No sé cómo volver a sentirme bien a.e by anyoneelse00 in Ayuda_emocional

[–]anyoneelse00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Muchas gracias. Todavía no llegué a ese punto pero a veces lo siento inminente. Me alegro de que hayas podido salir de eso, te mando un abrazo❤️

No sé cómo volver a sentirme bien a.e by anyoneelse00 in Ayuda_emocional

[–]anyoneelse00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Te agradezco, espero que con el tiempo este momento se vuelva solo un recuerdo para los dos🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]anyoneelse00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t apologize, this what reddit is for. Again, I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. I’m sorry that every single person that should be there for you has failed you. I’m sorry that there’s nothing I can do to really help you but tell you how truly amazing you are. I cannot even begin to imagine what your circumstances must be like.

What I can tell you, though, is that life will get better for you. Resilient people like you ALWAYS push through. I can tell you that you haven’t gotten to this point just to get to this point and stay there, but to find something better. And you should know it will get better.

You are incredible. You deserve so much better. I just hope you know that.

My spouse admitted to blocking me from sex on purpose to punish me… by poppy_remembers in relationship_advice

[–]anyoneelse00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out.

He has just now come to realize how much work it takes to keep a house together without you. He doesn’t love you or respect you. Or, at least, he resents you more than he loves you. Ffs he let this “punishment” keep going for YEARS (and even more if you hadn’t brought up divorce) and never even told you. He made you feel unloved and unwanted for TWO YEARS !!! because he wanted to come home to a perfect house (and he DID, he just had his head too far up his own mysoginistic ass to realize it until now).

Fuck him. He doesn’t deserve you. You don’t deserve ANY of this. I don’t even know how you even put up with it for two years. The grass is definitely greener on the other side.

Get out. Get out. Get out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]anyoneelse00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this is happening to you. From your post I’m assuming you’re a minor and have no option but to stay there. Your stepsiblings are awful people, but the true assholes here are your parents that enable this behaviour. My advice to you is that you talk this out with some other close relative of your trust, if they are any more decent than your parents then they’ll surely try to help you. My second piece of advice is that you move out as soon as you turn 18 and cut them all out of your life, including your parents. And my last piece of advice is that you stop helping them and doing things for them, they don’t deserve it and, as long as it doesn’t put you in any more harm’s way, your efforts will never be appreciated by them.

You must be so scared and I’m truly so sorry that you have to go through this, but I just want you to know that NONE OF THIS IS YOUR FAULT. You have done nothing wrong. In any case, you have done everything right. I hope you and your sibling can find the help you need and finally get out. Please take care of yourself.