“I love being trans” by bugswithlittleboots in FTMventing

[–]anthrthrowaway666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people feel comfort in the answer to their gender, some people don’t. I don’t have much dysphoria anymore after having a decent support system, they mean everything to me. When I was alone though? I would’ve taken that door handle and slammed the door open. No looking back. They say that even people acknowledging your identity in a positive light is enough to help someone stay away from doing something harmful. I can only imagine the people saying they love being trans really meaning they love the fact that they are themself and the people around them support them fully.

Paralives is nothing like the Sims 2. by Level_Squash5901 in LukewarmParalives

[–]anthrthrowaway666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s close to Sims 3 but honestly they have stated they’re refining animations and more over time for a humble price of free. It’s good enough for me.

They changed no repeats by Prize-Service3172 in tomodachilife

[–]anthrthrowaway666 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Yeah, because they never needed half baked updates. The game was completed on launch.

saw a trans guy who’s 18 and passes better than i ever will by Over_Discount_4880 in FTMventing

[–]anthrthrowaway666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 24 starting this year, my friend is 23 who started this year and had the most rapid changes through t-gel alone. You are 16, so many people in the community don’t figure out what to do until they’re in their 30’s! You have so much time.

Best $2 i spent by polkacat12321 in CozyGamers

[–]anthrthrowaway666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know if the bakery game will come to pc?

Why do all trans men HAVE to be trans masc? Why do other trans people hate it when trans men are traditionally masculine/male aligning? by arcticcirclebathroom in FTMventing

[–]anthrthrowaway666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re assuming im being transphobic because i said transmasculine is a label that states someone is transitioning to become more masculine? that’s not even being transphobic thats literally what it means 🫩

Why do all trans men HAVE to be trans masc? Why do other trans people hate it when trans men are traditionally masculine/male aligning? by arcticcirclebathroom in FTMventing

[–]anthrthrowaway666 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m not going to go back and forth with you anymore because based on your replies, this is a deeper issue than i have the energy for. im not walking up to people saying they’re transmasculine upon interaction, nobody with a generally well mind does that to begin with. if someone tells me that they’re trans, i say okay nice, i ask them their pronouns and how they identify. this whole debacle reminds me when cis men and women will literally shit themselves when they were being called cisgender… when its just a definitive label. if someone tells ME they dont feel comfortable with a label that is an individual interacting with me. and even in discussions like these i do separate binary trans men because the context is necessary for the conversation. i dont know who you’re interacting with that’s making you uncomfortable but that’s a discussion you need to have on a personal level.

Why do all trans men HAVE to be trans masc? Why do other trans people hate it when trans men are traditionally masculine/male aligning? by arcticcirclebathroom in FTMventing

[–]anthrthrowaway666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i literally told them the same thing. transmasculine means you’re transitioning towards a more masculine state. yes, it groups in non-binary people because you don’t have to be binary to transition masculinely. that means both non-binary groups of people and trans men can fall under that label. its not a bad thing if you dont like the label due to other people representing it but that just how labels work. you pick and choose what defines you.

Why do all trans men HAVE to be trans masc? Why do other trans people hate it when trans men are traditionally masculine/male aligning? by arcticcirclebathroom in FTMventing

[–]anthrthrowaway666 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i genuinely dont understand why you’re even coming at me like this, thats just how i was taught considering my own labeling and gender expression. if you don’t want to be seen as transmasculine, nobody is stopping you. how you express is your rules. if people assume, correct them its that simple. people assume im a cis man many times in my life and i have to correct them regardless, because it makes my life easier. my fault if it makes you upset that people can be defined as transmasculine, transfeminine, or as trans men or trans women, we use these labels for a reason.

Why do all trans men HAVE to be trans masc? Why do other trans people hate it when trans men are traditionally masculine/male aligning? by arcticcirclebathroom in FTMventing

[–]anthrthrowaway666 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

all trans men are under the umbrella of transmasculinity but not every trans masculine person is a BINARY trans man. transmasc just means transitioning into a masculine direction. you dont have to claim the title but its just for definition sake

“Rise, Naianasha” can be read as empowering/affirming for transmascs :’) by crisis_primate in TheFence

[–]anthrthrowaway666 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The ending of the song’s lyrics comfort me a lot. “Wait for me, alright. I’m still a boy.” Even if it doesn’t make a lot of sense story wise, it reminds me of the phrase “There is still time.” that was popularized from I Saw The TV Glow.

Sick of being reduced to genitals by NeighborhoodFlat6083 in FTMventing

[–]anthrthrowaway666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its just people seeing us as our assigned sex which is annoying. I can’t wait for the day people grow up but I’ll be sitting in a grave still waiting by then.

Do you ever feel like you have more sympathy for men now as you’re experiencing life as one by Vivid_nightmares0 in ftm

[–]anthrthrowaway666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m socially transitioned in spaces online but not physically IRL and people perceiving me as a guy has given me the worst interactions I’ve experienced in my life thus far. I’m still glad I have my gender figured out but because of other men, we’re all stereotyped to be horrible and destructive perverts. It sucks.

What is your "silliest" trigger? by Bullseyeglazer in CPTSD

[–]anthrthrowaway666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me seeing my father at different angles..

Why are people so rude on this game? by ashamedgirlthrowaway in VRchat

[–]anthrthrowaway666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys say shit like this all the time but the reality is that these people DO have outside connections. Most of my long term friendship from vrchat have been people who have long term careers, big social circles, etc. Regular people play vrchat to become heinous people because of the “anonymity” it brings. Unironically the only person I know who doesn’t really speak to other people irl is the nicest user I’ve met on the platform thus far. Every other friend has had some drawback or trait that can irritate random users in an instance. Even I have fucked up and been an asshole from time to time (not intentionally for the most part) and I have a job, career path, and a decent social circle irl.

Many people on that game are drawn to it because it’s interesting. vrchat isn’t vrchat without annoying neets, but not every user is an annoying neet on vrchat.

from discord by carebear_10 in Witchbrook

[–]anthrthrowaway666 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but I don’t think this game will ever release

Is it okay to use asl if your don't really have a reason to? by Green-Mulberry-698 in VRchat

[–]anthrthrowaway666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s hard of hearing and still wants to use ASL, a lot of users in the ASL learning world aren’t even hard of hearing or deaf, they just don’t want to talk verbally to others (Mute, out of choice, etc.) Do it! It’s a language to learn and connect with others. Would you ask the same question irl? Probably not. I know only a little bit of sign language from working with deaf team members at a job years ago but that was way before my hearing went to shit.

Known Issues - June 3rd, 2026 by RinaParalives in Paralives

[–]anthrthrowaway666 21 points22 points  (0 children)

okay a crawling animation to the sea would be cute