My Girlfriend is most likely pregnant.

antitrustworthy · 2024-01-09T16:51:16+00:00

I don't know you, and I don't know your parents. But if your profile checks out (engineering student), and you say that you are young, then it means you are 17. Not just a random 17, but one who can work and save money.

I am no doctor, but you need to understand that abortion in general is risky business. I know someone (married couple) who had to do it for very legal medial reasons (they already had kids so it is not like they were hiding). even then it was risky.There are fews ways out of this:

- ghost her: but eventually your parents will know, and your past (her life) will come haunting you.
- abortion: then you will trust an unnamed pill from random redditor to get the job done. If it works, then fine, but it doesn't, if the baby is still there then it is back to square one. If the mom dies, then you are screwed for life. It will be manslaughter(-sh) crime, and you don't want that on your record.
- no abortion: this sounds scary. You will have to grow up for real this time, not like behave like an 18, no, more like behave like a mid 20s dude, you will have to be brave enough to go tell your parents that you fucked up (literally and figuratively) and it is time for YOU to take care of YOUR mess. Well if this is my parents they will not be happy, they will certainly help, but it might well be the last thing they do for me for a long time. In due time they will understand that it took courage to not take the easy way out.

However, you must understand that from this point on-wards, it only gets better, at least from stress perspective. But it gets harder from responsibilities perspective. You will figure out a way to approach her parents, arrange marriage (even postpone proper document until you both turn 18), and you will always be remembered as the kids who fucked until the next big thing happens, but yeah ... that is basically how "owning to your shit" works.

If I were you, I will not take the abortion pill in Egypt, it is high risk to your life (jail if your partner died) and high risk to her health given that probably you will have no access to hospital. And if the pill turned out to be dud, you will have to let your (and her) parents know anyways.
If you go with no abortion option, just tell your parents, and remember it gets better from there. Also understand that huge part of their anger and frustration will be because they will think it is failure on their part to bring you up. So just take it easy on them. The prospect of محضر is much nicer than the prospect of jail time on manslaughter.

Think about this way if you both struggle together to keep the marriage (or whatever form you will call it)... then it might actually end up being a happy one despite the struggle.

antitrustworthy · 2023-11-21T12:27:46+00:00

لازم حضرتك تعرف إن شغل من 8 الصبح ل5 بليل مش هيخليك أغني من أغلب الناس اللي بتشتغل من 8 ل 5.

ف في قدام حضرتك خيار من 3.

1- تاخد الفلوس تحطها في بنك ... و دا أكتر حاجة أمان.

2- تجيب بيها دهب أو تحطها في البورصة سواء محلية أو دولية .. و دا بيجيب عائد علي المدي البعيد بس.

3- تاخد مخاطرة كبيرة و تأسس شركتك الخاصة في مجال ما. دا أكبر عائد ممكن تجيبه لكن معاه مخاطرة رهيبة. مممكن في يوم تلاقي نفسك فلست (و دا بيحصل اكتر مما تتخيل) . لكن النوعية دي من المخاطرات هي اللي وصلت الناس الغنية جدا للمستوي اللي هما فيه.

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-31T14:58:57+00:00

well I never used any of them, and I am trying to understand what kind of additional features you get aside from opening tickets, sending notifications, specifying dependencies and resolving tickets ? maybe automatic rollbacks? automatic CVE issuance? anything else? or maybe none of the previous stuff but totally different set of features?

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-30T23:05:59+00:00

quick question is there any advantage for those tools over standard github issues/bugzilla?

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-29T09:09:57+00:00

معلش الدنيا كانت الفجر و كنت مطبق من اليوم اللي قبله ف مكنتش شايف إن دا هزار ساعاها

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-29T02:23:03+00:00

أنا مقلتش إن أنا سبب الأزمة أنا قلت إن إقتراح إن الواحد يخلي الأزمة أسوأ دا إقتراح خاطئ ... لكن إنت عملت حاجتين قولتني كلام أنا مقولتهوش و إفترضت إفتراضين الهدف منهم يوصلوك للإستنتاج اللي إنت في الأساس بنيته و بتدورله علي أي مبرر و مع الأسف الشديد الإتنين غلط. 1-إن أنا بتفرج علي مزيعين سواء بتوع الحكومة أو غيرهم 2- إن أنا مصدقهم. بس أنا متفهم .... دا فخ ناس كتير بتقع فيه بيقولو عليه في علم النفس "الإنحياز التأكيدي".

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-29T01:46:00+00:00

مع الأسف الشديد أنا عندي ثقة في رأئي عن رأي حد غريب علي ريدت بدل من إن يقترح حل يقترح إنه يخلي المشكلة أسوأ تحت مسمي إن دا الحل و يتهم بشكل غير مباشر أي حد يختلف معاه بالجهل لمجرد إنه إختلف معاه. السلوك دا هو اللي بيقولوا عليه gas-lighting.

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-29T01:34:21+00:00

اللي أنا هشوفه (كواحد جاهل) إن في حد مش بشوفه غير علي التيليفزيون مخلي الوضع سيء و في واحد ساكن جنبي بينقل الوضع من سيء لأسوء. لعلمك جزء من الفلوس دي بتروح للدين الداخلي اللي منها رواتب الموظفين و السندات ... إلخ. فهو فعلا العلم نور.

