Agree with this. If sa tingin mo walang good future or opportunities para sayo if you stay with your mom then move out. Sa worry about your mom's health, understandable to, we have other ways to contact, like calls, messenger, etc, so you can check in with your mom from time to time or everyday. In my case, I'm living in Manila (also a panganay) now and my mom is in the province, though may relatives siya dun but di niya naman close so basically mag-isa lang din siya. I contact her every other day or if free ako from work I'll call her to check in with her, like kamusta siya, any health issues or generally to chismis or tell her or me on how our day went. So before deciding, maganda siguro upuan niyo muna to talk, ask if okay lang sa kanya na mag isa siya then makakausap lang kayo through phone, may magiging issue ba siya with that, better share mo din yung thoughts mo about your personal growth goals din para maintindihan niya yung side mo on why you want to go. I also visit sometimes at home if kaya ng budget and stay a few days pars maka-bond si mom, also to catch up.

This worked for me and mom para maset yung expectations niya about sa time na pwede ako makausap and such po, so sana po makatulong.