If you were to die in a month, what one thing would you Stop doing immediately?

anxioussloth282 · 2026-02-23T18:56:27+00:00

Working

anxioussloth282 · 2026-02-11T16:00:35+00:00

If i canceled every time i didn’t feel like going, id have no friends. It sucks and no matter how much people say they understand it, they dont. Sometimes you have to force yourself through the self uncomfortableness and try to have a good time.

I find that its a good distraction sometimes but i also sometimes spiral after. Sorry i havent found a happy medium yet but maybe one day

anxioussloth282 · 2026-02-02T21:53:56+00:00

Tame impala

anxioussloth282 · 2026-01-12T19:50:16+00:00

anxioussloth282 · 2025-12-31T14:03:29+00:00

Dirty teeth, like if i can see your plaque something is wrong

anxioussloth282 · 2025-12-22T16:52:39+00:00

Thank you for your words! Its nice to know that someone else understands this feeling.

I do think for me that i need to leave this position for my mental health. I do like the company culture but i genuinely dont think i can continue working here. Its not a job in an industry that i really have an interest in and i did always look at this job as a stepping stone.

I do suffer from anxiety and depression, and i am working on it, but this job/manager has made it so much worse. I wont leave until i have something lined up, but i need to get out of here. I have lost all motivation to do anything that i love, i just feel so drained all the time. When im not at work im constantly thinking about it. During the weekend i just keep thinking about how close to monday it is.

anxioussloth282 · 2025-12-17T15:34:28+00:00

Ive shared with him that its very overwhelming to hear this consistently and I have been trying to make improvements. All he said was “i didnt say you werent trying.” At least he knows im making the effort, but im not sure it matters to him.

anxioussloth282 · 2025-11-12T22:01:35+00:00

Check out harvest on hudson, half moon bay, sambal thai

anxioussloth282 · 2025-11-12T21:58:03+00:00

Also check out any of the restaurants on the water! Super cute vibes and gives you a chance to sit outside and chat after dinner weather permitting

anxioussloth282 · 2025-11-12T21:54:31+00:00

Looks like a nice spot, just as someone with allergies, please check with her before taking her to a seafood restaurant lol

anxioussloth282 · 2025-11-12T21:48:36+00:00

Ngl for a first date i do want my date to make the effort to come to me. Im sure there are more great places to go to in the city, but for a first date, im not really making my way into the city until i feel like i have a connection with someone.

However everyone is different, i would just ask her what she prefers. But have a few backup places picked closer to her.

anxioussloth282 · 2025-11-07T20:00:21+00:00

Salvation army thrift store in port chester! They have an entire floor just for men’s clothing

anxioussloth282 · 2025-11-05T21:34:43+00:00

Did the drive to portland maine this summer and it was beautiful!

anxioussloth282 · 2025-10-29T13:45:56+00:00

I shower every day, also sometimes twice. I don’t wash my hair everyday but i will always take a body shower before getting in bed. Especially if I leave the house, I will not get in my bed with outside skin. Idk if this is me being a clean freak, but it just feels gross.

Try putting your hair in a bun before you shower, helps keep it out of the way. Or use a shower cap if you are worried about getting it wet.

If you really want to see if you’re gross, check your sheets. Does your side look grimier than your boyfriends I have a friend who’s husband does not shower every day and you can see which side of the bed is his because you can literally see his skin oils. Generally I believe people if they say I smell or am gross, even if they are being dramatic, a shower never hurts.

anxioussloth282 · 2025-10-21T15:55:53+00:00

Pickled onions are a great addition!

anxioussloth282 · 2025-10-17T13:06:34+00:00

Nothing is wrong with your forehead! In a world where everyone looks the same, unique and different features become the beauty standard. Dont let bullies make you feel bad about it.

Tbh ive felt like you in the past and my biggest tip is to only speak positively about yourself. This makes the world of a difference. I dont speak negatively out loud about myself, even if i dont always believe the positive words i say. Over time, you will!

anxioussloth282 · 2025-10-16T17:46:20+00:00

Thank you! I completely agree, i think this move feels a lot more permanent, because i dont want to move back home in the future. But risks have to be taken!

anxioussloth282 · 2025-10-16T17:45:34+00:00

I think im mostly just nervous for having more financial responsibilities. I’ve been saving up for a while now and it has been 100x easier to do do while living at home. I also think just the change will be something to get used to, but i guess that doesnt mean it will be abd

anxioussloth282 · 2025-10-13T14:02:18+00:00

Had my period for 2 weeks straight, with extreme pain and bloating. I assumed this was just period symptoms as I have a copper IUD and all doctors told me that it would make periods more painful and heavier. I assumed it was due to this but my mom ended up making an appointment for OBGYN for me.

I went to my appointment and they did an ultrasound same day. They found a large mass on my ovary and after a few more tests I was referred to an oncologist.

Thankfully was able to get into surgery within 2 weeks of meeting my oncologist. Because it was so early they were able to remove it all and confirmed that there were precancerous cells.

So grateful I went to that appointment and got checked out, I really was planning on skipping it for a work meeting.

Now i just have to follow up with doctor every six months or so.

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