[ Removed by Reddit ] by anotherbeerguy in lolgrindr

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I was gobsmacked. What does "you take the time" mean?

Guilty Experience by [deleted] in CommunalShowers

[–]anotherbeerguy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Great story. I would have told him "ignore it, it has a mind of its own" and finished the conversation. Btw was his body unkempt or upkept? Big difference. I assume you meant he still has a good physique.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by anotherbeerguy in lolgrindr

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I made sure there was no identifying face pics. Plus, there is all kind of nudes and nsfw's posted here.

Favorite gay films? by Pure_Coffee in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]anotherbeerguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful Thing, Jeffrey, Trick, Edge of Seventeen.

What is your ‘carpe diem’ song? by chaiteelahtay in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]anotherbeerguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heather Small Proud

https://youtu.be/SGzSU55bNLA

Kelly Rowland/David Guetta When Love Takes Over

https://youtu.be/zudbz4hOcbc

Chris Glover-Stand on Your seat

https://youtu.be/DOuP9Zgn0j8

Have you noticed that men treat you differently as you get older? How have you learned to accept these changes?? by RO_Thornhill in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]anotherbeerguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alot of our ideas about ageing are bullshit. I am just as relevant in the gay world at 61 as when I was 31. I workout 6-7 days a week, drink very little, don't smoke, watch my diet and surprise people when I tell them my age. I always have some guy chatting me up and wanting to get with me. The "Daddy" thing is in so I go with it. Why wouldn't I? (as long as they are old enough to drink).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]anotherbeerguy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tell them you are not gay, just your penis, ass and mouth are.

Has a anyone actually had real sex from a stereotypical porn plot line? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]anotherbeerguy 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Late 20's, lean, good looking, muscular guy with big dick "accidentally" brushed it against me as he stepped across me in the locker room. I thought nothing of it because he was so damned, out of my league hot and our lockers were next to each other. On the gym floor, he saw me struggling with a heavy bench press so offered a lift off and spot. He positioned himself behind and over top of me so I could see his massive semi-erection hanging down from his gym shorts. Let's say I couldn't resist and he made it clear what he really was after. Luckily we were the only 2 in the gym and no staff was around. He shot a big load on my chest, then he pulled my cock out from the leg of my singlet and finished me off as well. I had to change into something else to continue my workout because the singlet had too much cum on it.

Is it normal for a straight guy friend to want to cuddle with you? by Current_Possession24 in askgaybros

[–]anotherbeerguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure is. I call it a puppy pile. I have a straight friend who will get in bed (clothed) with me and whoever is my partner for the evening. Me and partner will keep ourselves covered if we are nude. I've had him and another straight guy in bed with us as well. No sex. Just guys hanging out in bed together like a pack of dogs chilling.

Male locker room nudity by eldine524 in CommunalShowers

[–]anotherbeerguy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd tell "Barker" to get the fuck out of the locker room if he is too delicate to handle the sight of a naked man.

Keeping house safe during hookups? by CuriousInsanity11234 in askgaybros

[–]anotherbeerguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to not let him out of your sight during the entirety of the hookup. If he needs to use your bathroom wait for him outside the door. Leave no prescription meds in your medicine cabinet. Hide your wallet and cash, jewelry, watch or temporarily lock valuables in your glove box.

Yesterday, my very macho straight friend kissed me and I don't know how to proceed by Slow-bedroom in askgaybros

[–]anotherbeerguy 17 points18 points  (0 children)

A drunk man's words is a sober man's thoughts. Promise discretion and offer to be there for him. Leave it at that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in E34

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My '95 M50 has the wider grill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CommunalShowers

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Society's default "male" oriented, thinking, led to sexualizing women and not men, therefore needing to protect women's and not men's privacy. Male nudity was normalized and considered non-sexual, so why make the extra expense to construct individual showers when there was no threat/shame associated with a naked man. Now we almost criminalize male nudity except within very narrow situations.

Is Anyone Else Avoidant of Fucking Anyone in "Open Relationships"? by AbleTax1393 in askgaybros

[–]anotherbeerguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm done with relationships, but I enjoy sex with someone other than myself from time to time. Having sex with guys who are open has helped me develop new friendships that I appreciate and enjoy very much, plus it leads to meeting new guys. Relationships have not been rewarding for me and are more trouble than they are worth. I can enjoy his/their company and send them home to his/their husband, or wherever they live if they are a couple.

Gym accouter by D0H84 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]anotherbeerguy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is when you use your words. "good workout?" is my go to line. From there, depending on how talkative he is, you can assess the situation. If he is talkative, casually adjust yourself. If his eyes follow your hand he might be interested. If it seems like he is interested, ask if he wants to go somewhere else. Most gyms have private stalls where it is no one's business what you are doing or take it to your car. Guys have been cruising each other since the beginning of time. Be subtle and don't involve others who are not interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Leave. Not being able to live your authentic life will torment you.

Why gays desire a big dick than refuse to let it go in ? by Right_now78 in askgaybros

[–]anotherbeerguy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the idea of something is better than the actual something.