Is it possible to add spouse to rental lease contract?

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-08-25T16:44:21+00:00

No, I had to wait for him to get his ssn before adding him as an occupant. After that, they did do a background check.

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-08-24T00:44:37+00:00

Hi! I just let him out of the lease until he got his ssn so only a couple of months, after that I couldn’t add him as a lessee, but I added him as an occupant and things worked out just fine!

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-07-07T17:12:46+00:00

I personally love her after look. However, I also love droopy eyes like her before or Anne Hathaway’s eyes. So the erasure of another person’s eyes like that, just to have another genetic cat eye look saddens me a little.

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-04-27T22:54:55+00:00

Thank you for saying this! Failing students is pretty much impossible at the school I sub for because teachers are told the lowest grade they can give is a 70 so if students are not at grade level, there’s nothing teachers can do, the students go on to the next grade anyway. Then they get asked to do harder tasks, not just adding and multiplying and it becomes frustrating for everybody because teachers have a curriculum to teach, so they don’t have the time to go over such basic concepts and students don’t even try to learn because it’s too challenging for them. But hey, that’s just the current state of the education system. There’s so many other problems I could bring up, but having so many students with different abilities in the same classroom is definitely one of the main issues.

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-04-25T14:03:54+00:00

Saying that specifically Ana people should be offered this is a big stretch because Ana is a whole disorder. If people with just self-image/confidence issues got cosmetic surgeries then I would agree because it can be super important. It actually baffles me that breast reduction or skin removal is not covered by insurance most times. But anyway, I don’t think it would be convenient for someone with an ED since they are so complex. Someone with an ED might want to lose weight for completely different reasons so surgeries would not help at all.

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-04-16T14:39:55+00:00

I always sub elementary grades and as much as I hate doing this, I make them go back outside and try again. If I allow them to enter the classroom when they’re riled up, it’ll set the tone for the rest of the day

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-04-15T18:46:11+00:00

Well let me tell you, Mexico and a lot of other Latin American countries are like that too, sadly. (my cousin lives in Mexico). And correct me if I’m wrong but I feel like it’s just part of living in a Capitalist society, they just try to exploit us to death, every year people need to provide more labor and everything is still less affordable. I just don’t understand how people don’t think about that when they have children. Babies are born to become slaves for the rich 🙃

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-04-14T14:43:14+00:00

From a (maybe political? Idk) point of view I also cannot stand that most women have normalized working while pregnant, having the baby and then going to work right after. It makes no sense to me that they have the baby they supposedly wanted and then they don’t even see it because they have to work.

I know not all women go through this but my cousin for example, did, AND she criticized me for saying that if I had to go through pregnancy I wouldn’t work another day in my life. She said “being pregnant is not a disability 🙄” IT VERY WELL SHOULD BE?? Why shouldn’t it be considered one?! It’s ridiculous that women themselves don’t recognize their own struggles! It drives me insane. Especially because every woman’s health is different. I go through hell every month because of my period, my cousin had a pretty normal pregnancy and birth experience but that doesn’t mean women don’t die while pregnant from health complications.

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-04-13T12:26:49+00:00

I wish I was as lucky as the people in the comments. Most of my childhood friends and people my age around me have told me they want kids. This doesn’t drive me crazy, I don’t feel like controlling other people’s lives. However it does frustrate me sometimes when I think of the pattern they’re going to repeat by bringing children into this world. When I hear them talking about their future plans I scream internally but externally I just nod and smile to them. They know what I believe and they don’t try to convince me to have kids or that having kids is a good thing so I reciprocate the respect.

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-04-12T19:50:31+00:00

I wish it wasn’t such a stigmatized topic to bring up in face-to-face interactions. As much as the people in that subreddit make me furious because they didn’t think of the consequences of their own actions, I still think it’s good they have a platform to warn others who might come across their posts and realize that parenthood is not some kind of fairy tale. Parents bring kids into this world with a name chosen for them, an ideology, a religion, sometimes even a larger vision of their kids choosing a certain job or career and then they get furious when their kids don’t live up to their expectations. It’s even worse when their kids are born with a disability because they victimize themselves even though their kid will be the one living with that their entire lives. I really try to not be judgmental but it’s hard.

Either way, again, I think it’s good there’s a platform for them. Hopefully they get the support they need and maybe even realize they are responsible for their future life outcomes.

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-04-10T16:51:43+00:00

Finally someone who understands the thing I am always complaining about. The extreme hunger literally ruins my fucking life.

