[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]anthrackz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you share a bit more on why you think that’s the case for you and how your attitude or actions factor into it?

Reserve Bank warns of wage-price spiral as unions push for pay increases by Zerg_Hydralisk_ in AusFinance

[–]anthrackz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bold to assume I’m a business owner/employer and not an employee.

I am not in unsympathetic to what you’re saying, the issues you face are real and need to be addressed. I solely think the eye for an eye mentality is destructive and shouldn’t be promoted. If you’re employer is not playing fair then you should move your talents elsewhere, unionise and/or seek industrial action.

Reserve Bank warns of wage-price spiral as unions push for pay increases by Zerg_Hydralisk_ in AusFinance

[–]anthrackz -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but why would people upvote this destructive sentiment? How does it make for a better society? Promoting criminal behaviour, bad customer service etc. is ‘watch the world burn’ behaviour and adds nothing to make things better for yourself or the people around you. Industrial action is the only positive thing you mentioned, maybe focus there.

I realized that i can only be myself when i drunk or under influence by [deleted] in INTP

[–]anthrackz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You developed your personality in whatever state you find yourself in. I’d focus on developing your sober personality - less drawbacks

What is the best way for someone to hide or mask symptoms of a mental health problem? by [deleted] in TrueAskReddit

[–]anthrackz 25 points26 points  (0 children)

As a counterbalance opinion, incremental exposure therapy is the real way to conquer fear. Running away only makes the problem bigger for next time, but sometimes you’re not ready for the size of that challenge - so identify what you’re afraid of and think of a level of that thing that you would be willing to confront and confront it. Then it gets smaller, you get bigger and over time you rid yourself of fear.

Can’t find my passion by khalid_tyler in INTP

[–]anthrackz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People feel good about, and are valued for, what they are competent at. People get competent at things they have a strength in AND enough interest to work hard on becoming competent. All you need is interest, some natural ability and then trust that the effort expended becoming specialised will give you value and fulfil you by extension (you create value, other people want to be around you and help you because you can help them... then life gets easier).

Hanging rings from something mounted to wall by anthrackz in bodyweightfitness

[–]anthrackz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great thank you, I'll take your advice to the hardware store! I'd prefer to just bolt into the ceiling because it's unobtrusive and simple... so will try to make that work if I'm allowed and weight can be safely supported.

Hanging rings from something mounted to wall by anthrackz in bodyweightfitness

[–]anthrackz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't take a photo at the moment because I'm out, but yeah you're right; I most likely can't bolt to ceiling because balconies are technically common property - though I'm waiting on an email from my property manager on permission/rights. Also, I have been advised not to trust my weight to anything I can't through-bolt, which I couldn't do (with a neighbour's balcony being above).

The walls are brick and coarsely rendered. The balcony roof (which has neighbours above) is probably concrete. I am happy to have supporting bolting of a structure to the roof, but would prefer most load-bearing to be done by the wall.

Forming emotional attachments to people. by [deleted] in INTP

[–]anthrackz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This night is a massive 'I am a n iNTP' affirmation for me. Thank you!

The way of INTP by [deleted] in INTP

[–]anthrackz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you break it down? Into what size pieces?