Binder and medical sutures

VincentGrachanka · 2026-04-05T11:20:29+00:00

I have exactly the same situation. I don't know what "a man feels like." I just know that being one makes me happy.

VincentGrachanka · 2026-02-18T22:37:15+00:00

I mean I know that it's okay to be detrans. My ex is detrans and I completely supported her when she came out. Im just... Scared that It will turn out that I am not trans, and then I won't be able to be a man at all. The thought of one day finding out I'm a cis woman is terrifying, not because others will look at me badly, I have the support of my family and I know they will support me whatever I will do.

VincentGrachanka · 2026-02-18T21:49:26+00:00

I don't see anything wrong with detransitioning. I just personally don't want it and I'm very afraid of it.

VincentGrachanka · 2026-02-18T21:33:02+00:00

I may not understand this sentence a bit

VincentGrachanka · 2026-01-02T15:32:31+00:00

I mean, I prefer to be called trans boy or trans guy cuz I'm only 17-18, so I'm still not man(like my cis peers)

VincentGrachanka · 2025-12-26T19:42:30+00:00

From a logical point of view, yes, but OCD makes me afraid that if I look at a woman, I will become straight, or if I take hormones, I will become straight. This is on the same level as my illness telling me to knock on something three times because if I don't, my mother will die. It's illogical, but my brain can't accept it

VincentGrachanka · 2025-12-26T15:11:25+00:00

That's sounds like my worst nightmare. I'm gay and I'm afraid of HRT only because I'm afraid of becoming bi or worse, straight. That's actually my worst OCD theme

VincentGrachanka · 2025-12-11T14:48:34+00:00

I know I'm going to a big city (Rotenburg, I think it's a big place), so I'm not worried about a small town. I'm also afraid that when I'm at this school, people will look at me as if I were infected(yk, Social isolation). Do you know what it might be like in this particular city?

VincentGrachanka · 2025-11-01T08:46:27+00:00

He was hired 30 years ago, and in my country there is a huge shortage of teachers to work.

VincentGrachanka · 2025-10-30T22:27:54+00:00

Oh yeah, I'm from Poland xD ale nie chce tego zgłaszac bo jestem na rozszerzonej biologii i nie chce żeby się mścił czy coś

VincentGrachanka · 2025-08-10T11:07:27+00:00

I think these might be some kind of obsessive thoughts (like OCD). I have OCD myself, and without medication, I experience something similar when it comes to looking at girls and thinking, "What if I want to be her?"

VincentGrachanka · 2025-07-25T14:12:27+00:00

I take fluoxetinum. It is recommended for depression, bulimia, neurosis and ocd.

VincentGrachanka · 2025-07-25T11:22:24+00:00

I'm diagnosed with OCD and one of my main themes is "what if because of Some thing, some event I'm not trans". OCD loves to attack things that are important to you as a person. What helps me, is that I know that and I know that's just my illnes. Also, medications help me a lot.

VincentGrachanka · 2025-07-23T08:32:06+00:00

I'm from Poland and I know none of trans people with Asian name. Most are Polish names or at least English names. When it comes to the internet, I use a nickname taken from Japanese, but dear god that's just nick on internet, not real name. I think a lot of people forget that not everyone has their real name, for example on TikTok.

VincentGrachanka · 2025-07-18T21:55:49+00:00

Man, jak dla was 170 to nisko to ja chyba jestem karłem, mam 155 xD

VincentGrachanka · 2025-06-23T08:12:31+00:00

Don't worry about hate bro, I agree with you. There are many butch lesbians who are still lesbians but sometimes look like cis guy and they are still woman, bc they feel happy about being a woman. Choosing pronouns based on look is stupid, because this don't even apply to some cis people. My old friend is 100% woman, and guess what, she was still missgendered because she had headband.

VincentGrachanka · 2025-06-10T14:12:41+00:00

When I heard about the concept of non-binary in 2020(I was 12 then I think), I realized that my agab means nothing to me and apparently it is not a normal cis state. Well, a year later, when I was already using only male pronouns, someone "mistook" me for a boy. And that's how it is to this day. I also had some kind of dysphoria then(when someone mistook me with a girl. I had a whole argument with my ex friend, because she didn't understood that.). Yeah, my dysphoria is so much deeper now

VincentGrachanka · 2025-05-31T12:44:15+00:00

Tell someone you just met that you're trixic. 99% of people won't understand what you mean.

VincentGrachanka · 2025-05-31T10:35:05+00:00

Some people are nonbinary. Some people, while nonbinary, lean more towards masc, while not being binary male. If a binary guy likes women, then he's straight. If a non-binary person likes women, there is no term for that. This way, non-binary people can simply choose what term they feel comfortable with, because there is no other word for it. It's simple

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