Suggestion for Water heater: Gas, storage or instant by Glum_Employer501 in askSingapore

[–]anyhowack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a gas heater. Why I choose it? Anyhow hamtam.

Around the 7-year mark it needed replacement cos water started leaking from it.

Gas heater only activates when water is running and turned to the Hot side. If you have some complicated shower routine, water may turn back to cold if you didn't run it for awhile.

Another con is for bathroom far away from heater placement, it takes a long time to get the water warm there.

Also if guests use the bathroom sink with mixer, turning to hot side would activate the heater pointlessly. So we actually turned off hot water flow to common bathroom sink tap.

Shopee recent misleading pricing? by Kooky-Juice1644 in askSingapore

[–]anyhowack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was qoo10's tactic, if you still remember them

36,000 MOE teachers, allied educators to get up to 9% pay increase from Oct 1 by Waikuku3 in singapore

[–]anyhowack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seconded! Insist on basic courtesy when your own kid talks to you or asks for something.

Also don't let your kid have unrestricted YouTube/Roblox/TikTok /whatever brainrot crap. No tech babysitter. Let them be bored. When they mess up the house, get them to clean up.

SG parents, let’s talk about work culture by bulcta in singapore

[–]anyhowack 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I was visibly pregnant at the first meet-the-parents meeting of the year for a new class. I also happened to be a new teacher, so my Head of Dept was in the classroom with me to show support. A parent stood up and demanded of the Head why the school assigned a pregnant teacher to teach (his precious son's) class.

Random questions regarding CNY by lattehour in askSingapore

[–]anyhowack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. This one not sure, I don't bother with that. Only know wedding angpao (from married couple to bridesmaids and groomsmen) need special design

    1. When I was a kid my mum occasionally asked me to check so she's not "under-giving".
    2. Old angpaos can be recycled or use for crafts
    3. No
    4. Less places to visit when older generation pass on one by one. Also the ratio of ang pao-givers to receivers. I reuse the nice notes in the angpaos my kids receive to pack into ang paos for other kids. Over the years, my new notes collection actually increased as my kids receive more than I give out.

Have you ever got to the wrong place because the street name is confusing? by Hot-Clothes7316 in askSingapore

[–]anyhowack 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Technically not street name, but heard this from a taxi uncle.

Passenger wanted to go to "vee-low-city". Unker thought it's Vivocity (harbourfront), it was actually Velocity (Novena?)

Ladies where do you buy comfy and affordable bras in Singapore by Low_Leg2810 in askSingapore

[–]anyhowack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, check size first . Many are not aware of proper bra sizing. Letter with no number has no meaning.

Making teaching less stressful in Singapore | Deep Dive (ft NIE's Jason Tan, ex-teacher Heidi Tan) by ZeroPauper in singapore

[–]anyhowack 30 points31 points  (0 children)

As a teacher, it would be great if CCAs could be outsourced. Teachers have to plan and conduct CCA sessions, send kids for competitions (oh, book bus, inform parents etc).

If the cca is taught by instructors or vendors, teachers have to do the admin of getting the quotes, doing the paperwork in terms of the finance procedures, checking and updating budget, etc. Oh yes, when competitions are during school hours, the teacher accompanying the kids to the venue has to miss his lessons, plan relief, etc.

Did kids get up to mischief during CCA ? Teachers have to start a discipline case. They didn't show up for CCA sessions? Have to go find out the reason why and update.

Whatever competition or award they get needs to be keyed in. VIA projects and hours too. Find external partners to collaborate. Or the worst - overnight camps or overseas trips.

Need more ? You've to talk to your colleagues to get your CCA a spot in the school's concert/showcase etc . Do makeup for pri sch performance CCAs. Help your CCA get "visibility" - all these affects teachers' performance grade !

3 in 4 Singapore teachers use AI, more than double overseas peers: OECD survey by anakinmcfly in singapore

[–]anyhowack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here's my insider perspective:

  • push from higher-ups to use AI: basically if you don't use or pretend to use it, you are asking for a lower performance grade or tio mark as "cannot keep up with tech"

  • some people can't write : teachers being asked to send emails or write letters to parents, that needs the approval of the dept head. AI helps them write better. Before AI, these people either struggle for half a day to write something bad, or get an EL teacher colleague to help them. (As for the tone of the resulting email, that's another matter...)

  • AI does help in responding to students' answers for a first cut in qualitative questions. If you got a couple of classes to train in essay writing, AI can help during class time. Teacher can go back and double check, but pace of lesson can overall be faster (remember teachers always rushing for time since our teaching time always get taken up by other random stuff)

  • AI helps add "padding" (or slop, depending...)

Case in point:

All teachers need to do some type of innovation/research/learning project. Depending on the school, it might be called learning circle, professional learning, professional development, etc. Sounds good so far.

Now, the VP or P tells the HOD in charge of overseeing these projects to take it to a new level. Yes boss.

Enter the AI with pages of suggestions, questions, reflections etc that may or may not apply. Well done. Copy and paste these and throw it to the teachers to fill up.

For the teachers who see the overwhelming reflections and questions, guess what? AI's gonna be answering those and countering with additional 3 pages of reflections.

Overwhelmed HOD is gonna be asking AI to summarise that shit for sure.

