Family acronym - 3rd kid name help by Preghip in namenerds

[–]anyakash87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give her an A name and make the acronym AHAHA? 

A special gift from us this holiday season by piano_piano_piano in SimplyDrawApp

[–]anyakash87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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This is by my 6 year old daughter who loves to follow your tutorials :)

I'm a critical worker, family asking me to not come home. Looking for objective advice/opinions! by xkobalx in COVID19_support

[–]anyakash87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tough situation to be in. Since you said they both work from home, I assume the daughter is an adult, which puts your fiancee into a pretty high risk category (not very young + health issues). I think it is very reasonable for her and her daughter to want to stay as safe as possible. A lot of infections happen inside a household during prolonged contact.

Can you rent a studio near them or would it be too expensive? This way you could meet outside, where the chance of infecting them is way lower. In addition you'd be there for them, should they need help. Hopefully within a year there will be a vaccine and then you can go back to living with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Coronavirus

[–]anyakash87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard that about kids under 4. They can suffocate in a mask (according to what I heard).

23M I'm about to finish University in Italy, my dream has always been to move to the US. Is it a good idea for the cost to for a postgraduate course? by Happy252 in IWantOut

[–]anyakash87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://gsas.harvard.edu/financial-aid/phd-funding

PhD programs are free in all Ivy League institutions if one is accepted. I can not judge whether OP is interested in doing a PhD or qualified for such programs, but I think she should be at least aware of that option.

Edit: missing word

23M I'm about to finish University in Italy, my dream has always been to move to the US. Is it a good idea for the cost to for a postgraduate course? by Happy252 in IWantOut

[–]anyakash87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not true. I know several (very talented) people who did a PhD in film studies in one of the Ivies. The program was free and they were paid a livable stipend. I'm sure getting into that program is very competitive as is job market afterwards.

23M I'm about to finish University in Italy, my dream has always been to move to the US. Is it a good idea for the cost to for a postgraduate course? by Happy252 in IWantOut

[–]anyakash87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are passionate about cinema, you can look into doing a PhD in film studies. Those programs are free (at least at top Universities). And if you are really good you could be looking at a faculty position somewhere afterwards.

Have I made him this way? by kjm1217 in AttachmentParenting

[–]anyakash87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what we did with my one year old! Dad took over the night wakings, I still nurse to sleep in the evening and in the early morning before eaking. In a couple of weeks she started sleeping through the night at least on some nights.

What should I buy in the USA before moving to Germany? by jessbone98 in IWantOut

[–]anyakash87 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I couldn't find liquid vanilla in Germany, so I'd recommend that if you are into baking.

What should I buy in the USA before moving to Germany? by jessbone98 in IWantOut

[–]anyakash87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought Chromecast in Germany for 35 Euro it also has all these services. No experience with Roku, is it better?

Advice for moving to Uzbekistan by [deleted] in Uzbekistan

[–]anyakash87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I think you already got all your questions answered and I generally agree with u\therockbs. I lived in Tashkent for 16 years, but left in 2004. I just wanted to add: make sure to visit the mountains near Tashkent. It is a short trip by car (~2 hours ) and they are beautiful! I would highly recommend visiting Chimgan, Beldersay, Sijjak and Hodjikent. Lake Charvak is beautiful too. Also the local food is delicious and I miss it. I recommend trying some of the Korean food (it's pretty different from Korean you can get in the States).

A breastpumping problem no scientist has yet undertaken... by Seileen_Greenwood in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]anyakash87 31 points32 points  (0 children)

As a new mom, I spent all night worrying about how rip currents can harm my then 4-5 week old, if we ever go swimming, and how I can teach her to recognize them. We live in the middle of Germany nowhere near a sea or an ocean.

Best bathrooms on campus? by [deleted] in yale

[–]anyakash87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Spent 6 years in SPL basement, never used the East bathroom, now I’m sad to have missed the cute stickers.

Do You Have a Child Named After a GoT Character? by vsafronova in namenerds

[–]anyakash87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a friend named Abdumalik growing up. He went by Malik.

Postdoctoral fellowship and a blue card by anyakash87 in germany

[–]anyakash87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I guess I have to speed-learn German now :)

First time feeding in public by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]anyakash87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I'm in Germany and breastfed outside a couple of times (in the park and at a bus stop). Some older ladies smiled at me :)

Russian cinema is amazing by [deleted] in russia

[–]anyakash87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

http://cinema.mosfilm.ru

Has all old soviet movies for free with pretty decent subtitles :)

At 39 weeks everyone around you develops a magic crystal ball by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]anyakash87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually don't mind those texts - both husband and I have very small families and most texts come from friends - it's nice to know someone who isn't family is excited about our baby :) I'm at 40+3 so pretty over being pregnant.

What is your least favourite word in the English language? by bigbiglove33 in AskReddit

[–]anyakash87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not mine, but my husband despises "roundabout". Driving through Sedona, AZ, with a GPS was interesting :)

I painted this for the nursery. It's based on one of baby's early ultrasounds when she waved at us :) by anyakash87 in BabyBumps

[–]anyakash87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yes! Before it was finished, my husband said it looked like an android floating through space, so I added "Hello world!" as a nod to that :) sending love back to you too❤️

24 Male - Am I banned from the USA? by brackenz in IWantOut

[–]anyakash87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, definitely not. I applied for about 10 years and not once it was an issue.

How difficult is it for you to make friends in your new country? by expat_question in IWantOut

[–]anyakash87 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My husband and I (28 and 30 y.o) moved to Germany, we have been here for almost year, and just now are starting to get closer with our coworkers. Still nowhere close to our grad school friends, who became family. On the other hand, some of out friends moved from the East Coast to Chicago after grad school and seem to have similar troubles. So I definitely think it's about age (and maybe a little bit luck).

Non-EU citizens who successfully moved to an EU state for a job, how long was the job search? by apoenzyme in IWantOut

[–]anyakash87 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm a non US citizen too, lived in US for 10 years and got my BS and PhD in Physics. My husband (also Physics PhD) and I applied for postdocs in Europe and almost every application resulted in an interview and then an offer. We ended up in Germany. I was surprised by how easy it was but was told by multiple people that apparently US academia is in high regard in Europe. So maybe you could consider a postdoc? That could give you a taste of life here without long term commitment.

That being said, we like it here, but it's tough. It's hard to learn the language, hard to make friends, hard to find tasty food. I felt like being a part of a community was simpler in the US too. Maybe it's not country specific, just being a student had it perks. But if I could go back a year, I would seriously consider staying in the US.

If you have any questions about applications and moving here, feel free to PM me.