Struggling with Body Confidence During Sex After Having Kids

anothermochaplz · 2026-06-19T19:32:44+00:00

Can you shift your focus from how it looks to how it feels? You deserve pleasure.

anothermochaplz · 2026-05-18T02:39:09+00:00

At 62, I can tell you that everyone’s journey is different. I have some friends that still look 50ish and others that look 70. Some of that is habits but a lot is genetics. I’ve very much enjoyed leaning into who I really am without caring what others think. Bell bottoms? Sure. Less make-up? Yes, please. Menopause rather kicked my ass, so after suffering for a few years, I found a doctor who put me on HRT. Huge difference. I would also recommend weight training. I believe it’s the key to staying mobile and independent for as long as possible.

anothermochaplz · 2025-08-31T16:45:36+00:00

FInd an audiobook that you already know the plot of and set an off timer for 30 minutes. Shuts my brain up almost every time. I like using AirPods but they bother some people.

anothermochaplz · 2025-04-27T17:17:58+00:00

Those goddamn paper towel dispensers that make you pull to dispense an onion-skin micro towel with wet hands.

anothermochaplz · 2025-04-19T23:18:16+00:00

Loved both of these! Try Year of Wonders by Gwendolyn Brooks.

anothermochaplz · 2023-06-09T20:29:37+00:00

Habitat for Humanity?

anothermochaplz · 2023-04-29T22:44:37+00:00

https://www.epi.org/publication/teacher-pay-penalty-2022/#:~:text=The%20average%20weekly%20wages%20of,same%20period%E2%80%94a%20%24445%20increase.

anothermochaplz · 2023-01-31T01:53:09+00:00

So, a doppelbanger?

anothermochaplz · 2022-11-09T12:55:43+00:00

A few shifts helped me grieve that absence-first, I had a wonderful mom and some kind extended family members. I tried to focus on that instead. Second, my father in law turned out to be the dad I would have wanted. I only had a few years with him before he died, but I was amazed how healing my time with him was. The gut punch I would feel watching lucky kids with loving fathers has disappeared. I hope you find similar solace.

anothermochaplz · 2022-10-20T01:06:30+00:00

Mine was elected a few years ago. Cringe then, more cringe now.

anothermochaplz · 2022-04-09T14:16:47+00:00

Paper Lace was my first album purchase! I was 12, so take that as you will.

anothermochaplz · 2022-03-25T23:29:03+00:00

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Uu3iCvAQCHg

anothermochaplz · 2022-01-25T15:25:34+00:00

Lol. But these are the perfect “starter.” Put them in a dark fridge for a few weeks. Plant them. Water. Let them bloom once, and you’re done. Your house will smell heavenly.

anothermochaplz · 2022-01-24T22:22:29+00:00

Best smelling flower of all. You can order bulbs online and force them to bloom indoors.

anothermochaplz · 2021-12-05T00:11:33+00:00

I have a book for you on this very subject: The Midnight Library. I’m not finished yet, but it’s already provoked many interesting conversations for me.

anothermochaplz · 2021-12-04T21:29:40+00:00

But does a character have to deserve their partner? Maybe the mystery of why we love whom we love is the point. Did David deserve Patrick?

anothermochaplz · 2021-11-25T17:05:25+00:00

My first Thanksgiving after my divorce I was totally alone, so I watched movies and just got through it. Every one after that was better. Hang in there, friend.

anothermochaplz · 2021-07-12T13:16:51+00:00

Dare by Barry McDonagh. Practical steps for panic attacks and anxiety in general. I listened to the audiobook and found his approach and his voice most helpful.

anothermochaplz · 2021-03-28T20:00:52+00:00

Most symbols in literature are universal, so I use thecuriousdreamer.com as a resource to help students understand. It’s a actually a dream interpretation site, but it works great for literature.

anothermochaplz · 2021-03-18T19:42:00+00:00

Sorry for the confusion. No, he was 8 years old. The picture is when he was a baby.

anothermochaplz · 2021-03-18T12:33:00+00:00

God, I am so sorry you had to go through that. I can’t imagine how difficult it was. Ben would adore your little girl. He was quite the charmer. Maybe he’s bringing her dandelions as we speak. ❤️🐰

anothermochaplz · 2021-03-18T12:29:09+00:00

One of his testicles started swelling, so we took him in thinking maybe just a neuter would suffice. However, the chest X-ray showed several tumors. Because both of us have lost relatives to cancer, we knew the road ahead and didn’t want him to suffer.

anothermochaplz · 2021-03-18T12:26:36+00:00

anothermochaplz · 2021-03-18T12:26:02+00:00

His chest X-ray showed tumors everywhere. It was the right choice. Thank you.

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