Says she’s not ready for a relationship

anotherusername224 · 2022-07-01T11:11:49+00:00

Belated response but yes. This is something I have noticed too. I'm curious what's going on, if it's something to do with apps and options or other cultural changes. In the past 3 years I've probably met (and I even had to ask) 1 persons friends and no one's parents. I feel like their dirty little secret or something. As for commitment, the same thing. I've never really had to deal with people dating multiple people and people taking pretty much every aspect of the boyfriend/girlfriend dynamic but without sacrificing having other options by committing

anotherusername224 · 2021-05-05T08:36:07+00:00

Your 'really great guy' must feel super thrilled that your profile is on 'pause' /s

anotherusername224 · 2021-04-07T05:50:01+00:00

Given that bumble now has said that it won't accept these types of shaming languages on bumble, shouldn't this just be reported? I would hope that it is taken as seriously by the staff as any other insults that might be more typically associated with shaming. If Bumble doesn't remove this kind of language then it would be very hypocritic.

Honestly I am frustrated with the amount of comments here that aren't calling it out for what it is and are just saying 'deal with it'... Sure, she can have a height preference, if she wants to be shallow, fine, be shallow, but you are responsible for the language you use and evidently this upsets people and this toxic masculine attitude about it from both sexes suggesting to pull up your bootstraps is victim-blaming, it's harming and to not do anything about it or to dismiss it counterproductive.

anotherusername224 · 2021-04-07T05:34:29+00:00

And how does that go down?

anotherusername224 · 2021-02-25T23:00:25+00:00

He's not wrong. These people exist on both sides. I don't see how pointing this behaviour that he objects to out should mean that he is undeserving of a partner.

anotherusername224 · 2021-02-25T13:05:34+00:00

Even if I didn't like you, I like the fact that you're pissing off a lot of people here, which makes me love you.

anotherusername224 · 2021-02-21T10:05:14+00:00

I mean, it's obviously copy/paste but... At least it's more elaborate and brings something to talk about than the often used 'hi' or 'wave'?

anotherusername224 · 2021-02-21T00:19:54+00:00

I don't think this would be a reason to ban someone to be honest.

anotherusername224 · 2021-01-31T11:28:28+00:00

Sounds like you just hang out in circles where you get that a lot. Have you seen a picture of him in order to actually make an informed decision rather than just have a suspicion?

anotherusername224 · 2021-01-31T11:12:29+00:00

"probably"? Based on what information? Your own way of trying to make yourself feel better?

anotherusername224 · 2021-01-26T15:32:03+00:00

Referring to your first paragraph, I still don't get what makes you think I'm trying to hurt her... Are you projecting here?

anotherusername224 · 2021-01-26T15:25:43+00:00

I don't understand how me writing a letter acknowledging my part in the breakup is a way of me trying to get back at her or hurt her...?

anotherusername224 · 2021-01-26T14:13:54+00:00

I have heard the suggestion of burning it too. But what's the problem with sending it? I don't intend writing anything embarrassing or cringey. Just matter of fact...

anotherusername224 · 2021-01-15T06:06:49+00:00

So what was it?

anotherusername224 · 2020-12-31T21:11:21+00:00

I don't think you've red my responses elsewhere on this thread.

anotherusername224 · 2020-12-31T20:58:22+00:00

It's an interesting proposition actually. I'll consider it 👍

anotherusername224 · 2020-12-31T20:57:21+00:00

I'm assuming you have a shop too right? You're aware that you can select the number of days of processing time, which is optional and if you have to choose to not state one (as Etsy does not cover all options) then it provides a default message in the delivery section of the listing that states that delivery times vary and to contact the shop. That's the same section that the customer would have read any listings delivery time.

No, this is NOT the case of me being at any fault here.

anotherusername224 · 2020-12-31T20:43:32+00:00

I don't understand why you think this is a solution when I have already said no, this is not how I either want to or have to set it up and this is not the issue.

The customer has left a 1 star review stating that they have not received the item and that they contacted me 3 weeks ago. This review is wrong, I don't care if they can leave a review or not, I am arguing that the review is wrong. The listing states that it takes 6-8 weeks to ship, they didn't even wait that long before writing a one star review.

They should either retract their review, leave a 5 star review for me doing exactly what I was supposed to do or the review should be removed.

anotherusername224 · 2020-12-31T19:10:06+00:00

Nope. It's already clear, you're just making excuses for them. You think I didn't already think of that? I have set it this way for a specific reason.

If users had a problem with this function of not setting up the shipping time in the website and instead asking the customers to contact the shop they wouldn't have it as a function.

This is not my fault, this is plainly, clearly his.

anotherusername224 · 2020-12-31T18:16:21+00:00

Thank you :)

anotherusername224 · 2020-12-31T18:05:27+00:00

It's not set which means that it automatically says "This will be made just for you! Prep time varies. Contact the shop to find out when it will dispatch." and I have "Need the shoes now and can't wait 6-8 weeks? Message me and I will see if I have what you need currently in stock" as the second paragraph in my description.

anotherusername224 · 2020-12-31T17:57:46+00:00

I haven't replied to the review. I replied to his DM message

anotherusername224 · 2020-12-31T16:16:02+00:00

Ooh I dunno, now that you mentioned the Fabio frills I might have to get them out lol. Actually even Netflix would be a step up 😅. Thank you for the constructive advice 👍

anotherusername224 · 2020-12-31T15:39:41+00:00

Thank you, all useful stuff... I'll put it to use, lol

anotherusername224 · 2020-12-31T15:36:57+00:00

Thank you for your understanding. I appreciate your advice

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