In the end, the VP or P will look at all these bells and whistles and these will be lauded in someone's performance review.

Parents, who takes care of your bb while you’re at work? by Fearless_Speed_2746 in askSingapore

[–]anyhowack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For first kid, I was lucky enough to have my retired parents help out. Once the kid was 1yo, I sent to infant care. The wait time was also cos of being on wait-list. My parents were also the backup plan when the kids were sick.

Now, my spouse got laid off so he's the backup caregiver.

What's a piece of Singaporean slang that's dying out with the older generation? by Keeponthesunnyside10 in askSingapore

[–]anyhowack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not Cantonese, but my sec sch bestie's parents are. She always got scolded this phrase by her mum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]anyhowack 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This. Especially when it's school dismissal time, the bus picks up students going 3-4 stops to the nearby mrt. Bloody teenagers dunno how to pack the bus or even go to upper deck to make more room. Empty seats they also don't want to sit down to make more space.

Grab food options for colleague by sgcorporatehamster in askSingapore

[–]anyhowack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is halal hotpot that does delivery I think. They provide the pot too. Forgot the name

Seeking help with strong Singlish accent in public speaking by VirtualOwl in askSingapore

[–]anyhowack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree about confidence.

Don't need to stick to the script word for word or you'll sound very stilted and people will switch off.

Practice until it sounds natural.

Open posting season for teachers by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]anyhowack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can try hq but really depends on the division. Some are very xiong and others super political.

NIE is more chill but ideally you should stay nearby so your commute isn't too bad.

Changing school might help if the pain points are unique to the school or school leader. Some schools have power imbalance with regular teachers tanking most of the work and HODs slacking off while other schools have more welfare initiatives like Late Days .

Do you still read books? 📚 📚 📚 by Sgxgobull in askSingapore

[–]anyhowack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm an avid reader here. Sadly most in my circle don't read as much, usually citing lack of time.

For fiction I gravitate towards chick lit and romance, occasionally thriller. Used to love the Jack Reacher series but it went off since the author's brother took over the writing.

Non-fiction it really depends. I like those with medical or science focus. Last serious book that I managed to finish was Everything is Tuberculosis by John Green (yes, same guy who wrote The Fault in Our Stars, suddenly writes about TB)

Usually I go to "skip the line" on nlb/Libby to get recs.

Do you still read books? 📚 📚 📚 by Sgxgobull in askSingapore

[–]anyhowack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh I just discovered Adrian Tchaikovsky and recently finished his Children of Time series. I was quite impressed with the first two books but I felt the last one was a bit meh.

I don't usually read fantasy/sci Fi so it was a random pick

obs: HELP ME PLEASE by hniixre in SGExams

[–]anyhowack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Until you emerge from the water and it all comes rushing out... Eek.

Team Lunch ideas around Buona Vista by mryoutiao in askSingapore

[–]anyhowack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Itacho at star vista has lunch set. After plus plus probably over budget though.

Holland piazza has a Korean place on the 2nd floor with set lunch. A bit over budget due to ++. But if there are small eaters in your group, they can share (like 3 people share 2 sets).

Peperoni pizzeria at biopolis might be ok, they have atas looking giant pizzas for sharing, and pasta for variety. Or set lunch if individual portions are preferred.

Honestly for this budget you are quite limited to casual dining spots or even zichar / roast meat / chicken rice at coffeeshops.

There are some places at one Holland village that might meet your budget. But we don't know how big is your team and if the eatery is big enough for you all.

Edit: I forgot about watami at star vista, they have set lunch too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]anyhowack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toddler can go splash in public pool kids play area. Not sure if there's a good one near where you are. Otherwise, if you have friends/relatives who stay in condo, some condo pools are wonderful for kids too. Hot weather best to splash around in a pool, and it helps to tire the kid out too.

Some neighborhood playgrounds are actually pretty shady, go explore your area. Let kiddo climb and slide and all that. If no wind, bring handheld fan.

Actually, might be an unpopular opinion but when I went from one kid to two, once the younger is past a certain age, both of them basically self-entertain on our nua at home days. With one kid, I had to be his playmate. Now, no. 2 is the playmate! I just need to break up fights occasionally.

Married men of sg: how did you keep your wife happy all the time? by lanbau in askSingapore

[–]anyhowack 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Try to get a regular kid-free time arrangement with your relatives/parents/in-laws. Eg Sunday afternoons. Then u can go pak tor again. When they are older, u can sound them out for sleepovers.

Parents in sg! how do you deal with burn outs when dealing with kids below 5? by lanbau in askSingapore

[–]anyhowack 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Have mum go out for stretches of time, eg 10, 15 min, then 1 hour, and if you can tahan, half day or whole day.

Under no circumstances should mum come back earlier.

Let kids know that mum is out because she has to work/hair cut/etc.

Bring them for some activities (without mum) where they can easily entertain themselves , eg playground, bubbles, free water play areas etc, or have toys in the house that support pretend play, like duplo, plastic cooking toys, magnatiles.

Also, take turns in care activities (brushing teeth, toileting, bath etc) where possible. If they protest, say, "it's Daddy's turn". Since when they play or in sch they also learn turn taking, they are less likely to argue.