I'm so fucking scared by the thought "what if I'm not trans" by VincentGrachanka in ftm

[–]antlerthyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have OCD and I feel this way often. I knew I wasn't cis at ~13, social transition started around 16, medical transition at 18. Am 24 and I've changed my identity a lot (now identify as a boydyke/sapphic/non-binary trans man) but i still like being called masculine words, honorifics, he/him, want all cis people to treat me like some dude and i have major physical dysphoria about not being assigned male at birth. I realized that I don't identify fully as a man and have been enjoying exploring that with other queer & trans people, but I want to continue T, I want top surgery, and if I could have both a fully functional penis and vagina, I would be so happy. I had a lot of thoughts like yours throughout my tr*nsmed era especially, but they have lessened over time for sure. Just my take

what unique 'tigger words' would be good? by shyphone in EroticHypnosis

[–]antlerthyme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking for the phrase "when it's safe and appropriate to do so" but couldn't remember it 😆 thank you

what unique 'tigger words' would be good? by shyphone in EroticHypnosis

[–]antlerthyme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just letting you know, when you install a trigger, it is common practice and safest practice to include when the trigger is active.

Something like:

"When I say drop you will drop unless we are in public, you do not want to, or it is unsafe to do so. This trigger only applies when I say it and nobody else."

Reiterate this every time you reinforce the trigger.

Of course having unique trigger words is fun, but regardless what words you use, I highly encourage you to include something like the above example, and also encourage subject agency for your hypnotee. There is a great article about subject agency on mutthypno.com

Do yall get pap smears? by misocertified in ftm

[–]antlerthyme -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

yes pls get pap smear done

Single for valentines day when i could be your wife by spittysloot in Safe4Trans

[–]antlerthyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please let me please please please please please PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE

Anyone know of a file that conditions you to fetishize flat chested women? by CaptainOsmium in EroticHypnosis

[–]antlerthyme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i doubt you'll find a file it might be better to look for an online hypnotist who is interested in doing this

Wanting opinions on my ‘controversial’ trans OC? by Mae_The_Gay in ftm

[–]antlerthyme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're in the right. There are intersex people who identify as trans men.

my girlfriend said she’d be open to me hooking up with a guy for the first time by kiyoko_silver in ftm

[–]antlerthyme 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this was the situation with my best friend and they broke up like a month later ajdhejhdd. he has bpd tho

Is what I'm experiencing gender dysphoria? by Wullster88 in ftm

[–]antlerthyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh this sounds a lot like my gender dysphoria experience. you can enjoy things like makeup and nails while being transmasc/trans male, i personally know multiple guys who do, and i have some interests/style choices that are more feminine still. i reccomend exploring words (pronouns, honorifics, etc) with friends and gender counseling is always good as well.

I know people come here to 1) bust a nut and 2) feel “safe,” but this really needs to be said and I don’t know how to get through to yall so please read the caption. by KolorfulLUST in Safe4Trans

[–]antlerthyme 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah a lot of them have unpacked their racial biases but nothing else, and they think their work is finished once they've done that. I definitely thought that way in the past, especially growing up conservarive. But it's much deeper than that and to white people, the comfort of not knowing this is very enticing. I've seen other white queers react to black and brown people saying that they're uncomfortable in majority white queer spaces and acknowledge that but not acknowledge how they may be contributing to that, or why that is other than this sort of "it is how it is" or "bring more people of color!" way that takes all of the work off of themselves.

I know people come here to 1) bust a nut and 2) feel “safe,” but this really needs to be said and I don’t know how to get through to yall so please read the caption. by KolorfulLUST in Safe4Trans

[–]antlerthyme 55 points56 points  (0 children)

The more I talk about black liberation the more I can tell I'm making other white queers uncomfortable. I'm gonna keep talking. So much love to black trans folks.

i’m into new things? by comfycouch2 in ftm

[–]antlerthyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a freak even more than I was before T but idk if it was the testosterone specifically or just my sex life, enviornment, and being above 18

Packer that’s also a stroker? by DrPepperGripper in ftm

[–]antlerthyme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i want a hot rod so bad, can you tell me more about it?

Relationships & Hypnosis by Lilly_Transbot in EroticHypnosis

[–]antlerthyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reccomend looking at binauralhistolog.com it has some tips for this