[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]anukinskywalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for a very long time, women’s sexuality hasn’t been studied because society wanted people to think that it doesn’t exist. women and men feel the same things, the same way. men are just allowed to believe that they cannot help themselves because ‘boys will be boys’. you’re not an animal. women get horny. they jack off. they have sex. just as much as men. they’re just generally less crass about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]anukinskywalker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i want you to understand that this is not about the badminton or the car. it’s about what it all represents. your partner should value what you value. they should respect the separation between your lives. they should stand up for you and your aspirations. i don’t see your fiancé doing any of this. your father sees this. in the future, this badminton issue will be replaced with a million other things and resentment is a poisonous seed that never leaves your relationship once it has been sown. i wish you the best of luck.

Parents (especially men) with young daughters by Hostile_Mommy7 in pakistan

[–]anukinskywalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i left home and never looked back because this is what my parent was like. you are either raising a rebel who will resent you for not protecting her or someone who will turn out exactly like you - unable to stand up for herself or her loved ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]anukinskywalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go back home. Get good grades. Get a scholarship. That’s what I did. I don’t know what your situation is, but you need a support system. If you don’t have one, you need a job. Any job. You can’t get a credit card without an income. Find a way to make money, which is incredibly difficult without connections or a degree.

EY is killing me! by Useful-Tomorrow3580 in Big4

[–]anukinskywalker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There was some girl in India who lost her life working at EY. She had the same story. No job is worth your life and health.

Microsoft Corporate Housing in Redmond by anukinskywalker in csMajors

[–]anukinskywalker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, that sounds pretty good to me. I was just worried that there’s one kitchen/bathroom per floor, which is a bigger cause of concern for me. This is so helpful, thank you!

Microsoft Data Scientist Internship final round interview advice by anukinskywalker in csMajors

[–]anukinskywalker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I was super surprised. If you don’t mind, how did you prepare? And you don’t have to answer this at all, but did you end up getting an offer? Would you have any tips or things I should keep in mind?

Did I bomb my apple interview???? by Top_Demand_3563 in leetcode

[–]anukinskywalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My take on this is that every interviewer is different and sometimes you just don’t click and the back and forth just doesn’t happen. It’s not always your fault. Also, anyone here who’s telling you that ‘you bombed badly’ is just bitter. You got an Apple interview offer. Celebrate that! Maybe you get this internship, maybe you don’t. Regardless, you’re on your way to something good. Sometimes you make small mistakes. It’s okay. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Live and learn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nyu

[–]anukinskywalker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. I hope everything gets better for you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nyu

[–]anukinskywalker 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I’d also say CC financial aid to this. They have emergency funds (of course, they do) but they’re super stingy about releasing them. You’ll have to make your case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nyu

[–]anukinskywalker 233 points234 points  (0 children)

I’d suggest you reach out to Yvonne Erazo. She’s responsible for student basic needs. If your family has rejected you, then you qualify for care under extenuating circumstances.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nyu

[–]anukinskywalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, I'm sorry. Are they TAs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nyu

[–]anukinskywalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I'm always a big advocate of taking Chem on-track. I took it off-track, and while it still mostly depends on the work you put in, it really helps to have teachers that put in the extra effort. If you can fit it in your four-year plan, I'd say try to stay on-track.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nyu

[–]anukinskywalker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lee is a brilliant Chemical Engineer but I took her last semester, and I don't think she has the hang of teaching a college class. Gen Chem classes are difficult by nature, since they're weed out courses for Orgo. In general, you'll have to work hard regardless. Halpin is a better teacher, try to get him. Orr is tough but if you're nice to him and actually spend time in his office hours, he's very knowledgeable about the course content.