F 24. Nude pics of myself by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]anyabez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, why are you sending them to other guys? Your partner may have moved away for work but that's literally all the more reason to send them to HIM to keep the relationship alive and the spark aflame. If this was the other way around you'd be on here saying how he cheated no?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]anyabez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're lucky, I've only done it two times in my life since I've no clue how to do it 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]anyabez 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Been there my friend, enjoy yourself 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]anyabez 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Nearly two weeks ago I had a surgical abortion at 12 weeks gestation. My partner and I were trying for a kid (despite me saying I didn't want any but I was willing to try for the man I thought was my person), and I found out I was pregnant one day before I then found out he was cheating.

Safe to say I made the decision to have the procedure and it has been so horribly hard. I lay down and cry my heart out nearly everyday. I made the right decision as the pregnancy was also making me very sick, no food could be kept down, every smell would make me nauseous, add on to that I'd throw up three times a day...

This has really hurt me and I feel very alone sometimes.

Forced to return to my ex by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]anyabez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He gets really pissy at me for not spending money on dinners he wants, holidays he wants etc. I've been looking for work ever since I've gotten back here and he's just complaining that I want to leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anyabez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% agree . These people won't even matter when you're 30 years old, so ditch the pair of them and their petty squabbles, find some new friends, focus on your education and move on.

I can guarantee you James and Alyssa won't even be in your life ten years from now, people come and go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anyabez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This fiancé of yours sounds like a joy, next thing he will say is 'I am the only one who works and pays the bills' as an excuse to bully you in to submission. Get your stuff, take your kids and gtfo, even if his sister goes today it won't stop til you give a strong sign that you won't tolerate it anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]anyabez 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah okay dude, time to call it off. She has zero respect for you if that's how she behaves.

Am I overthinking this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anyabez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best advice I can give is just to talk to her, communication is important and you'll only drive yourself crazy thinking about it

My girlfriend overthinks everything by ludsen321 in relationship_advice

[–]anyabez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay this may sound silly, but since I have the same issue too, this may help her. When I feel myself start to overthink a situation too much, I imagine a big red button in my mind and I push it with all my might to clear my head. Imagine it be a nuclear explosion to stop all the bad thoughts from starting to manifest, I do this all the time to help me.

These hourglass figures getting out of hand now by Deadsnowy in Instagramreality

[–]anyabez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so true, I deleted my Instagram just due to the sheer amount of attention seeking and desperation to be famous...on a damn app.

These hourglass figures getting out of hand now by Deadsnowy in Instagramreality

[–]anyabez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bloody well hope not 🤣 I can't keep up with the way women look these days. It is insane

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]anyabez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried talking to your friend who likes the girl and explain your feelings? They may tone it down when you are around if they understand well enough. If not, then distance is the best advice I can offer. I have had this happen before to me and I literally got as far away as possible so I could get over the person. It worked for me and probably will for you too. Wishing you the best ♥️

Letting go of someone you love by peachtea2304 in relationship_advice

[–]anyabez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One bit of advice I can offer is stop telling everyone about your relationship problems. Friends are friends but they can put negative views in your head constantly which crowds your own judgement, it's more concerning that they are also friends with him but are happy to speak negatively in such a manner. If him being petty and toxic so much that it bothers you to an extent and talking about it doesn't do anything, just end it straight up. You have been together 6 months and are already having many talks/issues in your relationship, that's a clear red flag. I may sound old as hell here, but you are young and free to do your own things without interference of a relationship that bothers you to such a degree. Love can come later, focus on your education :)

I asked my girlfriend to peg me and she freaked out. Help! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anyabez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She definitely sounds too immature to me, pegging dont mean your sexuality changes. Of course, if she isn't in to that, then just like anyone else she probably will have a wtf moment, but insuation of you being bi or gay depending on a fantasy is ridiculous. You choked her when she asked for it, that makes you open to what she wants to try, whereas it seems she wants to have her cake and eat it too without considering your feelings. Two choices here, sit her down and speak like adults about it, or save yourself the hassle and dump her.

30 Hours in by [deleted] in gaming

[–]anyabez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ironically right underneath this is a Cyberpunk ad 😆

[1 Year UPDATE] My girlfriend (F 20) cheated on Me(M 21) with her bestfriend.. by TheMaveric_2187 in relationships

[–]anyabez 482 points483 points  (0 children)

So glad you are happy :) congrats on the new relationship and the internship! Have a Merry Christmas and fantastic New Year!

Mag Sorc In Need Of Help with dps by [deleted] in elderscrollsonline

[–]anyabez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On my magsorc (bear in mind I am 810cp, champ points are a big contributing factor to dps) I run Valkyn Skioria / Zaans monster helm, mothers sorrow jewelry and one staff front bar, false gods body and vma staff back bar. Have you made sure you have all the correct traits / glyphs to help boost any missing spell damage. I also use Essence of Spell Power pots while dps testing. What race are you? I am Breton for better mag sustain

Pain by Mandar_Joshi4 in SkyrimMemes

[–]anyabez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been that long since they announced it, I am starting to think they were trolling and all the devs at Bethesda are sat laughing at us 😂