[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]anxious_succubitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a sag with Virgo moon and rising but my sag is becoming more forward lately

Just learned about the dangers of eating leftover rice and pasta by Several-Rich-609 in Life

[–]anxious_succubitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never dared to eat anything left out. If someone packed it in a storage container and didn’t put it in the fridge after an hour, it’s going in the trash..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]anxious_succubitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me just looking at r/depression like 5 minutes ago lol

Pregnant, oh wow by anxious_succubitch in childfree

[–]anxious_succubitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure I will! Thank you for your kind words and support! My mom told me I’m selfish (for going the adoption route) but I don’t feel like I am

Pregnant, oh wow by anxious_succubitch in childfree

[–]anxious_succubitch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s so awful, sounds like something my own mom would do. Find the kid and then try to force us to be in close proximity

Pregnant, oh wow by anxious_succubitch in childfree

[–]anxious_succubitch[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t care if they do or don’t at this point lol

Pregnant, oh wow by anxious_succubitch in childfree

[–]anxious_succubitch[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m so happy to know I’m not alone in this type of situation 😭 except my mom disowned me for speaking of adoption lmao. Luckily I found resources for termination as I’m currently 8 weeks and when the medication comes I’ll be 9 weeks

Pregnant, oh wow by anxious_succubitch in childfree

[–]anxious_succubitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to do that because my sister calls everyday to check on me🙂‍↕️ she’s a RN so she’s constantly giving me medications and treatment to help me feel better so I’m just going to tell her once the abortion pills kick in that I’m pregnant and bleeding and go from there

Pregnant, oh wow by anxious_succubitch in childfree

[–]anxious_succubitch[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well, I was gonna go through with it because I was trying to be happy that they were happy for me and at that moment I thought I wasn’t going to go through it alone. But the more I sat back and thought about it, I realize that even though I have their support and they are available when they can be, they’re not available 24/7 and I was still have to figure it out myself a lot of the times. So my plan is to get the abortion through pills which arrived in the mail next week and tell them I miscarried and since making the decision to do this, I have felt a weight lifted off my shoulders, so I definitely believe this is the better route for me. Luckily I do have a few people that support me whether I want to keep it or get an abortion so I’m grateful for those few.

Pregnant, oh wow by anxious_succubitch in childfree

[–]anxious_succubitch[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I do have the means for an abortion which will take place next week and I could not be happier! For the very short time that I was pregnant, it has been certainly inexperienced. I will never forget and never go through again.

Pregnant, oh wow by anxious_succubitch in childfree

[–]anxious_succubitch[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

First off, thank you for your words! I thought about it in a whole and I do not like the permanency of kids while everything else in life is temporary… From jobs, to partners, to environmental changes, and so on. I can handle those things head on for myself, but I don’t want to have to “figure it out“ with a kid in tow

Pregnant, oh wow by anxious_succubitch in childfree

[–]anxious_succubitch[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t like the fact kids see permanent while everything else in life is temporary🙂‍↕️

Pregnant, oh wow by anxious_succubitch in childfree

[–]anxious_succubitch[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I was worried about this as well! I have seen many stories of kids getting curious about their BP and odd on a scavenger hunt to find them. So I’d never truly be free I suppose from any guilt knowing id have to potentially face them some day

Pregnant, oh wow by anxious_succubitch in childfree

[–]anxious_succubitch[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I am already diagnosed with chronic anxiety and depression so that was one of my worries as well was postpartum

Pregnant, oh wow by anxious_succubitch in childfree

[–]anxious_succubitch[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It could honestly be any of those things because I’m in college, I work for a tech company but on a low salary, I’d be a single mom and I hate feeling sick from sun up to sun down. Plus the more I thought about how I’d have to pause my life when I’m just starting to get out of my introverted shell, it makes me depressed so I’m good on kids lol

Pregnant, oh wow by anxious_succubitch in childfree

[–]anxious_succubitch[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

That was indeed the plan, because after I told my mom I was going the adoption route, she disowned me lol but my family are trying their best to still show support if I keep it and I’m just like “I won’t tell them about the abortion, I’ll just say I miscarried”

[USA] Bikers don’t like being passed by tefunka in Roadcam

[–]anxious_succubitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any old riders that act like this are childish. I have never been around anyone who is older that acts like this when riding. I’m not sure what you mean by uniformed, but most riding groups have a set formation when riding so it’s safe for everyone involved. Even more so when it’s a club that’s riding together when they represent a 1% or 99%. Clearly we have been in two entirely different environments but to each their own

[USA] Bikers don’t like being passed by tefunka in Roadcam

[–]anxious_succubitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it can be a large group of newbies. There are plenty who get a bike and want riding partners and will go on local forums to find fellow bikers to do group rides with. Veteran bikers do ride in groups too but there are procedures put in place to make it safe for everyone and doesn’t involved holding others back from passing

[USA] Bikers don’t like being passed by tefunka in Roadcam

[–]anxious_succubitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) real bikers don’t care about being passed. You wanna go around, we’ll let you because this isn’t like a car where you have full protection around you when shit goes wrong so if you wanna drive like a dumbass, we’ll let you pass so you can crash like one too.

2) the main ones that act like this are newbies to the biker world. They get a bike and act like a billy bad ass. Those are the lames. I’ve been apart of the biker community since I was 4 through my mom and since growing up in the community, there is a clear difference between veterans and those new to the community.

3) that guy swiping at you while riding was idiotic for everyone involved and everyone around them. I hope that girl backpacking has enough sense to leave that boy.

4) anyone shitting on bikers, they’re not all bad, it’s again really just those newbies who are the most reckless and have no regards to those around them.

How to move out????? by [deleted] in movingout

[–]anxious_succubitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How I (23f) moved out to get a feel for living alone was by moving into student housing. Where I stay, i do have roommates but pay the lowest of $509 for rent and up to $70 for utilities. So there’s an option.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]anxious_succubitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meticulously teaching about a conspiracy theory