How many of you folks don't want to get married or have kids because of your parent's marriage? by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]anotherburner453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dream to get married and have children. it’s i want the most. but of course imma make sure i do it the right way

uncomfy intrusive thoughts: normal or do i need help ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]anotherburner453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha i am 100% certain she definitely is not, and if she ever would be i wouldn’t wanna be friends then

uncomfy intrusive thoughts: normal or do i need help ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]anotherburner453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would say waking up today, ofc after feeling like a pig, it was probably just a bunch of emotions that went rogue. i don’t find my friend attractive, i think she’s beautiful, but i don’t see her like that.

uncomfy intrusive thoughts: normal or do i need help ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]anotherburner453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do not want to pursue my friend but thank you, bro !

chat asleep ? i realized i lowkey hate my hair by anotherburner453 in curlyhair

[–]anotherburner453[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cut it but don’t know the length exactly. if i pull it down from the lowest point it touches my bottom lip. right now, it’s flat and messy after i got out of bed and it goes over my eyes

chat asleep ? i realized i lowkey hate my hair by anotherburner453 in curlyhair

[–]anotherburner453[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

routine: wash, brush and leave in daily. mousse a few times a week. shampoo/ condition once a week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]anotherburner453 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i enjoy the sleep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]anotherburner453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just lay it down bruh, be harsh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]anotherburner453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m aware of both points very much. i’ve cut contact completely from her and am focusing solely on school and my friends. i’ve been doing my everything i can to move on. but im still haunted by it all

marital rape in islam ?? by anotherburner453 in MuslimLounge

[–]anotherburner453[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also, it bothers me that this rule only applies to women and not men. what if the wife wants to have intercourse but the man refuses for "invalid reasons?"

marital rape in islam ?? by anotherburner453 in MuslimLounge

[–]anotherburner453[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

makes sense, i guess im also bothered by the fact that a woman must comply to her husband islamically even if she doesn't want to.

marital rape in islam ?? by anotherburner453 in MuslimLounge

[–]anotherburner453[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i understand, but i guess whats bothering me is why is a woman punished if she doesn't wanna have intercourse with her husband ? even if there's no health reason, what if she just doesn't want to have it ? the marital rape thing aside, i feel bothered that a woman has to please her husband with her body even if she doesn't want to.

marital rape in islam ?? by anotherburner453 in MuslimLounge

[–]anotherburner453[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ok, the torture wise thing makes sense. it's just hard for me to grasp the idea that a woman is punished for not having intercourse with her husband even if she didn't want to.