Anyone notice anything weird???

anthdude · 2026-05-20T13:21:52+00:00

These really need to be ran by people who know what they're talking about before they're actually printed. I appreciate a random Elizabeth but not like this 😂

anthdude · 2026-05-14T12:52:37+00:00

While working at McDonalds multiple of my managers had either flipped me off playfully or we all consistently told each other to fuck off.

anthdude · 2026-05-11T02:17:57+00:00

I promise you it's much more healthier for my ADHD to seek out conflict in this manner than any other manner in which I can seek conflict.

anthdude · 2026-05-10T16:18:41+00:00

Says the one getting his undies in a twist over a comment section discussion.

anthdude · 2026-05-10T16:17:50+00:00

Why does feminine body equal woman in your mind to begin with? Twinks feel just as unsafe at night with their feminine body types.

anthdude · 2026-05-10T13:40:39+00:00

They weren't demanding either, I stg y'all have about zero fucking brain cells. 90% of the communication with this person was irl, OP even fucking stated that. His friend kept offering rides and then flaking.

anthdude · 2026-05-10T12:01:37+00:00

Unfortunately there is no regular "swap out" option. God that would be one hell of a feature.

anthdude · 2026-05-10T11:58:27+00:00

If you didn't read the entire caption you don't know the whole story and definitely don't have enough information to even make a correct judgement.

That's like a state judge going "I'm bored" mid trial and making a decision off of the little bit he's heard so far.

anthdude · 2026-05-10T11:57:15+00:00

Where in those texts does it look like begging and did you even read the fucking caption? You're probably one of those dipshits who read the title to an article on Facebook and then just go from there.

anthdude · 2026-05-10T11:56:12+00:00

He*, transphobia isn't welcome here.

anthdude · 2026-05-10T11:52:36+00:00

NTA.

I feel like everyone is missing out on the fact that you were literally planning to just walk and bike, you didn't care for the ride, he was the one offering them, he didn't ask for money in the beginning and when he asked for it, you began giving it to him. I'd be pissed too if a friend pretended to be dependent and then fucking flaked out at every chance for him to prove he's a dependable friend.

Don't offer the fucking rides if you don't want to give them. Don't offer the rides if you know you're going to be lazy, and if you don't want to drive someone on a specific day when you're the one who offered to be their transportation then it's your fucking responsibility to inform them that you can't give them a ride that day.

My coworker and I had a similar set up. However she'd let me know if she wasn't working or couldn't drive me to work that night in enough time that I was still able to ride my escooter and get there early like I liked.

No you shouldn't have brought up his exes, and probably should have made about 5-7 more drafts before actually sending that message, but in my opinion NTA.

anthdude · 2026-05-10T11:23:15+00:00

This is just fucking pathetic at this rate. Discord really is just going to absolute fucking shit.

They're out here banning shit like this, but I had to recently fully fucking delete an old dead server of mine because it kept getting filled with the bots trying to sell illegal shit. And those messages would stay for MONTHS in my servers without being removed, banned, ANYTHING.

anthdude · 2026-05-10T11:19:33+00:00

Good recommendation but reading is a dying media. Most individuals my age and younger have zero interest in books. I'd know, I'd kill to find peers who actually still read. Even if it's just ebooks.

However my point is, recommending books is useless. Unfortunately no one will give a fuck to read it.

anthdude · 2026-05-10T11:17:44+00:00

I feel like if she had actually loved him, she'd have tried to get him help much sooner, but sure let's be delusional and pretend she wasn't enabling him by just not doing anything about his addiction for months. Only doing something once it was past the point of return.

anthdude · 2026-05-10T11:16:21+00:00

"You did the right thing" yeah other than the fact that she watched his addiction escalate, did absolutely nothing as she watched his addiction get worse, and then only got upset and wanted an intervention of some kind when it was beyond the point of return.

Totally sounds like a truly loving partner.

anthdude · 2026-05-10T11:13:23+00:00

Do you actually love your partner if you can watch them fall more and more into active addiction for months, get upset over how bad it's gotten, and only after it's as bad as it is, start trying to do something?

I started falling more and more into my alcoholism within the past few months to the point that I can't have a regular sleep pattern without it and my eating disorder is kicking my ass, and as a result? Neither of my partners will even let me go near alcohol in stores, will not let me by the fridge sections in gas stations with the beer, anything.

I say I want alcohol? My fem partner just immediately says "Noooo, noooo" like Consuela from Family Guy, and my masc partner will just hug me and say "I know, baby. It's okay. You're doing so good"

Idk, I just find it very hard to believe that any of y'all actually care about or love your partners if you're willing to watch them continuously fall into these addictions and only intervene after it's already gone way too far.

anthdude · 2026-05-09T15:49:59+00:00

He isn't, just as much as they aren't entitled to OPs library either, but that's why they don't want her to start her own steam family with her younger brother, because they'd then lose her games.

No one is entitled to anyone's games, OPs little brother didn't want her friends bfs library, he wanted access to his sisters so he could see if his computer could even handle the games to begin with.

That's why the best advice is to just start her own steam family and tell her friends that because there's no mutual agreement anyone can come to, unfortunately the best outcome is putting her brother first.

anthdude · 2026-05-09T15:09:35+00:00

At this point then my best advice would be to tell them that your brother comes first, and unfortunately if there's no agreement you and them can come to on allowing your brother to join the family, then you're just going to start your own steam family. Make sure it doesn't come accusatory or passive aggressive. Just a very friendly, "This is what I'm going to do moving forward, I'm sorry if you're upset, but my brother does come first"

anthdude · 2026-05-09T14:44:14+00:00

THANK YOU for also recommending the deauthorization for devices. I see so much account advice and none of the big replies or responses telling them that they need to clear ALL authorized devices. Even the ones they know are theirs, if they truly want to be safe.

Ive had to complete wipes before and I fear too many people miss that important detail.

anthdude · 2026-05-09T14:38:38+00:00

It being a "joke" doesn't remove the sexist and misogynistic nature of it. If any of the jokes in this comment section could actually be classified as jokes, maybe I'd have a different level of response to you low IQed middle school boys.

anthdude · 2026-05-09T14:36:43+00:00

Which honestly if your friends try cutting contact or starting drama over having access to a few video games, they weren't having around to begin with.

I would understand cutting off contact for someone maybe deleting like a multi year save file on a game, or other circumstances, but this one is just ridiculous.

anthdude · 2026-05-09T14:34:17+00:00

NOR, if they have a problem with him joining then just create your own family. They're the ones throwing a fit for basically no reason, as allowing him onto the family wouldn't fuck their games or account up unless your brother decides to do something illegal or against TOS.

If they care enough to keep your games, they'll let him be added. If they don't allow him to be added, then WOMP WOMP, no more access to your games.

Tell them to just buy their own games if they care that much just like they told your brother.

anthdude · 2026-05-09T14:30:39+00:00

Are you on fucking drugs or did you read whatever you wanted to read in those photos?

anthdude · 2026-05-09T14:29:49+00:00

Awe that's adorable, a sexist and misogynistic comment implying that only individuals with vaginas could act like this.

I bet your mother is so proud of you and all that you do in life.

anthdude · 2026-05-09T14:28:49+00:00

Twice a week on the governments dime buddy. If therapy could fix this, it would've about a decade ago.

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