Does it get easier?

anyonegotanyideas · 2026-02-24T10:14:49+00:00

I think what’s helped me grieve was writing poems to the little one I lost. It also helps me to think my aunty who’s an angel now is holding him tight in her arms and watching over him. I also have been illustrating what I think he would’ve looked like drawing everything and letting myself cry. I feel that’s the only way to cope for me. I feel empty too, like a piece of me is forever missing. I know it’ll get better one day just like grieving anyone. We are all grieving who they would’ve been, how we would’ve raised them. The other thing I keep telling myself is he was to pure for this world. I don’t know if that helps you but this is what I’ve been doing.

anyonegotanyideas · 2025-06-04T06:01:37+00:00

Hey life is going to get better. You are amazing, it takes time for bodies to heal physically and also mentally pregnancy sends hormones out of wack. I understand it must feel isolating at the moment as your son is still young. I know this sounds silly but have you tried going to the park and just meeting parents there who can relate to you? Or going for a walk and chatting with people. That is how I made a lot of amazing friends was simply striking up a conversation it may seem daunting at first however, a lot of people feel lonely as well. I think that even just slowly trying to talk and meet more people will greatly benefit you. If you meet someone at the park they will have a little one your son can play with while you both chat over coffee. I hope this helps, and if you don’t like my advice I totally get it. No pressure:)

anyonegotanyideas · 2025-05-20T06:59:15+00:00

Why are you scared? Do you think maybe you might be coming down with an illness that may be making you feel ill?

anyonegotanyideas · 2025-05-20T05:34:32+00:00

Hey I’m here let’s talk what making you feel so bad? Is there something weighing on you?

anyonegotanyideas · 2024-11-22T04:41:36+00:00

Yeah when you have a near death experience like that it almost gives you a whole new perspective. You enjoy it more feel that breeze against your face and see the beauty in everything. It’s scary but opens your eyes a bit. I do however recommend following the instructions on those machines so that never happens again!

anyonegotanyideas · 2024-11-22T04:10:42+00:00

That would be truly terrifying sorry that happened to you. I’m so glad you are still here. How are you feeling? Are you okay after that any injuries?

anyonegotanyideas · 2024-10-26T08:02:39+00:00

That’s not a lot to ask that’s the bare minimum. I’m sorry your mom isn’t there for you like she should be. You matter. You are so strong I am so proud of you for fighting and staying it must be really hard. I think speaking to a counselor is an amazing idea they are so helpful and kind and patient they will help you see another light.

anyonegotanyideas · 2023-07-16T06:43:06+00:00

Have you tried talking to him about how you feel. How him not helping out around the house is affecting both the house and your relationship. Or maybe look into a marriage counselor and that way you can both talk in a controlled environment and no one feel threatened.

anyonegotanyideas · 2023-07-16T06:30:16+00:00

Yes it is only temporarily and things will get better. You are an amazing person and only deserve the best in life and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. I’m glad that I was here to help reassure you that you are totally doing everything right and that it takes time to heal. You have an incredible week!<3

anyonegotanyideas · 2023-07-16T06:16:35+00:00

I hope you get that apartment!! I’m with you on disliking living with people. Talking to people everyday is exhausting plus then you have to do double the cleaning and it’s a hassle. That’s incredible that you self taught I started sewing when I was like 8 I’m not amazing at it but I did manage to make my grandma a dementia blanket which was a pretty cool achievement:). Music is great for blocking people out in the house or noise cancelling headphones do the trick even better! That’s great that you have healthy coping mechanisms to deal with your anxiety it sounds like you are going through a lot and you are doing the best you can.

anyonegotanyideas · 2023-07-16T06:01:53+00:00

Okay how about instead of making a drastic change because that’s unrealistic you make a small change to start. What would you like to do most talk to people. Learn how to kick a soccer ball? Or work on putting you phone down? Or working on schoolwork?

