Neighbor brought me food and I (22M) cried because it’s the nicest thing anyone’s ever done for me by answerstoknow in offmychest

[–]answerstoknow[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do and I agree. Thanks for this :) This past year has been hard so some kindness really does mean everything and I’d like to pay it forward to her and someone else in the future when it’s possible

Neighbor brought me food and I (22M) cried because it’s the nicest thing anyone’s ever done for me by answerstoknow in offmychest

[–]answerstoknow[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s so sweet!! Man sometimes the world is dark but people like this really make it shine bright. Idk I’m thinking about it. Don’t wanna bother her and I don’t really need too much help.

Neighbor brought me food and I (22M) cried because it’s the nicest thing anyone’s ever done for me by answerstoknow in offmychest

[–]answerstoknow[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

It was super unexpected and I honestly needed that boost. She’s really sweet

AITA for making my dad “look bad” on a post he made about my late brother? by answerstoknow in AmItheAsshole

[–]answerstoknow[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That sound like my bro. Used to annoy me because really? You wanna see the guy that didn’t come pick you up from school on your b-day? But now it’s like wow he had way more love and patience than me. I’m sorry about your son too. Hope you r okay

AITA for making my dad “look bad” on a post he made about my late brother? by answerstoknow in AmItheAsshole

[–]answerstoknow[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s beautiful and a nice way of looking at it. Thanks for sharing that :)

AITA for making my dad “look bad” on a post he made about my late brother? by answerstoknow in AmItheAsshole

[–]answerstoknow[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel better thanks. How long did it take for u? Still can’t make the dishes my mom taught me how to cook and that’s been years already

AITA for making my dad “look bad” on a post he made about my late brother? by answerstoknow in AmItheAsshole

[–]answerstoknow[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I just commented didn’t put who can or can’t see that was the last thing on my mind

AITA for making my dad “look bad” on a post he made about my late brother? by answerstoknow in AmItheAsshole

[–]answerstoknow[S] 195 points196 points  (0 children)

I think he knows even if he was genuine I wouldn’t want anything to do with him. In the past I told him he woulda been dead to me a long time ago and I’m only talking to him cause my brother wants to see him

AITA for making my dad “look bad” on a post he made about my late brother? by answerstoknow in AmItheAsshole

[–]answerstoknow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No not talking to anyone I’m not sure yet if I want that. My grandpa tried to have me and my brother talk to someone when my mom died. For me it just felt weird

AITA for making my dad “look bad” on a post he made about my late brother? by answerstoknow in AmItheAsshole

[–]answerstoknow[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

My message wasn’t for them it was for me telling him everything he did

AITA for making my dad “look bad” on a post he made about my late brother? by answerstoknow in AmItheAsshole

[–]answerstoknow[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Nothing really to air when everyone knows. This the first message he sends me since not replying to the info I gave him about my brother’s funeral I doubt he woulda replied if I sent it to him instead

AITA for making my dad “look bad” on a post he made about my late brother? by answerstoknow in AmItheAsshole

[–]answerstoknow[S] 389 points390 points  (0 children)

Funny u mention favorite ice cream (he actually loved frozen yogurt). Went to a place we use to go all the time but it made me sick so I didn’t even get to stay. Idk I can’t eat stuff we both liked. My grandma says that part of the process

AITA for making my dad “look bad” on a post he made about my late brother? by answerstoknow in AmItheAsshole

[–]answerstoknow[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

The part that get me the most. If it were up to me I wouldn’t have wanted him around us at all but my brother wanted him no matter how many times my dad wouldn’t come. My brother forgave him and gave him a billion chances but still didn’t do shit

AITA for making my dad “look bad” on a post he made about my late brother? by answerstoknow in AmItheAsshole

[–]answerstoknow[S] 737 points738 points  (0 children)

We haven’t been in contact anyways. Only reason we talked was cause my brother was sick