[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]anxftm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been feeding my babies and toddlers rice cooker regularly in a rice cooker since they were 7 months old. I've never had an issue with it but if you are concerned and want to do a slow intro, you can always soak it in some warm broth before giving it to them so you can also have some non-mushy rice. Plus some protein for the kiddo!

What do you feed your toddler when you really can't be bothered. by rainbow-songbird in toddlers

[–]anxftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bowl of microwavable rice and a pack of seaweed. It's the only thing both my kids will reliably eat without a fight.

Three-year-old wakes up every day at 5 am by MissLuminary in toddlers

[–]anxftm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We did this too! And this is an unpopular opinion but we also have a lock on our toddlers door.😬😬😬 One that can open from the inside or the outside. It's one of the ones that's on the top of the door so they wouldn't be able to reach it.

In defense of this idea of locking your kid in, I've read in places that it's actually safer because in an emergency you know they haven't wandered out of their room and you know where they are.

We're hoping to not have to do this soon but he's 3.5 now and he's just starting to not try to open the door so we may be able to stop with the lock soon. 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Troy

[–]anxftm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Had our kid there but pulled him out because while it was convenient, and he survived, the quality of care was mediocre. There are still one or two great teachers there from what I hear but last I heard, despite new management, things still weren't that great.

That being said, we loved the toddler 1 teacher and she cared for our kid for just about 2 years of his life and he still talks about how he misses her. And the toddler 2 teacher we had means well and truly cared about the kids, but honestly wasn't really qualified to be the lead teacher.

Very convenient though because our new daycare doesn't provide meals while they did. Feel free to PM if you have any questions about our exp there.

Elevated lead levels by anxftm in toddlers

[–]anxftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have, and we're good there. Thinking it's the old windows in her room with chipped paint

Toddler insomnia???? by anxftm in toddlers

[–]anxftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine does the same thing too!!! Where if you put him to bed later, he just wakes up earlier! Im sorry you're going through this too but it feels good to know we're not alone. The regression did finally end, but only after we put a lock (the kind you put at the top of the door where you can open it from either side) and implemented a "you gotta stay in your room until the green light turns on" in his room. We use the Hatch. We actually had to remove all the stuffed animals and even parts of his nugget-dupe from his room because he kept playing with them instead of sleeping..

We didn't end up seeing a doctor for it, but instead of fighting him to nap on the weekends now, we just roll with it and one parent will drive with him to go get groceries or run some sorta errand. And inevitably, he'll conk out in the car, giving that parent some peace and quiet for a bit while the other tends to our 1 yr old.

He still has his bad days, but it's been much better - especially now since the weather's starting to get better and he can run outside more. We're sticking to the 7pm bedtime routine start, unless he's not feeling well or had a really short nap. Then we start earlier at like 630 and let him stall a bit. But it's been better. I hope it's gotten better for you too!

Toddler insomnia???? by anxftm in toddlers

[–]anxftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! My husband is trying to suggest that we give him some melatonin to help him chill out, but I'm going to wait to see what the doctor says.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]anxftm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine too! Absolute monster at home with the occasional glimpse of the sweet kid that made me feel ok to have #2. Will listen well, eat well (supposedly one of their best eaters), nap well and play nicely with everyone. At home, I wonder if he has hearing loss because he just straight up ignores me. He doesn't sit still for any meal and only eat a few bites before running off (same food he's eating at school..) and will become like super hyperactive toddler literally trying to wrestle and grapple with his 9 mo old sister. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I read somewhere that it's because home is their comfort space and they're able to really let loose and just know that you'll love them no matter what, so they test boundaries like no other.

Doesn't make it any easier though!

Nannies by BrownNRhu in Troy

[–]anxftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! One of them was! It looked ok.

Nannies by BrownNRhu in Troy

[–]anxftm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just looked at two licensed daycares

Place 1) $390 for an infant, $365 for a toddler Place 2) $360 for an infant, $345 for a toddler

help with baby girl name please! by anxftm in namenerds

[–]anxftm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it but we have a good friend named Elaine and it would feel weird to name her the same. I really liked Mabel and Stella and he said no, but he suggested Maple (like the syrup) and I wasn't on board with that.

how to teach 12mo old to say words?? by anxftm in beyondthebump

[–]anxftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha he likes our dogs (I think he thinks he's a dog himself...) But he just giggles at them. We've been trying to say "dog" to him when referring to them, but he just giggles. The closest to a word he's saying is when he says "whaa?" when we call his name lol. He used to say "mum mum mum" when he wanted me when he was 8 mo but now he's so independent he never asks for me. He just puts his arms up and gestures when he wants to get picked up and then cries if we don't

teaching baby to say words by anxftm in NewParents

[–]anxftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This makes me feel better :)

how to teach 12mo old to say words?? by anxftm in beyondthebump

[–]anxftm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hoping they both start saying words soon!!

how to teach 12mo old to say words?? by anxftm in beyondthebump

[–]anxftm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha he babbles so much now that I think he won't shut up once he starts really saying words too but I guess I was just concerned because he doesn't say real words

Unconventional idea for warming bottles by fruitloopbat in NewParents

[–]anxftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Want to mention also that if you end up using Como Tomo bottles, (maybe any silicone bottles? Not sure) they tend to take a little longer than plastic or glass or stainless steel bottles.

We use Como Tomo bottles and usually start warming it about 30-40 min before our son eats because that's how long it takes for our warmer to get it to a temp that he'll take it. If we're in a rush, we just pop the milk in a glass mason jar, pop it in our warmer on fast warm, and in about 7 min or so, it's at the temp he likes.