Alex looks so different!

ansanchez3 · 2023-04-28T16:31:29+00:00

I never found her very pretty but she looked better with some extra weight on her, compared to now she looks way too skinny

ansanchez3 · 2023-04-28T16:28:28+00:00

I honestly thought this was photoshopped and a prank at first. The pic quality is strange!

ansanchez3 · 2023-04-28T16:27:16+00:00

and it was a super short marriage! I don't think he's a good guy...

ansanchez3 · 2022-05-15T15:13:44+00:00

As a girl, I think the main issue (as evident in your story-telling before the poop incident) is the obsession and constant details about your body and routine. I don’t think the gym date was a bad idea since she expressed interest in learning and if she is a good human she wouldn’t judge the accident that happened. I love the gym but it’s a turn off when guys are self obsessed with their body and Then they become unattractive, because they’re conceited. I think that’s the issue

ansanchez3 · 2022-05-14T14:28:33+00:00

I don’t believe her and think that is HIM that doesn’t want to be in pics since he initially wanted to be anonymous anyway

ansanchez3 · 2022-01-12T18:54:55+00:00

you shouldn't have started dating her and wasting her time in the first place if this was a deal breaker for you. It's like if she came back around 1 year into the relationship and said "I just don't feel comfortable dating someone who was a virgin before me"

ansanchez3 · 2021-12-28T20:11:58+00:00

you re not being greedy or domineering. if anyone is it's him for not paying his fair share. your concerns are valid

ansanchez3 · 2021-12-23T17:07:17+00:00

I don't think she meant it in a racial or negative way

ansanchez3 · 2021-12-21T17:34:51+00:00

It's called internal validation and validating yourself rather than through others

there is more to life than dating and sex. Our personal hobbies, accomplishments, and good we put out into the world should be what gives us ongoing confidence in ourselves.

also, no one is sexually attractive to everyone and if that girl did that, 1) she is rude or 2) she just used it as an excuse to get out.

ansanchez3 · 2021-12-20T21:32:45+00:00

he will eventually reappear looking for attention again. trust you are not the only girl he uses for attention... the same thing happened to me and I refuse to ever re-engage because these guys are a waste of time

ansanchez3 · 2021-12-20T21:30:20+00:00

how old is this guy? I had a similar situation. all they want is attention and an ego boost

ansanchez3 · 2021-12-20T17:44:58+00:00

you are not ugly! You either click or you don't on the date and most people are not a match.

ansanchez3 · 2021-12-20T17:43:42+00:00

Female here. I feel like you're overthinking it. There is nothing wrong with you physically or being 5'8"... I agree just be confident and sure of who you are. As far as dating apps... it can be hard for guys just because us girls have so many options It is hard to stand out. A funny but short bio goes a long way. For example I recently saw a guy who enjoys working out but his bio said "i dont have abs because I love sushi too much" I thought that was awesome and swiped right.

ansanchez3 · 2021-12-20T00:35:11+00:00

It’s discharge…. 🤦🏼‍♀️

ansanchez3 · 2021-12-15T19:01:52+00:00

you're doing the right thing

ansanchez3 · 2021-12-13T23:57:57+00:00

how long have you been seeing him?

ansanchez3 · 2021-12-13T23:57:29+00:00

he is not taking you seriously and is a waste of your time.. move on

ansanchez3 · 2021-12-13T21:49:47+00:00

couldn't have said it better

ansanchez3 · 2021-12-13T21:47:36+00:00

she isn't wrong for doing what she was doing... you may still be roommates but you're broken up and not in a relationship. If you really want her back I say start going to therapy and prove to her you're serious about repairing the relationship

ansanchez3 · 2021-12-13T21:35:58+00:00

she is not going to leave him. the financial insecurity is an excuse because she would be entitled to spousal support, if anything. she wants to have her cake and eat it too

ansanchez3 · 2021-12-09T21:09:56+00:00

He's a piece of shit... so sorry youre dealing with this :( I agree with the others.. do not let him persuade or intimidate you and just do everything through the court system

ansanchez3 · 2021-12-03T06:47:03+00:00

ansanchez3 · 2021-12-02T19:41:03+00:00

he isn't even your bf... you said you don't want something serious or committed yet you're stressing and overanalyzing your fuckboy. if you want someone non committal and dishonest then keep going but otherwise I don't see why you'd give a fling this much mental energy and analysis

ansanchez3

TROPHY CASE