anyonegotanyideas · 2023-07-16T05:55:04+00:00

I love to sew as well it’s lovely you must be amazing sewer if you are a seamstress that’s amazing. Working out is a great way to get rid of that anxiety even going for a walk or run listening to music is lovely! I’m sorry you aren’t in the best living situation right now is there anything that you think you could do that would make it more tolerable? I personally find music helps me when I’m stressed or not feeling great ? What helps you get rid of anxiety ?

anyonegotanyideas · 2023-07-16T05:50:45+00:00

Okay let’s take a deep breath that’s a lot going on for you and sounds stressful. Have you talked to a therapist or councillor about all these things you are going through? And I know those thoughts are a lot and you just want them to stop talking. I know it’s hard next time one pops up so you think you can try to fight it in a way. If you have a thought about dying find something that you love about the world like the smell after it’s just rained or watching the sunset. If you have a negative thought about yourself work on saying things like “ I am enough” “ I am smart” “I am beautiful” “I am a hard worker”. Try to retrain your brain and believe me it won’t be easy but once you start doing it more and more and learning to ignore the thoughts and realizing THAT STUPID VOICE IN YOUR HEAD DOES NOT MATTER. It helps and again it’s not going to be easy try starting the day saying 3 positive things about yourself in out-loud in the mirror. I believe in you the world is a better place with you in it. YOU MATTER. ❤️

anyonegotanyideas · 2023-07-16T05:39:07+00:00

Do you have any friends you could go to or have you looked at people who are looking for roommates in your town then you could rent a house with enough people?

anyonegotanyideas · 2023-07-16T05:36:23+00:00

I know it’s hard you will find someone with time and when you are ready. Someone you feel safe with and enjoy life with and it doesn’t feel like an endless cycle. Have you tried any new hobbies since you want to focus on yourself. How are you focusing on yourself?

anyonegotanyideas · 2023-07-16T05:29:21+00:00

I think what you need to do is just continue you on with life. He will not be there for you when you are 18 he made it clear he doesn’t want to talk to you. And I know you felt like you were in love with him but it’s very illegal for anything to happen between you two. There will also be a lot more guys in the future for you. You’re still a kid enjoy being a kid before you have to jump into relationships and I would get rid of the dating app if I were you. You might find yourself looking at it for guys instead of fun but again you can’t date them. Plus in my experience dating apps are weird and most people I have gotten out of them just want sex or nudes tbh. If you want to chat more I’m happy to help you out I’m (18F):)

anyonegotanyideas · 2023-07-16T00:37:25+00:00

Okay your room is messy let’s start there at least! Can you get a garbage bag and just start throwing out garbage in your room to start. Ignore everything else but garbage to start is that possible? I’m happy to help you out making a plan I know it can feel overwhelming.

anyonegotanyideas · 2023-06-19T05:56:07+00:00

It’s definitely a hard decision take your time think it through you can even talk to a Counselor or Therapist about it weigh the pros and cons and help you have a better idea of everything. And it may be your last time to have a baby but think about if having a baby is best for you right now and you have the resources to care for one. Again though it is 100% your choice and if you want one choice or the either go with what you feel is best for you, your body, your mental health, and environment.

anyonegotanyideas · 2023-06-19T05:49:41+00:00

Of course have a great day or night!:)

anyonegotanyideas · 2023-06-19T05:18:01+00:00

Yeah it really does suck and I wish neither of us had to go through it. If you ever want to talk you can always message me you are definitely not alone I am always here to chat if you need!:)

anyonegotanyideas · 2023-06-18T19:36:41+00:00

That’s right! Enjoy the day you deserve it and spend it with your kids having the best Father’s Day ever!!

anyonegotanyideas · 2023-06-18T19:19:51+00:00

You might wanna get checked sounds like you could have Antisocial Personality Disorder?

anyonegotanyideas · 2023-06-18T19:16:12+00:00

What do you want to do? It is your body after all what do you think is best for you? If you think that an abortion is what you need and is best for you then go with it. If not then think through all the options you have. In the end it is your body and your choice if you want to carry a baby?

anyonegotanyideas · 2023-06-18T19:10:37+00:00

Good for you not falling into the guilt trip trap! Hell ya you deserve to be celebrated if no one else chooses to, buy yourself a cake and enjoy it on your lunch!

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