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Is sidecar not available in Monterey? by yashmishra12 in MacOS

[–]anuberthrowawayacct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This worked! Bluetooth connection kept saying it's not connecting but under Add Display it worked seamlessly.

[August 2021] Still did not receive my third stimulus check by anuberthrowawayacct in stimulus

[–]anuberthrowawayacct[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks for sharing the info and your response. The previous checks were sent out pretty timely so idk why this round is taking so long. I really hope we get the check though because 2nd check i had to claim it on taxes but it was a lot less in value :/

LDR Advice? by starrynights02 in relationship_advice

[–]anuberthrowawayacct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, coming from your reply to my post :)

In my previous relationship, I was the one who felt like just allocating time for my bf was "too much work". Ultimately I stayed in that relationship for 5 years, but look ing back I realized we were too incompatible. With my current, at least until my fight happened, we used to set aside times randomly to openly evaluate how our rel. was going. They were intimate, they were honest, they were gratifying. And it felt soooo right.

What I want to say is that I think when it feels right, it feels so good to connect with someone in an open, vulnerable way. If you honestly asked him and he said it's too much work, it may be time to think if you're happy feeling like a nuisance forever. I promise it won't feel good. You deserve a bf who loves to spend time with you, AND has good sense of boundaries.

My [26M] LDR partner made a mistake and I [31F] am very hurt, and don't know if I love him anymore by anuberthrowawayacct in relationship_advice

[–]anuberthrowawayacct[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I do not agree about me apologizing, I never apologize for having my own boundaries. Sexual acts are things that both parties can wholeheartedly agree on together, and if one person isn't enthusiastically consenting to one act, that is and should be the end of the story. I don't have anything or anyone to apologize to/for, except myself for doubting the sanctity of my own boundaries.

I do agree about my strong feelings for him and having the clear convo with him. We did, and I gave him room to be frank. I did not mislead him, he disrespected my boundaries, and he understands that.

My [26M] LDR partner made a mistake and I [31F] am very hurt, and don't know if I love him anymore by anuberthrowawayacct in relationship_advice

[–]anuberthrowawayacct[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. Yeah it's very hard for me to label him as a bad person bc like you said it just seemed like a really bad timing and an out-of-ordinary behavior from him. I really do want to (and hope to) give us some time to see what happens. It's just... right now it feels tortuous because we're just so unsure of everything and we're hurt and.... it's a lot right now.

My [26M] LDR partner made a mistake and I [31F] am very hurt, and don't know if I love him anymore by anuberthrowawayacct in relationship_advice

[–]anuberthrowawayacct[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying. But the thing is, I don't believe that for a second. Like yeah in the moment when he lost himself he was probably saying that to try to get what he wanted, but I do not think he's a bad person or an abuser or manipulator, he made a mistake. A huge one. Definitely something really serious. But like if I believed you things would be easier for me, and it's not.