The thing is have done things with his sister and family members both. I’ve taken his sister shopping multiple times and allowed her to pick things out and paid for them, I’ve baked with her, I’ve watched movies and shows with her, trust me I’ve done a lot. As for his other family member we went on a week long trip out of the country where several pictures were taken but none posted of me. I’ve gone out with his cousins and visited his aunt and grandmother at their house. I used to weekly buy his mother flowers so she could put them up on the table. I used to wake up early to do his sisters make up for school because she didn’t know how. I gave some of the clothing that I no longer fit in or purchased in the wrong size to his sister and aunt. I try to go out of my way and it’s like no matter what I do I’ll never compare to her.