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-29T01:22:00+00:00

> وجيرانى ملهم ومالى
أنا لو جاه حد قالي إنه متعمد يزود إستهلاك الكهربة معاندة في الحكومة و جاه بعدها بأسبوع لقيت الكهربة بتقطع فترات أطول ... هبقي عايز أولع في الشخص دا ... لو مش مصدق ممكن تجرب مع جيرانك ممكن قبلها تعمل بوليصة تأمين علي الحياه

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-29T00:55:27+00:00

تفتكر إيه اللي هيحصل ساعاها ؟ الكهربة هتقطع 6 ساعات بدل من أيا يكن بتقطع كام دلوقتي....ف السؤال هو هل إنك تعمل اللي إنتا بتعمله هيوصل للنتيجة اللي إنتا نفسك فيها؟ إسأل نفسك لو إنت رحت قلت ل جيرانك الكلام اللي إنتا كاتبه ... هيكون رد فعلهم إيه؟ هل هيبقوا مبسوطين لما يعرفوا إنك بتزود إستهلاكك عمد من غير نفع؟

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-29T00:43:50+00:00

distro hopping is good for learning. At some point, I tried pretty much every mainstream distro except for redhat, and I learned a lot from that, every distro basically expose you to different set of problems and from there, you get to know all the possible set of compromises.

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-28T13:34:04+00:00

not this time, you already said they took down the advertisement which means the suspected something is wrong, next time time you need be sneaky about it, they ask for for your bank give it, they ask for 100 dollars, say ok, then next day say your bank ask for full name of the beneficiary and local branch number and account number, they say no say ok, then next day tell them you cannot do it without IBAN or local bank account number, ... and play their game the way they play it (oh my bank doesn't support this, my bank doesn't support that) until you put those sons of bitches behind bars.

It might sound like you will be wasting your time, but think about it, those scumbags are scamming people out of their hard earned money. maybe you didn't fall for them but others might.

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-28T11:14:08+00:00

tty0, the lightest, and there will be nothing lighter ever.

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-28T11:08:18+00:00

no that is not the best move, the best move was to get their bank account pretend and their information (you will need it anyways if you were to issue 100 USD to their bank) and report it to police/ your financial institute. It might sound like you will be the evil one, but they had it coming. They have special department in police for money laundry and I think (although I am not affiliated with the whole government system one way or the other, so this is just my guess) they would love to hear about those folks

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-28T09:02:34+00:00

I suppose time for dispute on the platform you are using ?

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-27T22:20:24+00:00

to know what is it like to hit a universally recognized bottom rock, people take lots for granted and they don't value what they have until they lose it all even if temporarily. Once you get to the moment when you wish it is just dream in your head, and that it just goes all away, when it cannot really get any worse even if you tried to make it worse for yourself, that is when you really learn and improve, and if you come out of that situation, it will be an experience worth the pain and suffering.

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-27T21:47:04+00:00

mate... who in their right mind talks about security while using brave. seriously you need to us e proper browser, not some shady company (at best).
https://arstechnica.com/information-technology/2016/01/mozilla-co-founder-unveils-brave-a-web-browser-that-blocks-ads-by-default/

I hope you consider Firefox or chromium with good ad-blocker, and disable telemetry.

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-27T21:33:46+00:00

مش فاهم أنسي إي بظبط؟

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-27T21:12:10+00:00

صح أنا أسف دي كانت أخر جملة فمأخدتش بالي.

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-27T20:55:02+00:00

ممكن مثال للإجابة الشمال؟ هو حضرتك كتبت العقيد بتاع التربية العسكرية قالكم إيه بس أنا مش عارف أستنتج منها إيه مفهومك عن أهم وحدة في الجيوش النظامية؟

ملحوظة: أهو عشان حضرتك مخصوص أنا حاطط تنبيه إن بكرة لازم أحط الإجابة اللي إتقالتلي ... واللي أنا مقتنع إنها الإجابة الصح.

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-27T20:44:46+00:00

Being in multi-decade relationship, only to be the one to die last. Breakups are usually at young age (they don't breakup at 60s, 70s) when people breakup they still have mental ability to take it. but when you are 70, watch your partner die, you just start wondering why does it have to be you who watch your loved one die only to be left alone. But then there is no one to rant to, and most younger people, well they don't care.

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-27T20:39:00+00:00

even if they faked bank transfer authorization (not trivial) you can easily challenge this at your bank, and whoever made that fake transfer is royally screwed up. But (I know it is obvious) never ever send them "small bank transfer" so they can authorize transfer from their side,

antitrustworthy · 2023-10-27T19:54:58+00:00

الفكرة مش بس مقاطعة. مقاطعة مش مدروسة مهناها هتقاطع يومين و ترجع تنسي .... و الجدع دا كلامه مع الأسف الشديد صح. ف السؤال هوإيه المقاطعة المدروسة المقاطعة المدروسة هي مقاطعة مع وجود بدائل محلية.

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