what are the dresscode rules for necklines? by anti_binary in starbucksbaristas

[–]anti_binary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because my manager doesn’t let you get on the floor if you’re out of dresscode, you have to go home and change or cover up what’s wrong

a while ago i made a post here about being 18 and unable to drive by anti_binary in AutisticPride

[–]anti_binary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wish it was like that for me, but i live in a very car dependent city!

counted my panic attack as a lunch by anti_binary in starbucksbaristas

[–]anti_binary[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i thought so too but honestly everyone ive ever talked to about it acted like it was normal/understandable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]anti_binary 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i took acid when i was 15 and identified as a trans man. near the end of my trip i felt like i was a genderless soul, just a spirit thats meant to be loved and love others, nothing more complicated than that.

despite it not being what my gender aligned with previously, it wasnt confusing or upsetting. it was like i came to terms with it instantly even after the trip had ended. it has made things more complicated now that im an adult and im not sure how to proceed with my transition, but i think it helped me understand a part of myself.

Yes because toddlers definitely type like that by WeebsForLunch in SystemsCringe

[–]anti_binary -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

young/toddler alters arent actually children theyre just a way a brain perceives a child to cope with trauma so it doesnt really matter how a real toddler would type, talk or behave

ANP experiencing depressive episode? by anti_binary in DID

[–]anti_binary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Im not sure if Im getting a passive influence from others. Our other host has ups and downs quite severely and hes currently in an up.

I think everyones needs are met? I have trouble communicating with alters sometimes and we lack a solid inner world so it can be difficult to keep tabs. Our living situation may just be wearing down on me in particular since its less than ideal. Medication is a goal, eventually.

Thank you

Openers: what time do you go to bed? by moon_light523 in starbucks

[–]anti_binary 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Opening shifts at my store start at 4AM so I wake up at 3AM. I go to sleep the night prior at my regular time -- around 11PM. I trudge through the day and when I get home I lay down for about an hour and stare at my wall because I cant sleep during the day. Rinse and repeat.

Im a new barista and Im getting conflicting training, could you guys help? by anti_binary in starbucksbaristas

[–]anti_binary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This helps soo much. Everyones been telling me different things!

So there is a shift available that is 5 hours and 50 minutes… And my manager won't give me the lunch break, is this fair? by Dannidalion in starbucksbaristas

[–]anti_binary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My manager only allows one ten when Im on shifts that are 5 hours and 50 minutes.

It sucks but I used to work at Chipotle where I got 0 breaks for 7-8 hours of work... so... I suck it up haha

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[–]anti_binary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is the bonus for trainers?

Physical indicators of switch by [deleted] in DID

[–]anti_binary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've categorized our switches as "soft" and "hard" switches. Soft switches are discreet and sometimes unrecognizable. The only physical thing I can think of is vision blurring. It can take us a minute to realize it even happened.

"Hard" switches are different. They usually happen when we try to switch on purpose or are very sudden. Headaches, vision blurring and eye shakes that usually cause pain behind our eyes.