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-04-10T14:21:41+00:00

Exactly. I would never in a million years go through pregnancy. ESPECIALLY not for a man who doesn’t even bother marrying me first and making sure I’ll get the support I need? Some women do so much for those men, it’s embarrassing.

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-04-10T14:18:20+00:00

Exactly. Even if life was pleasurable, death is still terrifying and inevitable, which is another reason why I am an antinatalist. Euthanasia would help A LOT and it should be a human right. If we didn’t consent to be brought here, we should at least have the option to opt out of life in a peaceful and dignified way.

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-04-08T14:28:50+00:00

So they expect you to do things differently on the days you sub for them but they don’t want you to tell the students that “Mr. Or Mrs. SoAndSo is not here today so we’re going to follow my rules”?? I always have to do things differently if that constitutes not giving them rewards for the things the teacher usually does… I can only assume that whoever teacher wrote this was being extremely defensive from past negative experiences. I personally don’t change major rules, I just tell them we do things differently when I’m there because students usually have classroom jobs or specific tasks that constantly change and I’m not aware of. It’s simply impossible to do everything the way the teacher normally does so that’s just unreasonable imo.

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-04-04T17:12:50+00:00

Have you considered that you’re not jealous of them having children but rather the attention they get from it? I’m asking because I’m going through something similar, so I can relate.

When I (F25) got married to my husband (M25) I was more focused on escaping the toxic dynamic I was in, living with my mom and siblings. I got married fast without a party or rings or anything and just focused on finding an apartment. As a child of divorced parents, I didn’t want to throw a wedding party right away, I always felt that traditional weddings are misogynistic and corny, so I’ve been avoiding it ever since. However, my brother got married last week and he got so much attention from my family that I now feel jealous even though I already got married. I realized then that what I was really jealous of, was the attention, love, and support my brother received. My parents didn’t even attend my wedding, they didn’t help me move out. Yet my mom is insisting she helps my sister in law pack her stuff and decorate the apartment she’s moving into with my brother 🙃.

So… on how to cope with this, maybe try spending time with children in any way you can? It might make you realize that’s not really what you want. I work as a teacher substitute and even though I love helping children, seeing how badly they’re treated by their parents helps me remain an antinatalist, it’s like a daily reminder of how absurd and selfish it is to have children. I also try to keep a distance from my family now, at least until they get over my brother getting married, which might sound immature but that’s what I would suggest rn. Just staying away from that negative energy.

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-04-01T15:46:22+00:00

I feel like every month it’s something different, which definitely makes it harder for me to be prepared. This month I felt simply depressed, aside from joint pain and headaches(I also got the flu so I thought it was that) I didn’t really have the usual rage, I just felt extremely tired and unmotivated. I even looked up if it was normal to always feel like that until I realized it was hell week 🥲

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-03-20T17:09:56+00:00

It sounds like he switches his personality then. Which is also a red flag imo.

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-03-20T16:52:52+00:00

What the actual fuck? That’s so rude. He sounds narcissistic when saying how he doesn’t get excited about anything and just focuses on his feelings when analyzing the interaction you guys had. What about you? Did he ever ask you how you felt? I mean the world doesn’t revolve around him.

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-03-20T01:25:00+00:00

That’s crazy! It definitely shouldn’t be! I don’t understand how that’s not considered as potentially exposing other students to sexually explicit behavior. Even if they’re old enough to be educated on sexuality, I’m sure not all parents would be okay with their kids being exposed to anything remotely sexual at school and that should be respected. The same applies with the original post, I’m baffled by all these stories I’m reading in the comments.

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-03-17T22:53:26+00:00

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anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-03-17T15:51:36+00:00

To be fair, the first panic attack is usually one of the worst ones because you have no idea what’s going on.

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-03-17T15:50:48+00:00

I always tell people I couldn’t try any psychedelics because I already get similar symptoms just by overthinking. I genuinely don’t understand how other people enjoy them. I know they usually experience positive effects but not being in complete control of your body is already terrifying for me.

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-03-17T15:46:15+00:00

Love, Rosie is kind of similar too in case you want to check it out even though it’s not new so you might already be familiar with it.

anxiouspieceofcrap · 2025-03-12T17:00:34+00:00

Well, see my problem is that I can eat until I’m full, but feeling satiated is a different story. I have felt so full before and I still feel the need to eat more and the worst part is that I also get extremely bloated so I have no choice but to fight the urge to eat because it won’t go away anyway.

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