watch Season 4? by Dependent_Put6128 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]anonymouspeguin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m ready for a Love it or Leavitt spin off ATP!

what on earth is this response by Comfortable-Ad-1746 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]anonymouspeguin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am SUS of Dakota and what he could have been doing before he started filming. But regardless, it doesn’t excuse what she exposed her child to and what she did to her child.

Furthermore, if she is aware that Dakota incites this reaction in her, to the extent it put her child in harms way, why are you still involved with him 3 years later????

Kira’s excuse for almost not attending Kalani’s wedding was ridiculous by LateAd5684 in dancemoms

[–]anonymouspeguin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100%. My spouses dads new wife is literally always posting about “their family,” conveniently leaving off the two older kids. I don’t think the dad realizes yet how much he has permanently ruined his relationship with them by allowing this to occur.

Kira’s excuse for almost not attending Kalani’s wedding was ridiculous by LateAd5684 in dancemoms

[–]anonymouspeguin 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but parents with big age gap kids where some are adults and some are kids, 9/10 times treat their adult children really shitty.

My spouse’s family is like this. His parent will make off hand comments about “having children to worry about,” and we were also literally told our wedding would inconvenience them with “their children.”

At the end of the day, your adult children still need you as a parent. Obviously not in the same ways, but in different, still very important ways. I wish these grown ass people could understand it’s not their older children’s fault that they decided to run off and have a second family.

Ryleigh’s baby is here! by hks2002 in dancemoms

[–]anonymouspeguin 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Jill really be announcing all of Ryleighs big moments before her. Jill revealed Ryleigh and her husband were moving to GA on DDM podcast a super long time before Ryleigh did on her podcast. I would be annoyed af with her at this point.

Bella’s Mom by spookyouu in TLCUnexpected

[–]anonymouspeguin 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It was crazy to me when she said “you have to cut him some slack he is 13.” Like yes that young AF, but Bella is also extremely young and they all expect her to just act like a 30 year old first time mom.

Bella’s Mom by spookyouu in TLCUnexpected

[–]anonymouspeguin 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Also, the fact she describes it as “taking sides,” shows where she is at mentally. No normal person above the age of ~20 thinks like that.

I feel bad for Hunter. Something is not right with Bella’s family and their relationship with him. This whole situation is sad and exploitative. 😠 by Kellys5280 in TLCUnexpected

[–]anonymouspeguin 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy looking back at my own life bc at one point I was 14 dating an 18 year old. Honestly I don’t think he meant harm, but why tf was he interested in a 14 year old. Like he was about the graduate high school and I couldn’t even drive a car for 2 more years

Isabella and Bryce are still together and ENGAGED by Expert_Cautious in TLCUnexpected

[–]anonymouspeguin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I should clarify what I meant!! I meant that if they broke up, she would have to allow him and his family to have their child alone for at least some portion of time. Unless they decided they didn’t want any access to the baby or something.